Like a second hand times moves on, but alas I read of the instas, the submissives being targeted, bad experiences. You can call me old fashioned, but I am proud of who I am - I have been told a number of times, (and I refer to male alleged doms - they don't deserve a capital D), that I should not carry the weight of these predators upon my shoulders and yet I feel that I am apologising at times for the actions of these individuals. I am male, I am a Dom and feel it is a responsibility I have to uphold my position amongst chaotic individuals whose only aim in life is sexual gratification - chalking numbers - taking a submissives submissive virginity and damaging the scene.
I have been quiet for a while and I am very happy in my relationship with Roaming Wild, but as a self reflective person I am always thinking and considering how am I acting - am I giving enough is she happy?
So to all those out there who feel it is appropriate to act inappropriately - but your self in the other persons shoes, think how they feel how they will feel - the world is difficult enough, treat every person with the respect they deserve - if you can't do that then seek a site that caters only for casual meets.
Basically don't fuck it up for those who are here because they care.
Thanks it nuff said.