Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

  United States

Ok soooo I’m gonna try this again lol.... I’m not really sure how to “label” the type of sub I am at this point but, what I am hoping to find on this journey is a dom who is strict yet reasonable and caring. I crave a lot of attention, affection, guidance and do take pleasure in punishment. I can be bratty but, most times it is unintentional. I love to joke and play as well as be a mother, work, and handle my business! My ideal dom is studious/ intellectual, accepts me for who I am and doesn’t expect me to dull down my vibrant personality, is playful but knows how to be in control and lead. I am not interested in a dom who will control every aspect of my life so is that is you please keep scrolling; but I need my dom to step in & critique me where I need improvement, protect what is his, someone who will let me be free (work, express myself, ask questions to understand, not have a strict daily agenda) yet let me be dependent on them because they keep me sane, they keep structure and order, they keep me in place, they make sure I am loved &led correctly, and they show me success and nothing but the best. Our relationship shall be every but BUT vanilla. I’m into kink, bondage, rope play, and learning new things! I also have limits and a safe word needed but the more comfortable I am and trusting in my dom the less I will be guarded. I feel like this is too much to ask for and yet some people understand this level of submission

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26 y/o      Dublin, County Dublin

I'm a Bratty sub, looking for a Daddy/ Master/ Dom to come claim me and make me behave. I am fairly new to all of this so I need someone who can be patient but know when to put me in my place. Preferably live near me or close enough, and from the age of 22-30. I prefare open minded people and with a few extra pounds, this seems really rude to me so I'll stop now but dont be afraid to text me! I DON'T WANT HOOKUPS AND DO NOT DO NUDES.

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45 y/o      El Dorado Springs, Missouri

Poly Master looking for another slave to add to the Family
My Master is looking for another slave to add to his family. He has children and we are looking to make our family bigger but for the better. He is looking for a slave that has no problem sharing herself with myself and Him. He is looking for a slave that is serious on who and what she is and is committed to serve Him. Master is looking for a slave that will serve him by taking care of his home, taking care of children and his needs. He is also looking for another girl to be at least bi or bi curious. You must be able to relocate to us. Looking for serious inquires only.

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30 y/o      Hammond, Louisiana

Lonely too! Would love some dom attention...

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42 y/o      Casa Grande, Arizona

Hi I am 37, w PTSD so my little space a flashback not a kink read that again. I don't go little often when I do am bout 14ish. Looking for a committed relationship with a daddy Dom who knows the difference between domination and control/ abuse. I am sweet loyal and honest as a good little should be. I want to be protected and at the very top of your list #1 outside of kids if you gotta em. I ask for what I need and expect it, but I also give my all. If any of this sounds good to you hit me up. I am serious so no games, don't want to waste anyone's time especially mine.

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  United States

Looking for a Master. Very into being dominated and being a pet to please my master.
30 years old had 2 kids so have a mommy belly im working on.
Looking for online right now.
New to the bdsm but wants to be desperately trained. By a master

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31 y/o      United States

Hello! I'm a 26 year old submissive in search of the "perfect" Dominant for me!

I've had a rough go of it recently and I'm trying to get my life back on track! I have about six years of experience in BDSM and I'm always eager to expand my horizons! If you're looking for a happy-go-lucky and eager sub, please send me a message!

~Myra

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  Ohio

I'm looking for a man, age up to 50, who would teach me to be a good sub. I am new but have experience rough playtime and would like to push those limits further. I am open to sharing with other men or women as well.

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24 y/o      Denver, Colorado

Looking for someone to task me

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36 y/o      Binghamton, New York

Hi, I'm looking for a Master who is understanding, but strict at the same time, and if is willing to stretch my limits in some areas. And im looking for a very experienced Dom as well.

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  London, England

I'm an exceptionally beautiful, intelligent highly successful woman in her late 30's (but very young looking) who is seeking a successful, dominant alpha male to initiate her into the world of BDSM. Because I am relatively new to this I need to take things slowly and have a gentle,understanding guide. I'm looking for a male who is physically fit, handsome and who is successful. I don't need any financial assistance, I am very successful in my own right, but I don't feel I can submit to somebody who is not on the same level as myself both professionally, intellectually or physically. Ideally you should live in London so we can meet first, I'm not looking for a purely online relationship. You must be well spoken and educated.

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24 y/o      Louisville, Kentucky

I'm new and would like to explore and experience this lifestyle outside of online

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37 y/o      Huntsville, Alabama

New sub wanting to find a dom/master to train me how to be a better sub. North alabama area.

