Kissing Tears

Hisproclivity​(sub female) - My fav is #17...the operations side of me loves it

IceGirl​(switch female) - I dont know how useful this is since in many cases what people want and need will vary with the individual. I dont think you can simply application out a mate or whatever or else why isnt everyone using match. Com and getting perfect matches from there questionare.

AphroditesKiss​(dom female) - That is correct, but you can weed out those who clearly are not matches due to their answers. And I can see how others think about things to see if they share the same view points about things that matter Me.

IceGirl​(switch female) - I am never gonna say if you find something useful not to do it just putting my useless two cents in let me know if it works out for you if you find the secret to this thing profit.

Virginie​(sub female){lcpw} - What if I draw a big red X through the questions and just write ‘pweeeeeeeeeezzzz?’

AphroditesKiss​(dom female) - The answer would be a big fat, NO!

Virginie​(sub female){lcpw} - Kisss

maggiemae​(sub female) - What if you drive through your city & just want coffee and conversation??

AphroditesKiss​(dom female) - Why would you have to go through negotiations to get coffee with someone? I developed these questions for submissives wanting to apply to be one of mine. These are still questions though that I ask everyone when getting to know them, even fellow dominants

maggiemae​(sub female) - I think I was just trying to lighten the mood. Although I am in Fairfield fairly often, I actually just drove through on Thursday and Friday

IceGirl​(switch female) -

1. What does the lifestyle mean to you?
Ñothing reall, i am me injust happen to be into kink
2. What does submission mean to you?
Generally i am not submissive so i dont know what it means to be that way if anything i am trying to learn to have respect for submissive women instead of just viewing them as weak and lacking self respect.
3. What kind of submissive are you?
The only time I tried to be submissive waw with a woman i really loved and trusted even though that was great I doubt i will ever feel that way with another person
4. What do you want out of the lifestyle?
A place where i can be myself and live authentic.
5. Do you attend any munches or local events?
Not really
6. Are you part of the BDSM community?
Not really
7. What are you looking for in a D/s dynamic?
Not sure I am 35 and just getting out of a zombie relationship i am not sure what i want.
8. What do you have to offer a D/s relationship?
Nothing at the moment not sure what I want
9. What are your needs in a D/s dynamic and relationship?
I have little to no needs i am pretty self reliant. I need to do well in medical school i dont need a relationship.
10. What are your needs in the BDSM lifestyle and vanilla?
Vanilla just doesnt so it for me if it lacks passion i cant get off at all so why bother
11. Hard limits? Soft limits? Medical conditions?
As many say don't do things that are crimes i also dont like to hurt people seriously or be hurt.
12. Wants vs. Needs?
I want to be love and feel loved.
13. Who are you?
I am anya kylie a genius mma fighter that has almost no family and alot of past that I have processed to make me a strong person
14. What are you looking for in life?
As much happiness and meaning as i can bring before i die. I am a huge advocate for the poor abused and LGBTIQQA community having my life together is in part a way that i can give back and be a reflection of what is possible.
15. What are your goals, hopes and dreams?
Goals finish my med degree become an outspoken advocate more so on the treatment bof the LGBTIQQA community write my life story documenting what i had to personally overcome from the abuse of my family and society to be myself.

Then of all that works maybe feyt involved in politics for even more change. Somewhere in there find someone or situation where i feel loved and appreciated but hey you said dreams right.
16. What is your plan on how to achieve those?
I been working in em for a while i am about to finish my masters should be applying to medical school next year all things considered i have some drafting done on my life story i worked as an intern for multiple political campaigns so the blocks are falling into place.
17. Where do you see yourself in 10, 20 years from now?

I try not to over predict i mean one car accident could end it all but i hooe its as Dr. Kylie a leading Doctor/ medical advoate in my field while having something that looks like a life around that.

emeX​(sub male) - Thank You Goddess AK for sharing some of Your methods with U/us. i realize You are not posting asking for answers, but i hope You'll entertain some of my thoughts on them.

What does the lifestyle mean to you?
i struggled to answer, i may need more enlightenment. However, i recognize what the lifestyle is about (or based on)...trust. For without trust, it's impossible to move forward in the roles/activities the lifestyle affords. Only when trust is established, can one move forward to the next important aspect, power exchange. For me, the BDSM lifestyle has given form to my own ideology as it pertains to the type of relationship, activities, and general lifestyle i desire. Long before i knew what BDSM was, i seeked out Female led relationships, i yearned for TPE (total power exchange), and craved severity and strict discipline. Discovering this lifestyle helped me discover who i really was. It put a name to the face. It nurtured, guided. And It gave me the opportunity to learn and grow in my predestined role as a slave.

What does submission mean to you?
Allowing a Domme freedom to explore, and take me with Her to that place.

What kind of submissive are you?
i am a slave.

What do you want out of the lifestyle?
A Women who will lead me. and allow me to be.

Do you attend any munches or local events?
Many years ago i attended local get togethers with my Domme. i plan on going to DomCon LA 2021.

What are you looking for in a D/s dynamic?
A total power exchange, Domme/slave dynamic. Under contract. Possible marriage.

What do you have to offer a D/s relationship?
A lifelong devotion to Her happiness, wellbeing, and economic prosperity.

What are your goals, hopes and dreams?
Traveling the world with my Domme. i would love to live in different countries like Thailand, Germany, etc. Experience new cultures/places. Empowering Her along the way, in every way possible.

What is your plan on how to achieve those?
Selling my property, cashing out my bonds and cd's.

Where do you see yourself in 10, 20 years from now?
Living in Japan. Enslaved to the Women i've dedicated my life to. In a no limit, power exchange relationship that most people would consider unethical and abusive. She has also forced and manipulated me into psychologically, legally, and financially dependant on Her. No mercy for Her loving slave. None.

Aubrey21​(sub female) - Excellent questions to ask