New Daddy and I have settled into a very nice routine. He comes to spend the night on Wednesdays and I created a ritual of giving him a nice long body worship session, after we do vanilla life things like family dinner, a glass of wine, and sometimes sitting out by the fire pit. On weekends we are either at his place or mine. This weekend I helped him reorganize his kitchen and bathrooms. He has been a total bachelor and while everything was kind of “organized chaos” he needed a little help with efficiency and space management, and even though his house is gigantic it’s FULL of stuff that only another neurodivergent can understand/relate to.
We have discovered that in order for me not to be totally useless, he has to limit the time of day and number of orgasms he gives me. If he doesn’t then all I want to do is cuddle on the couch and suck his cock. So on the weekends kiddo is with us we don’t do any fooling around until bedtime and keep it kind of light. Weekends kiddo isn’t with us there’s more kinky play time with less adulting things.
I never could follow the rule about no orgasms without permission until him. I guess maybe it’s different because I know I’ll see him in a few days and I usually completely abstain unless I’m with him physically. By the time he gets here on Wednesday I’m so worked up that the least touch puts me on edge. He says he loves that he can take me from 0 arousal to max with hardly any effort, and he just loves making sure I stay right on the cusp until he has me alone at bedtime. He also loves that I can’t get enough of his cock in my mouth and actually has to tell me no sometimes when he wants to fuck me instead.
We are going to start working toward selling his house soon. He wants to have it repainted and spruced up first. We decided to sell his house empty, putting most of his things in storage and him living with me until my lease is up in November. At that point my lease will be month to month so we can take our time looking for a new home together. I would estimate around July for him to make the move.
I gave him full control over my diet and exercise and we both love it. He got me a Whoop, Ketomojo monitor, and Chronometer all so he and I can closely monitor my health. I’ve lost 8lbs in 2 weeks. I had been stuck at the same weight for months and it turned out to be because I wasn’t eating enough and when I did eat, not the right things. I do still struggle with eating enough but he stays on top of that and makes sure I do, even though I get all pouty when he makes me finish a meal. I have a doctors appointment on the 26th and he actually took a day off from work to go with me. He is such a good Daddy 💕
I do have moments of sadness regarding former Daddy, mainly because I worry about him being all alone. His birthday will be hard for me because I know I was his only person. Our old anniversary will be hard for me too. We have not spoken once since I walked away, which has also been hard because it hurts my heart to think about him being lonely. The whole thing hurts my heart because I so wanted him to be my one, but I also don’t tolerate people with no follow through and most certainly not in the person I choose as my life partner.