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Experiences and observations from a Sir.
11 months ago. December 26, 2021 at 5:15 AM

I was asked recently why I prefer newbie submissives or strong experienced  submissives. I prefer them because I am building a good foundation of trust and communication. I listen and pay attention to the submissive. My total focus is always firmly on the submissive. I want both of us to have an incredible and safe experience. I read and listen to what more experienced Doms have to offer and I am exceptional as a result of their teachings and knowledge. I don't just run out here and try something without learning about it.

If the submissive wants to play with other "doms"  then I send them on their way. I dont need to be concerned about contradicting teachings.  I don't  have time to fix messes as a result of an inexperienced "dom" who won't pay attention to the submissive's actions or concerns. 

What are my standards?  I want the experience to be fun and safe for both people. I want the submissive to receive the benefits of my 100% focus and effort so we can both have incredibly rewarding experiences. I encourage inexperienced Doms to take your time. Read, ask questions, study and pay attention to the needs of the submissive.

 

 

 

 

Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - I don't see what you describe as "picky" i feel a better description would be standards. Thanks for sharing.
11 months ago
Sweet Ginger​(sub female){} - I see you must agree and have changed your blog title from "picky" to "standards " :) these should also be a submissive's standards as well.
11 months ago
HEAVEN'S STARCHILD​(switch female) - Well said. Thank you for sharing ((HUGS))
11 months ago
Miss Tia​(masochist female){Taken} - I agree to a point, and I do understand your point of view. I have played with other Doms, only with my Sir is there. But, and it's a big one...the play is non sexual, more learning. For instance my Sir knows the basics in rope, he has a friend that is experienced in rope. I've played, let his friend try new things, my Sir and I both learn.

Plus I'm learning on rope...I tied Sir up last night 🤣
11 months ago

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