After waking at an unearthly UK time that I would simply record some thoughts going through my mind.
I am a person who is embracing the scene, I have been told that I am a gentleman Dom by a number of people, but most importantly of all my adoring submissive, with whom we are exploring our life journeys together.
But I am intrigued by people, how many of us here whether in chat or simply logging on check out the profiles of new members, or even some of the older members? I know that individuals have the right to say as little or as much as they want, but many of us will look at a profile and judge immediately. In many of these instances we will be right, the insta, predator, victim screams out. I have seen phrases, 'take you to the edge of death and back', 'no limits', 'no safe word', seen the typical male name joined profile - some of these people then scream that they are not taken seriously, cant get a submissive, Dom/Domme. Do some people even read what they say about themselves then self reflect on the words.
The self proclaimed 'expert Dom' after 2 years in the life style is a prime example, I have a mantra you live to live and never stop learning therefore I would never class myself as an expert. I did have a run in with this style of alleged dom, who after 'reading' my submissives profile decided to approach her directly, (it says any approach is through me), I politely responded explaining the dynamics to he messaged, 'fuck off dickhead' then blocked me shame as I thought we were getting along. This person is still active and clearly respects people.
By the way anyone else wanting to 'buy' my wonderful submissive, she is priceless.
I may hold old fashioned values at times, I always have believed that part of the attraction off a gift is the unwrapping, the anticipation - so what is is with the dick pics men? Are people so shallow, lacking self confidence that they cannot express themselves adequately without displaying themselves. I do wonder about Dom/Dommes displaying intimate pictures too, but maybe this is just my morals. For me beauty is in the whole originating deep in the eyes and is lead by a personality. Yes you may have a big dick but can you hold a conversation?
Right enough of my ramblings hours kip then work calls.
This was written half asleep hope it makes sense.
