First I would like to kick this blog off by apologizing to the real Doms on this site. You have to deal with the aftermath of fake Doms who don’t understand the true meaning/ways of this lifestyle. If the subs they damage even make it as far as sticking around to find a true dom. The apology extends to the subs as well.... chin up ladies and gents, stay strong in your spirit and don’t let them get you down.
To the pretend Doms out there: A dom is a gentleman and a grown ass man/woman that doesn’t resort to name calling when politely denied with good wishes. That is poor behavior in any world vanilla/bdsm. A dom listens to a sub and acknowledges her or his concerns, instead of just dismissing them.
No one should call people names any way it’s mean and unnecessary, you don’t like someone don’t talk to them. If your angry go hit a punching bag or something don’t take it out on people. No one wants somebody else’s negativity.
To the fake subs out there: Stop it. Real subs have to deal with your aftermath just as much as the Doms and it is annoying. A sub is composed and holds herself to a personal standard of behavior no matter what anyone else is doing.
There will always be people who pretend to be something they are not, so I guess those of us who are sincere just have to deal. Chin up everybody, don’t let the fakers and haters keep you from taking risks to find your partner or your true self.
Much love everyone.
-Knotti
P.s. If someone threatens you, you should block them and even report them. That is absolutely unacceptable in any lifestyle (those people are predators/abusers) and if neither of those appeals to you, I have friends in low places 😉 and please do not let those people reflect the sincere people in this lifestyle , never let them cripple you like that. Chin up 🥰
