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  Lansing, Michigan

Hey, I'm looking for a submissive woman who is patient and willing to help me learn and explore bdsm lifestyle. Would prefer if you lived in Mid-Michigan or near, but am completely fine with online. I am an experimentalist, so I won't knock it till I try it for myself. But I only won't try scat and vomit. If you are interested just shoot me a message at any time.

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  Natchez, Mississippi

Mississippi/Louisiana

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  United States

looking for a sub to be trained to fulfill her place and serve her Master. Looking to collar a sub for 24/7 service that may turn in to long term, depending on training. Female only, ages 18 to 34 preferred. I will be strict, but I do take care of My toys. This will not be online only. It may start there while under consideration but must be able to relocate to receive collar when commanded to do so.
Cooking ability, video games, love all animals, anime, and doesn’t mind kids are a plus. I want to know you I want to get inside your head and not only be your dom but to be someone you trust in and look forward to hearing from because the act of submission is not a right to a Dom it is a gift and I strongly believe that all gifts should be respected and cherished.
Looking for a unicorn

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  Utah

I don't really know what to actually say, in my head I feel like I know what I want but it seems like the more I look the more life gets in the way and tells me no.
I'm in a little bit of a low spot at the moment so any good distraction is very much appreciated but it would be nice if it could be more I'm tired and I'm done pretending, my life right now is an extremely mess, and if you would like to be apart of it understand I expect alot, because I will own you, and you will belong to me not kind of not maybe, you will be collared and kept.... so if it's just fun understand I probably won't out in too much effort but if you're worth keeping and you have something to offer, I will keep you for ever...
I like manners and a girl who understands what it means to be a submissive.... not a sugar baby or just a little who expects everything for nothing I'm tired of normal I want something worth fighting for... and I know it is a little difficult to get in touch on this site, but maybe that can be the first test, if you're in Utah and can get in contact, then you'll have my attention.

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  Nottingham, England

21 year old young stud new to the site! Living in Nottingham and looking for some submissive women looking to be dominated by a young athletic stud.

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45 y/o      Crown Point, Indiana

I am looking for 2-3 girls to set-up a long-term partnership, and hopefully a 24/7 dom/sub closed poly relationship.

I want to buy a house in Michigan (preferrably Grand Rapids).

Turn one room/area into a BDSM play room where we will make BDSM content together.

Turn one room/area into a grow room to grow 12 plants (for now until we can get a license for more).

Learn how to make edibles and other treats, and make a bunch of 'how to' content.

Once I establish that you are geniunely interested, I will send pics, personal deets and all that jazz.

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  Dallas, Texas

Looking for a real life sex slave. I am a 48 year old Dominate guy looking for a very open minded lady for on going play. Looking for a lady that wants to be controlled being told what to do and who to do. I also have a slight sadist side so the slave I am looking for should have a bit of a Masochist side. I tend to be very protective of my slaves and their well being / safety is my top concern.

I do like to have fun and be playful as well. I can also be demanding and except you to do daily tasks possibly throughout the day and to always tell me your whereabouts. I do have a kink of going to adult theaters ( I host ladies night at one) and you must be ok with going as well and being shared by me with those I decide there. I do not expect this to happen over night since there should be a trust built between us to know I have your best interest and safety at heart. Send me a message and let discuss.

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37 y/o      Sterling, Virginia

What is true dominance?
Regarding the title I can show you what true dominant is if you wanted to of course.
I am also looking to meet some submissive ladies, doesn't matter where even if it's online to start is ok, however I'm located in Virginia right now, but I do travel all the time so if you are interested hook me up, and hopefully you do know the real meaning of dominant man, if you would like to know anything you can message me I'm not willing to share everything on my profile on the internet.

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  Covington, Kentucky

Yes ladies come home to daddy he misses you very honest , no bullshit games lets get this started baby
I am 46 6'3, 224 SWM

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  Washington

Seeking an obedient sub. We can start our relationship online and take it to RL if we both feel comfortable. I need someone that is obedient and can take commands. I am new and willing to experiment a lot. Read my bio for more info.

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58 y/o      Alabama

I'm looking for a baby girl my last one passed away and I am lonely I want r/t

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  United States

I’m currently in the need of a submissive maid that can serve my every need.
The requirements are any women between the ages of 18-25 that are interested in role play, BDSM, latex, and are willing to explore there desires.

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  London, England

Looking to explore our kinks together and if necessary happy to mentor, into everything from sensory dep and painplay

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36 y/o      Orlando, Florida

I'm 32 years old, 6 foot even, brown hair, blue eyes, in orlando, been in the life style since I was a kid since my mother was a harsh Mistress. Then as I turned 21 i found my first Mistress to find that I was in more incontrol of her than she was of me and that's when I became a Master from that day forth as I tried to save as many Slaves/submissive as I could from abusive Masters. I know I am not perfect but I strive to put my own first and give them the best life they can have. I am looking for my other half to spend my life with. I hope to find an understanding, intelligent, trustworthy, and loyal submissive to grow with as we both take part in a each other life's learning how to work together and making a bond that no other can break.

So if you like what you read please send me a message and see what type of future we can have

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  London, England

I'm a professional mater. Very good in understanding shy and new to BDSM subs.

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29 y/o      Lemoyne, Pennsylvania

Right now my poly family consists of 2 amazing bisexual submissive women of whom I love. The 3 of us are looking for 1 additional member. Must be a bisexual female. Preferably a switch to dominate them but submit to me, otherwise a complete submissive would be fine. 28 or younger preferably, race doesn't matter but we do all happen to think Asian women look very nice if that encourages anyone. Message me if interested

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28 y/o      Virginia

I am looking for long term someone who is there for it all (not dating) pm me for more details!

