The best thing to spend on your submissive is time. FD
A tree cannot stand with out its roots. Zairian proverb.
The same goes with a relationship it cannot last with out truth and honesty. FD
As far as rearing children children goes, the basic idea is to keep in mind the child is a person. Just because they happen to be a little shorter than you doesn't mean they are dumber than you. Frank Zappa
The same with a submissive, the basic idea is that they are an adult, just because they do not meet your eye contact it doesn't mean they are less intelligent than you, they have a brain use it. FD
Being a Dom is one of the greatest opportunity in the world, to have a submissive and watch them flourish through all the stages of their development. To stop and reflect on the dynamic,you can remember the wonderful times you have and are having, but always thinking that the greatest gift a submissive gives you is their selves. FD
It is almost impossible to smile on the outside with out feeling better on the inside. Anonymous