Delving into spirituality is a lot like walking through the forest which and every trail has three possible directions. Walking the trails of spirituality and learning from it’s vast knowledge always results in deeper understanding of both the art you are studying and your inner self.
Bdsm is as vast as the forest of spirituality. Every trail has the potential to split off into two other trails that lead to a beautiful pond where you can wade in the waters of its experience. Bdsm teaches both dominant and submissive control over themselves and limits of breaking and maintaining comfortability.
The trails of spirituality and bdsm often cross one another and lead to similar places. Like two rivers that merge into a single pool. My first experience with such a thing came when I had been meditating every single day for months. I was accessing what is called the primal nature/primal source which is located in the root chakra. I had been drawing the primal essence of my inner self out. I took my girlfriend at the time to a hotel and I tied her up (face down, arms tucked and legs bent, ass up) I spent about half an hour just teasing and flogging and stuff. I set out candles of red cinnamon and red rose petals out creating a magick circle and I spent roughly five minutes meditating and then I felt that primal energy take hold. The dragon came forth and literally devoured my girlfriend at the time. Luckily her pain tolerance and arousal was high. I learned what it meant to access the primal nature and channel it into bdsm.