I was recently called a toxic person and I admit at times I can be toxic just like anyone else. But it got me thinking and analyzing because that’s just how my brain works. This person said a relationship with me would have been very toxic and it probably would have been and not just from my part. You see, when I analyzed the situation I realized that while I have had toxic relationships in the past I’ve also had very nice and relaxing relationships in which I’m still friends with my exes and some even want to get back with me despite it being years since we broke up. I came across one conclusion from all this, some relationships will be toxic because both people will show their toxic side. So while this person was right that I was toxic, I found him just as toxic as me. We kept feeding each other’s toxic nature without really realizing it and we kept arguing all the time.
The point is, if someone calls you toxic or a relationship with you being toxic, it’s not just your fault! Some people are just not meant to be together as both are very toxic. Some people just feed each other’s negative side and toxicity. If you ever see yourself arguing too much with your partner or crush, you should walk away! There’s a reason for it and a hint that the relationship won’t work. Don’t be stubborn or feel obligated to keep the relationship going. Break all ties with that person if you have to or try and see if a friendship would be better. Sometimes a friendship will work instead of a romantic relationship. Another point I’d like to make as it fits this lifestyle is, dominants if you see the person can’t submit to you at all and fights back every time you show more dominance then walk away, submissives if you feel you can’t submit to that dominant walk away. Don’t feed a relationship neither side can really keep up. You will just end up creating such a toxic energy that little by little all the positive emotions will turn negative and both of you toxic natures will come forth and destroy everything and end in a lot of hatred and sarcasm. But most of all DO NOT let someone say you are toxic when they too are toxic. They ARE NOT better than you are.
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