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Refined submissive/slave for LTR
I am seeking a beautiful and loyal long term sub/slave who will eventually become my wife.
We will live a 24/7 TPE dynamic, though we will be discrete in public.
you:
- Elegant, educated, kind, loving, and service-oriented.
- Passionate and a great conversationalist
- Feminine and traditional
- Generally happy and ready for commitment
- Ready to fully surrender into the arms and care of the right man
Me:
- Slightly reserved, but love to engage in interesting and intelligent conversation
- Controlling and strict
- Traditional European man
- Love taking what I want, though I can be patient until you see it my way
- Ready to take care of and provide for the right woman
My vices:
I think it is only fair that you know the parts of me that are hard for some women
- I am very focused on my career. This is wonderful for the right woman, but you will need to have some hobbies or equal interest in career so that you are occupied when I am at work
- I am very slow to open up and be vulnerable. I have a great capacity to love, and sometimes it is hard for me to say the words. If you are the type who needs to rush and control things, then this will be a challenge for you.
- I am not good at small talk. In a social setting I am more reserved than verbose. I will expect you to be able to pick up the slack and engage our guests if I am not able to make light chat.
- I have extremely high expectations. Any lack of class or tact are a complete turn off to me. If you are sloppy in dress, behavior, or appearance, then it is a no for me.
- I prefer true submissives to brats or littles, but I do like a bit of age play now and then, and some sass is okay. I need an intellectual equal, so I know that the request comes with the likelihood of attracting a woman who is slightly opinionated and strong in her own right. That is fine, but I will quiet you when I deem necessary.
- I do not know the difference between worse and worst (I'm not a native speaker) - I hope you will find this endearing
We will live a 24/7 TPE dynamic, though we will be discrete in public.
you:
- Elegant, educated, kind, loving, and service-oriented.
- Passionate and a great conversationalist
- Feminine and traditional
- Generally happy and ready for commitment
- Ready to fully surrender into the arms and care of the right man
Me:
- Slightly reserved, but love to engage in interesting and intelligent conversation
- Controlling and strict
- Traditional European man
- Love taking what I want, though I can be patient until you see it my way
- Ready to take care of and provide for the right woman
My vices:
I think it is only fair that you know the parts of me that are hard for some women
- I am very focused on my career. This is wonderful for the right woman, but you will need to have some hobbies or equal interest in career so that you are occupied when I am at work
- I am very slow to open up and be vulnerable. I have a great capacity to love, and sometimes it is hard for me to say the words. If you are the type who needs to rush and control things, then this will be a challenge for you.
- I am not good at small talk. In a social setting I am more reserved than verbose. I will expect you to be able to pick up the slack and engage our guests if I am not able to make light chat.
- I have extremely high expectations. Any lack of class or tact are a complete turn off to me. If you are sloppy in dress, behavior, or appearance, then it is a no for me.
- I prefer true submissives to brats or littles, but I do like a bit of age play now and then, and some sass is okay. I need an intellectual equal, so I know that the request comes with the likelihood of attracting a woman who is slightly opinionated and strong in her own right. That is fine, but I will quiet you when I deem necessary.
- I do not know the difference between worse and worst (I'm not a native speaker) - I hope you will find this endearing
March 14, 2022 at 7:25 PM
One ONLY mature submissive lady OR Couple
Assertive mature attractive gentleman is looking for ONE ONLY mature submissive woman OR Couple!, to own. regular meetings extreemly discreet and demands the same. Have not owned a couple for a few years but the last two couples lasted 5 years and 7 years.
March 9, 2022 at 5:43 AM
Do you wish to live in a permanent polyamorous house?
Seeks a life-time relationship
February 21, 2022 at 2:55 PM
Searching for the one
Searching for the one
I am a 46 year old white man that truely appreciates and cherishes the gift my submissive trusts me with. I am searching for a sub that would like to be trained by a sensual strict Dom. Trust takes time to build allowing my sub's flower to truly bloom in my hands.
I am a 46 year old white man that truely appreciates and cherishes the gift my submissive trusts me with. I am searching for a sub that would like to be trained by a sensual strict Dom. Trust takes time to build allowing my sub's flower to truly bloom in my hands.
February 20, 2022 at 7:09 PM
Master need submissive
Hi my name is Lain and I live in Castle Rock Colorado. I have been in the Ds lifestyle actively well over 20 years. I always knew I was different Evan as a kid playing Cowboys and Indians and tying the neighbor girl to the tree in the front yard and really liking it and not knowing why. As I grew up in my journey I have learned a lot and gained a grate deal of patients. I do not feel like I need 100% control to be in control. What Im looking for may be harder for a subslave to give. I want you to have a life beyond me as well as with me. I dont want to control your every move. The trill for me is having a obedient and prompt reply when I do dominate. Im easy to please and can have a soft hand or a hard hand depending on who Im with and our agreement. I have never been involved with any one who ever had to use there safe word. I feel we should take the time to know each other enough that we know our limits and though we push them never exceed them. I do not believe in hard limits as much as hard fears and I believe when talked out most can be over came with time trust and love. I have a grate sense of humor and I work for the County doing highway maintenance. I love the out doors a lot. I really like to camp out but I really dont require my mate to be into the out doors as I am. Though I would like to find some one that would at least make one out door day for us even if its a walk in the park hang out at the mall or something major like a camp trip or private getaway. Fill free to ask me any thing you would like and please say hi. I would love to get to know you much better.
