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My journey in life and the good and bad that comes with it. But mostly music.
3 years ago. August 16, 2020 at 6:43 PM

There’s one excuse that truly annoys me to no end. This excuse is the so called “I’m busy”. I call bs on that. I’ve used this excuse and let me tell you, I did have time just don’t feel like talking to the person and didn’t want to hurt their fragile feelings or sometimes I simply forget to reply. I have in the past worked up to two jobs while also studying and had maybe about 4 hours every day to sleep and would still have time to talk to the people I care about. I have found that if you truly like someone and truly want to talk to them you will find time even if you have to take time from your sleep. You will find an excuse to go the bathroom at work and shoot a quick “hey how are you?” Text message. Or during lunch time you will call the person and talk for a while. If you happen to be close enough in location you can go to the person’s house when you have a few hours of free time or even asked them to come over and maybe spend the night at your place. So really don’t come to me with the being too busy bs. I can see bs from a mile away since I already probably used that excuse at some point. 

Now for some peaceful music after a rant 😊 because music makes life so much better.

LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - A-men!! I hate the I am soooo busy excuse, one of my closest friends is in a totally different country and works long hours and STILL we can find time to message...time is what you make for someone if you want to make time for them.
3 years ago
MelMell​(dom female) - Honestly a better excuse is “I kinda forgot to reply back”. That’s my excuse and a real one. I forget to reply a lot. I will read message then not feel like replying in the moment and tell myself I’ll reply back later and then completely forget about it! I feel so guilty when my friends call me out on it 🥺 I swear I truly forgot
3 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - Oh I do that all the time 😂 I’ve the memory of a goldfish
3 years ago
MelMell​(dom female) - So do I. I have the memory and attention span of a goldfish 😂😂
3 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - 🐠 that’s the closest they’ve got 😂 I try to not lose focus but it can be hard, not quite goldfish level but maybe a ferret with a shiny toy 😂
3 years ago
MelMell​(dom female) - I’m probably more a dog seeing a squirrel 😂😂😂
3 years ago
LaVieEnRose​(sub female){Learning } - Bahahaha SQUIRREL 🐿🐿
3 years ago
Onlinedomguy​(dom male) - Most of us have busy lives. We also trnd to make time for things important to us. It isn't hard to find a few minutes to text or even call someone even if you only have a few minutes at the moment. It is all about what matters to you and most of us find time for things that do.

I think some do not realize or have empathy for others needs so may not be able to understand why not taking a few moments to connect can make a difference for someone. Even if you are truely busy, then respond as soon as you are done. Just be kind.
3 years ago
Belladonna Dreams​(sub female){Phage'Hada} - My ex use to do this. In the beginning he would reply or let me know when he was busy then he stopped doing that and would ignore me to be on here or talk to the new toys he claimed he wasn't looking for or have.
3 years ago
IceGirl​(switch female) - We all make excuses true the question is why sometimes. Is it done out of malice or cowardice?

We make excuses for our selves as well i can get an extra scoop of ice cream because i had a really hard work out.

I think the most important thing is moving towards honest and transparency especially between people.
3 years ago

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