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  Thailand

Hi. I’m totally new to this. (I think) I’m a submissive woman, and now I’m looking for a dominant male who can train or teach me online. I’m not currently looking for sexual intercourse. But I’m totally open and excited for a new lifestyle of being submissive. Please feel free to contact me.

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  Cookeville, Tennessee

Help me

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  Newark, New Jersey

Degrade me

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47 y/o      Fayetteville, Arkansas

My name is Tay and I’m looking for a dominant to teach me how to be a submissive. I want bondage and domination. Show me what you want/need. Let me please you. I’m new at this so I need someone who can be a bit patient. You will not be disappointed

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  United States

I have a little experience now as a sub, but am now looking to explore my little side a bit more. So I am looking for a Daddy Dom who is very loving and kind, but also has a firm hand when needed.

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28 y/o      Pennsylvania

Hello, I am Emmy new to Cage and eager to meet and speak with new people :)
I am a young sub looking for experienced and mature Dom who I can be a great companion for. I’m generally very sweet and fun, sometimes sassy and impulsive so I can keep you on your toes! I love to try new things and can be a bit of a wild card so the faint of heart do not apply!

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  North Carolina

Looking for a DD to teach and have fun

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24 y/o      Tuscaloosa, Alabama

Angelic aesthetic, big blue eyes and long reddish blonde hair. Looking for a dom in Tuscaloosa, AL.

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  London, England

Greetings, I’m a 55 yr young attractive olive skinned curvy lady, looking for an older dom, 60plus is great. Breast fetish would be perfect.
I live in north London.

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26 y/o      Baltimore, Maryland

I’m a submissive woman who’s brand new to this world and is looking for a local dom to train and control me however he sees fit.

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  London, England

I am looking for a tall ( over 6ft) professional alpha male dominant male for an exclusive relationship as his sub. I am new to this and require training. I am fussy and crave intelligence, charm and a man who is successful.

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44 y/o      Mexico, Missouri

Single female independent hard workING submissive Bratt looking for a Dom that is true real not fake or on any bullshit.. one that knows the true meaning of what being a dom is and that it's who you are not just something u doing the bedroom sometimes.. I am from Missouri here in miami on work.. Woukd so enjoy a true Dom taking control and reminding me of the pleasures

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  United Kingdom

Hello, Im looking for a master to train me to be a good submissive, via voice calls

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  Pennsylvania

I'm looking for a dominant who I can bond with. I promise to be a good girl and will work as hard as I need to. Let's see where this goes.

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  Dallas, Texas

Take me and make me your servant!

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  Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Hello Sir, and thank You for Your time. i am a slave submissive looking to be serve a new Master. i wish for something to start online and move to tpe, during which i would service You in any way You saw fit. i have very few limits, am cage and leash trained, and can cook and keep house as well. i have experience with my former Master in submitting 24/7 even long distance through use of videos, Bluetooth vibrator, and task completions. i wish to never have to think unless it is to serve my Master. i want to exist only for my Master's pleasure, to be owned and controlled by Him in every way. i wait every day for His order in my life. Do i interest You Sir?

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  New York, New York

I'm divorced already 5 years. Now I'm searching a man who will bring this World to me . Someone who will teach me , satisfy my needs !

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  Zimbabwe

Hello. I am a 30 year old sub female looking for a dom male willing to teach me more on submission, online. I am very willing to learn.

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  California

new to subbing, college girl in the humboldt area, would love to be taught in person, but could maybe do online too if you could visit me sometime. into doms/daddies/masters; if this sounds like you, dm me!

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38 y/o      Quebec City, Quebec

Looking for a very patient Dom to chat with to begin... im 34, i was very into this lifestyle before but i found it hard to find a genuine Dom, i have no real experience other than online, ive been living a vanilla lifestyle but the truth always comes back to haunt us... a Dom with the same interests as I and Im open to more... id like to my mind to be captivated by your words, your behavior and this feeling that i cant take my eyes from you kinda if thing... does that even exist... Men fall in love with what they see and women what they hear... I am educated and I am independant...