February 16, 2022 at 8:15 AM
Master Seeks Submissive UK
Are there any female Submissive free and single in the Hampshire area of the UK? Are you seeing a playmate or Master? If so I would live to hear from you. I am beginning to feel there are very few places online to advertise with ANY chance of it reaching its target.
Master Ebony
Master Ebony
February 15, 2022 at 10:35 AM
In need of sub, looking to be owned
I'm looking for Submissive women who are interested in being owned by me. Either just in a sexual capacity, or full day to day ownership like i have with my gf. Im very dominant in my day to day life, as proven by my career path and sporting success.
I've had numerous subs throughout our relationship in the past, so am experienced in the lifestyle!
We are an open book and you can ask me anything you like about our relationship, and how i envision you fitting into that. I travel around the world a lot, so open to all who are interested!
I've had numerous subs throughout our relationship in the past, so am experienced in the lifestyle!
We are an open book and you can ask me anything you like about our relationship, and how i envision you fitting into that. I travel around the world a lot, so open to all who are interested!
January 27, 2022 at 7:58 AM
Asheville NC DOM seeking
Hello. Andy Ray here. Western NC. Trying to find someone who isn’t too far away. That craves attention from an experienced man. I crave to give my attention to a worthy female.
I’ll be standing by ……
I’ll be standing by ……
January 25, 2022 at 6:20 AM
Looking for my babygirl
Are you a submissive little or babygirl, looking for your daddy? Do you crave to be loved, petted, played with and dominated by a loving, high quality Daddy Dom that is looking for a long-term relationship? Well, then drop me a note and let's start talking.
January 24, 2022 at 10:14 AM
Be my sub
I’m looking for a fun clean sub that’s looking to please me, I’m a gentleman first so I will respect you and value you, I have a play room, what’s your fantasy!!!
January 21, 2022 at 5:15 AM
Master for a classy slave
You should be a very attractive woman, financially independent and eager to be used and to satisfy a Master. You must have pretty same preferences like mine (see my profile) and to be able to relocate (and to sustain yourself from the financial point of view) if needed. Do not confuse this kind of arrangement with a traditional relationship. I have a relationship and you're required to be part of a BDSM rapport. I'm not looking for a bratty submissive undecided woman. I'm looking for someone trustful, who really want to be treated like a slave and ready to trust her Master, of course if compatibility is involved. If you fit the description above and are interested we can start a conversation. If not, good luck with your search!
January 12, 2022 at 12:48 PM
Woman for friendship and bondage
seeking woman to tie up and companionship
I am 78, I still enjoy tying a woman up and having a few drinks afterwards. I have been tying for over 50 years and never had a bad experience. (cross my fingers). Some of the women I have tied are still personal friends after 40 years! I live in the beach area in Delaware. Not much else to say since this is my first time here.
I am 78, I still enjoy tying a woman up and having a few drinks afterwards. I have been tying for over 50 years and never had a bad experience. (cross my fingers). Some of the women I have tied are still personal friends after 40 years! I live in the beach area in Delaware. Not much else to say since this is my first time here.
January 11, 2022 at 7:25 AM
New Dom Wanting to Explore
I'm a new Dom, wishing to learn more about the role and myself and explore with the right submissive woman. I'm going to be completely honest, I'm inexperienced but I've felt more and more over the past year or so, the desire to explore and express my dominant side, one I feel could be grown to be both nurturing and slightly sadistic. I'm happy to pursue this and build trust and boundaries with either an experienced or new sub woman, whilst we both can hopefully learn and grow together and find a fulfilling dynamic. If interested, send me a message to alert me to your interest or like my profile.
January 8, 2022 at 12:34 PM
Looking to explore
Looking for a discreet play relationship
I am a married Dom I am also an artist who is looking for my muse, my canvas, my willing partner in crime. I am a gentle Dom but at times I can be demanding. I am in shape and do enjoy yoga, outdoor activities and indoor activities too;) When I am not busy I enjoy sitting down with a single malt, a good book and soft music to while away the day. I am open to all roles such as subs, slaves, switches and Dommes. I believe in good communication and placing everything on the table to explore. The problem I face is my life partner has decided not to be involved in the lifestyle anymore. She feels age has come against her. I would like to find someone who is flexible in meeting up and willing to explore. The other piece is I do travel for work and if you can meet me while on the road that will be a plus
I am a married Dom I am also an artist who is looking for my muse, my canvas, my willing partner in crime. I am a gentle Dom but at times I can be demanding. I am in shape and do enjoy yoga, outdoor activities and indoor activities too;) When I am not busy I enjoy sitting down with a single malt, a good book and soft music to while away the day. I am open to all roles such as subs, slaves, switches and Dommes. I believe in good communication and placing everything on the table to explore. The problem I face is my life partner has decided not to be involved in the lifestyle anymore. She feels age has come against her. I would like to find someone who is flexible in meeting up and willing to explore. The other piece is I do travel for work and if you can meet me while on the road that will be a plus
December 23, 2021 at 6:23 AM