In life, “how you do one thing is how you do most things”.
Examples:
* If someone cleans their house in a half-ass way consistently, then they probably do most things half-ass.
*If someone consistently whines about having to work hard, they will most likely whine about having to do any type of hard work; on themselves, in a relationship, whatever that may look like.
*If someone has to be consistently reminded about the little things or details, they don’t pay enough attention. 🚩 They will let the little details in all things pass them by without notice... no bueno
Personal Example: I am a world class procrastinator. This applies to everything I do and is a major “red vote” in my life for my life. * I have searched within and am sure this is because I love a challenge, nor can I turn one down very often. Now instead of over-analyzing this part of my character to death; I just need to challenge myself in healthy ways. (Something I believe will be helped with a d/s relationship.)
Now enough focus on the negative. Don’t forget the flip side!
* Someone who has put obvious effort in the way they approach you and continue with the effort, is someone who probably puts effort into anything that matters to them.
*Someone who consistently does kind acts, is a truly kind person.
Now the examples could go on and on, as it is in everything. This belief has helped me in identifying potential partners/friends quickly and potential disasters as well. It also has one paying more attention in how they go about their own life, which is never a bad thing in my opinion. Also see that most examples have a running theme of consistency, that is the key with this belief.
Everyone stay safe and much love. 💕
-Knotti