Roger's Thoughts on Ds Relationships & Dynamics

The Kraken​(dom male) - Agreed 100%, Topeka Sir !
The topic inside is intended for many new-ish folks who don't yet know this process works and want some guidelines and landmarks, possibly even having been intentionally mis-informed by someone not so nice.

In the next few talks, I address the exact approach used by everyone experienced and legit - and give a ton of examples of all the fun & sexy ways Dom and sub or even Top and bottom work -together- to create -their own- unique framework which connects them together by mutual bdsm likes & dislikes. And how they can have a blast figuring out these out together and, all in due time, take their play or dynamic deeper and deeper.

I also give strategies for various personality types to work out consent even when, for instance, one of them is quite shy. And methods by which people can develop powerful and much needed communication skills - skills that will make them a better and more powerful human.

Kinky Gurl​(sub female) - I’m really enjoying these talks! Thank you for taking the time to put them together!!

The Kraken​(dom male) - Aww! TY so much, kg, hearing that means a lot to me !
Sometimes I wonder if they are hitting the mark and doing some good for people - glad to know it is working :)) SO! I really appreciate you letting me know. :)))

I'm skipping a beat for the next 3-4 items on consent. Instead of my usual WHY before HOW, I am in the mood to skip right to a bunch of live examples of consent done well and for a bunch of very different dynamics. With just a hint of explanation during---it'll be more story-telling like.

Then, I will go back and explain all the essential rules and traditions during a mega-recap. Sound more fun and less boring?!! :))) I am hoping so.

-K/.

Kinky Gurl​(sub female) - I can’t wait!

The Kraken​(dom male) - TY so much for your care and words :)