Submissive Men Seeking Dominant Women

36, single, no kids, shy in public, submissive in private, loves pegging, cuckolding, humiliation, and forced feminization, looking for a Mommy who wants to own me completely. I am in northern California, and willing to relocate for the right person.

I am 64 years YOUNG...been in the D/s bdsm lifestyle off and on since 16. Would like to meet a beautiful and sensual DOMME....25-50 interested in weekend meets to play and be served. Into BONDAGE...TICKLING...IMPACT PLAY....BOOT AND LEATHER WORSHIP...INTEROGATION PLAY...OUTDOOR BONDAGE.. I have my own toys....willing to be open to most any dynamic...will discuss HARD LIMITS.

Hello I’m Sam single no kids 34 i live between California and Puerto Rico im looking for a real owner long term 24/7 I’m totally independent and I have my own business, I’m a mechanical engineering I love to travel, I hope if I can find the right owner and I’m flexible I can relocate if everything it’s good

Well I'm new to all of this. But I'm very eager to learn. I'm interest in many aspects of this life style and am very curious to try new things I'm interest in finding a dominant woman to explore with me and push my limits. I'm kinda shy at first. But open up quickly. There are many things that like and many thing I want to try. I've been interested in submitting to a female for about 2 or 3 years now. I hope the opportunity presents its self soon. Let me know if any on is interested. Thank you

So, for me, being a sub, even through online, allows me to do a few things: It allows me to reprioritize my responsibilities and prioritize them in an order that derives from someone else’s standards, a source of accountability. It also allows me to focus my attention on that someone rather than myself or those I directly influence, a genuine interest. I am able to exert my energy into things that intrinsically bring me motivation, rather than fabricating my motivation and spending it on things that are given value from a source that doesn’t hold me accountable, and I’m not genuinely interested in.

To summarize what it means to me to be sub, I am pursuing a genuine, raw interest that I’m not only intrinsically motivated to explore, but also one that holds me accountable. Not often am I held up to higher standards by anyone or anything, much less something that I feel motivated to leave a positive impression on. So there’s value in that experience to me.

About me:
HI! I’m 34, married, and a switch. My wife and I live in a 24/7 DD/lg, have been into BDSM together for about 15 years now, and have been part of our local community for the last 2 years. We have a few play partners that we see periodically. I work in IT within the healthcare industry, enjoy music, gaming, reading, cars, building things with my hands, and exploring the outdoors. I’m 5 foot 9, and about 180lbs.

What I’m looking for:
A long term D/s relationship with someone local. I have tried online/long distance multiple times, and I’ve learned that I can’t go without being physical with someone. I understand that everyone has other things going on, and life can get in the way at times, but I know that a relationship, for me at least, will not last without being about to be around the other person. I also know that I’m not interested in a just play relationship. Ideally, we would get to know each other well, and spend time together outside of just play sessions.

I would be looking to be submissive to you at least most of the time. Again, I understand life happens, and being in a 24/7 D/s relationship already, this would need some work and discussion to sort through. The short term D/s relationships I have tried have not been difficult to manage as far as expectations and what can and can’t be done.

While I am not straight, and can find interest and attraction in just about every gender, I think at this point I would prefer a Domme, as I tend to be more attracted to the female form.

Interests:
Some things I have tried, and enjoy, include:
Tease and denial, orgasm control, chastity, tasks (sexual and non-sexual), toys, bondage, light CBT, forced feminization, bathroom control, fluid play, pegging, foot/body worship, humiliation, sounding, e-stim.
Some things I have interest in, but have not tried:
Diet control, latex, assigned exercise schedules, pet play, cuckolding.

Limits:
Scat, anything illegal, obvious public play, financial domination.

I'm a submissive man who is chivalrous, nice, good and a gentle gentleman seeking to serve the greater purpose of a Dominant Goddess as we tend to Her happiness, comfort and pleasure and to achieve Her goals under Her direction and guidance. We will make suggestions for Her consideration, but the final decision will always be Her's to make. I believe We must have a real connection in order to have a true FLR. She will lead and we will follow. I would like a Benevolent Poly Dominant Goddess in the home, but prefer equal status and treatment in public. I hope this to include a couple (f/m) 'roommates' in public, but slaves at home to serve Goddess with household chores, and whatever else She deems necessary. I'm into body worship, pegging, chastity devices, butt plugs, and drinking Her golden nectar as rewards when She's pleased with me...otherwise I will be spanked.
I would consider relocation for the right situation. Prefer mature BBW's 5'0" to 5'5".