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  Kitchener, Ontario

im looking for a dd perfebly someone close to me :) mssg me for more

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27 y/o      Owensboro, Kentucky

Hi all! So, I'm currently looking for a long-term Dom who would be interested in me as a sub. I have all of my kinks, limits and fantasies alongside a little bit about me on my profile so I'll spare you all of that reading material for now. I am plus-sized so please take that into account for better or worse. I'm really picky about my Doms as I have had limits violated in my past so, I've found that a set list of questions is very helpful. It will seem like a lot of questions but, they are all very important to me, especially the last two. I just want to be responsible and safe and create an environment of trust communication and honesty. If you fill this out and we are compatible then, I will give you everything your heart desires ( with prior discussed boundaries of course) and work to be the very best sub for you that I can be. I pride myself on making you smile and my best reward is a very enthusiastic 'good girl'. I love attention and affection and can't get enough of it. I am going through a bit of an evolution right now as well. I'll go ahead and list my questions here for you and I'd absolutely love to answer any that you may have for me as well. To any subs reading this, I find that these are really great questions to ask any potential Dom that you may be considering and to any Doms reading this, these can easily be switched around as used to interview a sub as well. You're more than welcome to use them as I just want everyone to be safe and have fun! Anyways, I hope to hear from you guys soon! Thanks in advance!

Questions for Potential Dom/Master/Daddy/Sir

1. Age?
2. Employment?
3. Relationship status?
4. Polyamorous or monogamous?
5. Sexual orientation?
6. What kind of relationship/dynamic are you hoping to pursue with me?
7. What is the ideal duration of said relationship?
8. When was your last STI/STD test performed?
9. How frequently do you get tested?
10. What were the results of your most recent STI/STD test?
11. Do you swear to be tested for STIs/STDs on a frequent basis of every 6 months if monogamous and every 3 months if non-monogamous/polyamorous and other partners are introduced?
12. Have you ever had an STI/STD?
13. If, you answered yes to the previous question, was said STI/STD(s) thoroughly treated and eradicated from your body?
14. What kind of Dom are you?
15. What are your kinks?
16. What are your fetishes?
17. What are your fantasies?
18. What is your idea of aftercare?
19. What are your hard boundaries?
20. What are your soft limits?
21. What are your expectations in a sub?
22. What would be your ideal dynamic?
23. What are your commitments outside of this dynamics?
24. Do you have any children and if so, how many?
25. Are you prepared to take on the responsibility of caring for, training, disciplining, rewarding and giving attention and affection to a sub at this time?
26. Where do you feel you’d like to improve as a Dom?
27. Have you ever violated a subs or any partner’s boundaries? If so, please describe the scenario(s).
28. What are some of your fantasies?
29. Are you prepared for the intense responsibility of complete obedience and servitude from your sub?
30. Which, if any, of my kinks/fetishes/fantasies/vanilla activities/hard or soft limits are you uncomfortable with?
31. Do you feel confident in your role as a Dom?
32. What are your beliefs on protocol/etiquette?
33. How would you like the dynamic to play out in a public vanilla setting?
34. How would you like the dynamic to play out in a public kink/BDSM setting?
35. What is your stance on Collars/Collaring?
36. What are the things that are most important to you in a D/s DD/lg M/s dynamic?
37. What would you like to be called?
38. What pet names if any would you like to call me?
39. Are you prepared to take on a sub who has a rather Dominant personality in her vanilla life?
40. Are you comfortable with allowing a sub to explore her true nature as a sub even if she evolves into a sub that may not fit your original mold?
41. What is your stance on your sub playing with other Doms?
42. What is your stance on your sub playing with other subs?
43. What is your stance on your sub playing with vanillas?
44. Do you take part in your local community or any online communities? If so which?
45. How do you feel about photos of your sub in a NSFW fashion being posted online?
46. What is your stance on condoms and are you prepared for all risks involved including pregnancy (although I am very infertile) if you opt not to use condoms?
47. Do you feel that I’ve missed any questions that are important for me to ask?
48. Would you like to add anything about yourself that you think I should know?
49. What are your questions for me and do you have any confusion with these questions presented to you?
50. Do you confirm that you’ve answered all questions with complete accuracy and honesty to the best of your ability?

Now these last two are the most important questions in the entire bunch. They will determine absolutely everything from here on out. Answer honestly and good luck.
from here on out. Answer honestly and good luck.

51. What is your favorite kind of flower?
52. Why?

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47 y/o      Bay City, Michigan

Dom wanted
experienced
Ages 35 to 50
5'10 and taller
broad shoulders
beard and tattoos a plus
Into rough play, choking and spanking
Unattached preferred but not necessarily a deal breaker.
With in a hrs drive of Bay city Michigan.
Just wanna see whose out there.

