Embracing my chaotic thoughts and asking for opinions…..

I am the kind of person who hates confrontation and hates to hurt others.  I often take the wounds that I should inflict on others because I would rather hurt myself than someone else.  That being said there are things in my life that I wish I had said, situations where I held my tongue because I wanted to be kind.  As I prepare to spread my wings and fly in the relatively near future….I find words and thoughts bubbling to the surface.  They need to come out.  I need to express myself.  Does anyone else ever want to write scathing anonymous letters?  Not to actually send but rather just to clean these wounds so they can heal….