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4 years ago. July 7, 2020 at 3:32 PM

This is something that keeps bothering me! I keep getting messages of subs looking for a domme but I clearly put on my profile that I’m not looking for a sub! And I’m only looking for friendship now!!! Even after I tell them this they proceed to tell me their kinks, dick size and how they would be as a sub. Excuse me? Is my profile information a joke to you? And even when I tell them to read the damn profile and get it through their thick skull that I’m ONLY looking for friendship they still keep insisting. So I end up ghosting them. If they can’t listen to something so simple how would they be a good sub? They would just spend all their time questioning every single thing I do or say. 

TheChimera​(sub female) - Anymore, I have a link on my profile in big red letters that says to read. (Goes to a blog post explaining why I might have gotten nasty, or ignored someone.)
If someone PMs me now, I just throw the link at them and ignore 'em~ lol.
4 years ago
MelMell​(dom female) - That’s actually a pretty good idea. Just make a blog explaining why you are ignoring the person. I actually skimmed through what you put and I see the merit to it. Just that even when you explain things in such an easy way people still don’t understand. So honestly it’s easier to just ignore them or tell them very seriously that I DON’T want a sub.
4 years ago
TheChimera​(sub female) - If you don't mind: https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=36329&blog_id=60083

That's the link I send out. Pretty much places everything in a nutshell.
Also adds a nice bit of distance/disassociation with creepers who try to pop in my Inbox as an Instadom~
4 years ago
hunterslave​(sub male) - Read ur profile and yep ir right says not lookin and me not much one read tend get lost in a good movie ir just playing video games
4 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - Nope people don’t, hell some don’t even read the sub next to my name and I get Male subs messaging me asking me to be their Domme 🤦🏽‍♀️🙄
4 years ago
MelMell​(dom female) - I get male doms messaging for me to be their subs when I’m a domme and have no desire to submit. And I also get the male doms that want to submit.
4 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I think reading comprehension needs to be gone over again for a lot of people
4 years ago
MelMell​(dom female) - Or maybe. Just maybe. They never learned how to read! Or they just don’t care!
4 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Kintsugi} - I’d say most don’t give a shite 🙄
4 years ago
Fallible Malleable - I think folks can fall into two categories. You have the ones who absolutely do not read your profile at all. They see a few key words and bang out a mass mailing type message and hit send. The second group are the people read the profiles but, sadly, some of them think that your message does not apply to them. I think some of them act like very young little children and try to test your boundaries to see if you REALLY meant what you typed. I've had a few D types send me messages about being a sub but no where in my profile does it say I'm a sub. If they can't be bothered to read my profile then I can't be bothered to send a reply. Don't waste your energy or time. Delete and move on or delete and file away for when they send you the same message a few months from now because they never got a reply and figure they will give it go one more time.
4 years ago
InYourHead​(dom male) - I have asked myself the same thing. I make it explicitly clear to read my entire profile and I make it very clear exactly what I am and am not looking for. Yet I still get frequent emails from what I am NOT looking for(subs, littlest, etc) asking if I would be interested in trying them out.. HELLO.. READ.. slaves only..

Its irritating because they think they can try to convince me ...

Not going to happen so don't waste my time.
4 years ago

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