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32 y/o      Ohio

Hi. This is definitely not me. I don't put myself out there like this but here goes. I'm considered to be late 20's single mom of 2 kids. I don't need a sugar daddy so please don't think that's what I'm after. I'm old fashioned in the fact that I like to take care of the kids, the man, and my home but I work full time and I'd be fine keeping it that way. I'm only interested in monogamous relationships. I need someone that can see settling down and leading a fairly vanilla life outside the home. I'm submissive by nature so I won't misbehave outside of the home anyway. Must be a Christian. If interested please send me a message.

Thank you for your time.
Conservative looking to Submit

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  New York, New York

Hey im a submissive lil pup looking for a dom

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27 y/o      Arlington, Texas

Hi I’m in Texas and I was wondering if there were any Texas doms seeking a sub

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42 y/o      United States

Hello I'm very new to all this, I'm always use to being the Dom one in the bed and I'm sick of intimidating my sexual partner Everytime. I Want to learn how to sub n be a server instead of a Dom intimidator in sexual pleasures between my sexual partner. Willing to learn n obey to be sub
n do whatever it takes to please n sub to my Dom teacher.

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  Houston, Texas

I am here trying to satisfy my craving of being submissive to the perfect Dom. Never before have I done this...but many times before I have wanted to.

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  Las Vegas, Nevada

Hello im new to all this im looking for a strong sexy dom to train me in EVERY way.

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25 y/o      United States

Hi! Call me Chi.

I'm female, straight, and twenty years old. I was on the Cage earlier in the year, and didn't have a clear direction I wanted to go in. I took some time off, and started focusing on myself - I've found enormous success through writing, and sharing my work online, and realizing what I wanted from life (sounds so dramatic, lol!).

I'm passionate about writing, my family, and am an online college student too. However, I would like to open my life to a dominant, someone who I can be friends with, as well as sharing a dominant/submissive dynamic with. I have past traumas that I haven't truly healed from and would be open to talking more about them with someone, as well as roles (I find the dd/lg dynamic very attractive - having a dominant male in my life who enjoys the roles non-sexually, as well as sexually).

Starting off online would be ideal, someone who values talking (whether through messaging, on the phone/app, etc.), and forming a relationship would be wonderful, over someone who simply wants pictures/videos, and hardcore submission (humiliation, degradation, polyamory, etc.). I adore my life, and I feel ready to open it to someone - I'm looking for a connection, and healing/embracing ds, so someone who understands that is necessary. I don't mind an age difference, though looks matter to me, if a relationship becomes sexual - I don't feel an attraction to stout/overweight men, 'neckbeards', smokers, etc. Monogamy is important to me - please don't message me if you're in a relationship, have a partner/slave, or have children. Thank you!

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  United States

I’m eager to learn. I want someone to train me. Im looking for something online but if we're close enough we could meet irl. Currently live in Georgia. Looking for a dom under 35. I'm a 20 year old hispanic female. I’m 5’3” feel free to message me if interested!

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  Orlando, Florida

Looking for ltr with the right person to put me in my place. New to the lifestyle and unsure of most my limits. I prefer someone 22-32 and athletic/attractive. Don't message me if you don't want to show me what you look like :).

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  United States

Hello, I am a young(21) female seeking a dominant male who is between the ages of 21 and 35 willing to develop an online relationship which may hopefully turn into an in person relationship in order to train me as a submissive. I have a very dominant personality in the real world but I like to be submissive in the bedroom and secretly would love to be submissive all of the time. If you are interested in talking shoot me a message.

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  Jacksonville, Florida

Hi! I am looking for someone to ease me into the lifestyle as I have never done this in person (always been online). I am 21 years old and would like my dominant to be under 30. My dominant should be strict, but caring. I now live in Seattle so I would prefer my dominant live here as well. If you are interested please message me!

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  Hudson, Florida

I’m young and cute I’m a submissive looking for her dom I’m 5”9 curves into foot play foot humiliation I also like couples to serve and be their play sex toy

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38 y/o      New Baltimore, Michigan

I have recently been introduced to the dom sub world and fell in love. I am shy and inexperienced in the lifestyle but very willing to learn.
Looking for someone close to me that I can please and me molded to fit your wants and needs

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36 y/o      Ireland

looking a strict but caring older dom man to help teach me how to be a good submissive :)

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48 y/o      Tennessee

I've been in the lifestyle 24 years. I'm a sub with little and slave tendencies, I'm also a maso. I believe to many think it's only about the sexual aspect. For me I need the mental connection. If you can't mind fuck me, then you'll never get to the physical. I'm hoping to find someone local or semi local that's willing to travel at times, as will I. I will not rush into anything. If we connect chatting great, we will move into vetting. If your interested in getting to know me please feel free to message me

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37 y/o      Maine

I'm 32, married to a great vanilla. I love him.. I'm not looking for love, im looking a dom. However, I am poly and have fallen for doms in the past. I want a caring D/s relationship that may start online, but become physical, so be at least in New England please. I'm a brat, I like to talk back.
I would prefer someone around my age, but honestly as long as you don't look 60+ I'll consider you on personality.

