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Hello i am 18 and i live in sweden and i would love to meet and have a BDSM relation and explore all My and My Mistress Fetishes and i would love to make you happy in all your wishes
Well I'm new to all of this. But I'm very eager to learn. I'm interest in many aspects of this life style and am very curious to try new things I'm interest in finding a dominant woman to explore with me and push my limits. I'm kinda shy at first. But open up quickly. There are many things that like and many thing I want to try. I've been interested in submitting to a female for about 2 or 3 years now. I hope the opportunity presents its self soon. Let me know if any on is interested. Thank you
Young, attractive, sub male seeking female dom for in person or online
So, for me, being a sub, even through online, allows me to do a few things: It allows me to reprioritize my responsibilities and prioritize them in an order that derives from someone else’s standards, a source of accountability. It also allows me to focus my attention on that someone rather than myself or those I directly influence, a genuine interest. I am able to exert my energy into things that intrinsically bring me motivation, rather than fabricating my motivation and spending it on things that are given value from a source that doesn’t hold me accountable, and I’m not genuinely interested in.
To summarize what it means to me to be sub, I am pursuing a genuine, raw interest that I’m not only intrinsically motivated to explore, but also one that holds me accountable. Not often am I held up to higher standards by anyone or anything, much less something that I feel motivated to leave a positive impression on. So there’s value in that experience to me.
Looking for local Domme in Butte/Tehama California area.
About me:
HI! I’m 34, married, and a switch. My wife and I live in a 24/7 DD/lg, have been into BDSM together for about 15 years now, and have been part of our local community for the last 2 years. We have a few play partners that we see periodically. I work in IT within the healthcare industry, enjoy music, gaming, reading, cars, building things with my hands, and exploring the outdoors. I’m 5 foot 9, and about 180lbs.
What I’m looking for:
A long term D/s relationship with someone local. I have tried online/long distance multiple times, and I’ve learned that I can’t go without being physical with someone. I understand that everyone has other things going on, and life can get in the way at times, but I know that a relationship, for me at least, will not last without being about to be around the other person. I also know that I’m not interested in a just play relationship. Ideally, we would get to know each other well, and spend time together outside of just play sessions.
I would be looking to be submissive to you at least most of the time. Again, I understand life happens, and being in a 24/7 D/s relationship already, this would need some work and discussion to sort through. The short term D/s relationships I have tried have not been difficult to manage as far as expectations and what can and can’t be done.
While I am not straight, and can find interest and attraction in just about every gender, I think at this point I would prefer a Domme, as I tend to be more attracted to the female form.
Interests:
Some things I have tried, and enjoy, include:
Tease and denial, orgasm control, chastity, tasks (sexual and non-sexual), toys, bondage, light CBT, forced feminization, bathroom control, fluid play, pegging, foot/body worship, humiliation, sounding, e-stim.
Some things I have interest in, but have not tried:
Diet control, latex, assigned exercise schedules, pet play, cuckolding.
Limits:
Scat, anything illegal, obvious public play, financial domination.
Im bi and love to be submissive, dress like a girl, get tied up, throat fucked then bent over and fucked hard. Really wana suck some cock while a woman watches
I'm a submissive man who is chivalrous, nice, good and a gentle gentleman seeking to serve the greater purpose of a Dominant Goddess as we tend to Her happiness, comfort and pleasure and to achieve Her goals under Her direction and guidance. We will make suggestions for Her consideration, but the final decision will always be Her's to make. I believe We must have a real connection in order to have a true FLR. She will lead and we will follow. I would like a Benevolent Poly Dominant Goddess in the home, but prefer equal status and treatment in public. I hope this to include a couple (f/m) 'roommates' in public, but slaves at home to serve Goddess with household chores, and whatever else She deems necessary. I'm into body worship, pegging, chastity devices, butt plugs, and drinking Her golden nectar as rewards when She's pleased with me...otherwise I will be spanked.
I would consider relocation for the right situation. Prefer mature BBW's 5'0" to 5'5".
Any female looking for a submissive male in the state of Ohio? All bets are on (bondage, chastity, torture, etc). Contact me. Must be willing to send selfie for authenticity purposes.
44 year old bi male looking for a FemmeDom to train me to be a good sub/slave. New to the scene and eager to learn. Not sure exactly what I am looking for when it comes to all my kinks. There are a lot of things I know I like such as Pegging, Anal Play/Training, Light CBT, Bondage, Orgasm Control/Denial to name a few. My profile has a few more of my interests. Would like to start out a little slow as I am a bit nervous and anxious at the same time. I would like the relationship to be long term and hopefully end in a lifelong commitment. I am willing to relocate if the relationship flourishes. I am easy going and extremely open minded. Please look at my profile and if you would like to know anything just ask. I hope to hear from you soon.
I am a 52 yo looking for an older dim 60+
to put me through a strict teaching regime leading to being owned. I am loyal.obident,and willing to do what it takes. If you are interested msg me and I will for sure get back to you.
I am interested in a friendly dominant woman who wants a happy relationship. Definitely more of a relationship than me being used as a servant or something like that. Bonus points by the way for any BBW reading this. So just a nice relationship but I would like to be completely owned by you. I'd like you to be my keyholder. While some men might want to be in some kind of cage most of the time, I would like to be in a spiked one 24/7 unless you are using me. This will be entirely behind closed doors but always there. I feel my pain will be something that binds me to you. Also, if you are thinking about how much fun it might be to hurt me when we are alone together, whips, belts, clamps etc then you just might be the person I am looking for.