Hard nos
Scat,
Blood,
Body modifying
Under age/ illegal play

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  United Kingdom

Hi

I'm a UK based submissive, looking for a Dom or Domme - it's not about gender, or age (though I do prefer 40s or older), or any other notional BS, it's about connection / trust.

I'm in my mid-thirties, and quite overweight at the moment (I'm working on this). I can be needy, and am always available on messenger services etc... I'm very intelligent - I'm not the type to respond to degrading names in a first message here.

For 10 years, I belonged to a Master, 24/7 TPE for a significant part of that. That relationship went south, and I married a wonderful vanilla man. He is not into the things I now realise that I need. I want to be discreet, but equally, I struggle to see how I can get away from this yearning.

The thing I enjoy most is serving and doing as I'm told: I don't see this as play, it's much deeper than that for me. If it was just sexual stuff / play, I'd be able to live without it. I'm finding I cannot.

Other activities that suit me most are humiliation... (tho I'm the kinda woman who is more humiliated by having to say positive things about myself, than by the pig / slut / cumbucket type stuff)... I love being flogged... I'm not hugely fond of orgasming as I find it kinda embarrassing unless I'm on my own haha, so humiliation around that is good - as is orgasm denial. Being 'talked at' is a bit of a kink for me - I'm used to being able to talk / get my own way, so being forced into a submissive position just thro someone's speaking to me is hugely powerful.

I'd like to start off chatting online for a while, before sharing a photo - if you're the kind who is desperate for a photo, I'm probably not going to be for you. I believe appearances mean ZERO in BDSM relationship. That's just my opinion. Eventually, I'd like to progress to phone call / video chat. I don't rule out in person, but given my marital circumstances, it's not likely at this stage.

Look forward to hearing from you!

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24 y/o      Nebraska

I have only been in bdsm for about 2 years. I am a nurse so during my shift I have to make thousands of decisions. It’s nice to come home and someone else make those decisions for me.
I do like to communicate before I “submit” to someone. Being a submissive means trusting your dom, and feeling comfortable in all aspects of the relationship.
A dom I can see in real life would be nice, because I love physical contact; however I am open to online so I can learn to trust completely.
Feel free to message me or love my profile!

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25 y/o      Florida

I am new to this scene and would really like to get someone to show me the ropes (also open to just making friends from this community)! I don't mind if you are new to this scene as well, maybe we can both learn together!! Ideally, I'd like someone close to my age so 20-29 would be great but I'm open to ranges above that. So yeah, hope to hear from you !!

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41 y/o      Jacksonville, Florida

I'm looking for an experienced Dom who will accept my submission as the gift it is. Make me respect you. Tie me up. Help me become the best I can be, and I will do the same for you.
I call myself a switch because I must be won. I know who I am and what I want. I am a nurturer and healer who needs uncompromising healing herself.
If all you want is an unthinking slave to abuse, don't bother me. I'm not going to support you financially. I'm looking for a worthy Master to serve, not another Dungeon master to play games or baby dom who hasn't gotten his life in gear. I already get my tabletop game needs met and have my people projects full.

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39 y/o      Tennessee

IM OPEN TO MAKING FREINDS AND TALKING ABOUT THE LIFESTYLE. BUT I AM SHEARCHING FOR MY MASTER/DADDY DOM.

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  United States

Seeking man of integrity and character for closed circle, happily ever after. Please be settled and secure. I am 45, 5’7, proportionate, fit, auburn hair, green eyes, coffee lover, very light drinker, healthy, motivated and incredibly warm hearted (inside slightly standoffish shell). Your health is important, please also be 5’10+, no smoking/drugs.

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  Virginia Beach, Virginia

Please come humiliate me, degrade me and use me! :D

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23 y/o      United States

Hello, I’m Daisie

I’m 18 years old female sub looking for dom. I live in US and I’m an Asian
This is my first time joining community. Every since I was a little girl I always dreamed of master who’s gonna play with me, tie me up, and use me. Please help me learn.... thank you

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