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  Magnolia, Texas

Howdy every
I'm a married Texas man 32 looking for an sub. I am married and you'd be a secret. I'm looking for a mostly online relationship. I'm very open to more if it evolves into more over time. Feel free to hit me up if you have any questions.

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27 y/o      Carlsbad, California

I’m a 22 Male , new to the whole scene of Daddy / Little. I don’t have much for a limit just yet. Im very dominate, and would love to meet someone who would like to keep things casual, I’m also interested in the slave/master scene as well as cougars and milfs. Like I said, I’m all around the board but I’m looking for someone to progress this curiosity in life I have!

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  Cape Town, Western Cape

I'm looking for a sub /little. I have realised I'm fine with vanilla but prefer more spice. I am patient to earn trust first but not here to play games. I'm honest, caring and real. Willing to put a lot of effort into the right person.

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  United States

I'm a dominant male seeking a real life slave or submissive to collar/claim for my own. She must be willing to travel and be open-minded. I consider the mind the ultimate erogenous zone, and would prefer to vette her with a Twenty Questions approach.
Simple rules: 1) Anything goes, no question is off-limits, so be prepared to expose yourself completely if you respond. 2) All answers must be completely honest. This is a mutual interview process, though I may enjoy role-playing and various other shenanigans and certainly don't mind discussing such, learning is the main focus of the game. 3) The game shall go back and forth, with one question at a time, but absolutely NO Immediate repeat questions. After all, one can learn as much about a person by their questions, as one can from their answers.
I enjoy pushing my slave/submissive's fantasies to their limits. To push them beyond where they have been before, and (don't underestimate this), they must enjoy the process. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind humiliating her, degrading her, exposing her or physically punishing her if the situation warrants, or my whim demands it, but I prefer her to enjoy the experience, I don't seek to break my toys.
I've been in a couple of these relationships, but due to my job, I've spent the last ten years working towards various life goals that have precluded proper...hunting. I considered my rather mobile lifestyle to make me undateable, and frankly, I'm not desperate or needy. But, for the right being, I could certainly make...allowances. If you don't find the interview process too daunting, and you could submit yourself to leaving your roots behind, feel free to message me a question, and let us begin.

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  Santa Barbara, California

I'm and experienced Dom, and am searching for a well behaved sub to serve me. I'm in the bedroom I can be quite demanding, asking a lot of my sub, but the rewards I offer far exceed my rules I put forth on my sub. I'm into just about everything, and have experience in most of the different interests you might have. Get in touch, let's make these dreams you have an amazing reality, imagine waking everyday, knowing that I am ready, willing and able to make those toes curl... look forward to hearing from you.

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  Newark, New Jersey

Dominant mature Black Man in the Newark Nj ironbound area. Young women of any ethnicity contact for discipline/Daddy issues.

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26 y/o      Atlanta, Georgia

I’m searching for a young submissive that will listen and is also laid back

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  Los Angeles, California

Experienced Online Dom via Live Video Chat & Blog w/ Tasks. Still looking for my first IRL BDSM Sub in Los Angeles. Specializing in commands relating to your own personal kinks as well as mine. My BDSM spectrum ranges from spoiling and admiration to treating you like my personal sex doll. Please read my profile for more info. I hope to hear from one of you soon.

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  United States

Are you low sub , or a professional woman who enjoys and finds relief in verbal abuse. On line only. Relieve your stress. Satisfy your craving

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29 y/o      Blairstown, New Jersey

I've been practicing hypnotism for about 7 years. I'm not going to claim to be any kind of expert, but i know a thing or two at least.

I've heard hypnosis as the "chocolate sauce" of the dom/sub world. The idea being that it makes everything better. No money for bondage gear? Hypnotize your sub to think they're bound up. Tired of just roleplaying something? Tize your sub to think the scenario is real. Even more unrealistic things can happen with hypnosis, for example: what are those tentacles doing coming out from under your bed?

All with consent and communication of course, the sub isn't at the tists whim either, unless they choose to be. If you're not comfortable? You can just push those suggestions away, no harm can come to you.

If you've had hypno fun before or at interested in trying after seeing my little informational ad here, feel free to reply or message me.

Happy hypno times to you all.

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65 y/o      New York

hello I am a very strict dominant man looking for submissive girls, cuckold couples for bondage fun, spankingI have over 36 years in experiences, you must host near me and have all party favorites! your size does not matter to me !if you have no experiences or little experiences please don’t worry and I love shy girls to so don’t be ashamed of that! I will trained all ! we can discuss what more is! you age is between 18-60 will consider older! you need to be trustworthy and real! I have no time for games! If you have any questions please feel free to ask? I will answer all who will reply! have a wonderful day!

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  Swansea, Wales

A genuine sub required to submit and satisfy her masters needs. She will be treated as a sub and will be respected well if she behaves. Preferably in the South Wales to Bristol area.

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  California

Looking for a sub woman for online relationship to begin, with some irl contact later if things work. Read my profile to know more

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42 y/o      New York, New York

Hello, really enjoying the site. There are many wonderful people. I am looking for like minded women who are interested in Exploring more about the BDSM culture, going to start going to local munches and events. Feel free to reply if your interested. Once again in Local, NJ/NYC/CT or PA, area, Online is great but nice to get out of the house and grab a cup of coffee and talk about latest rope techniques or books being read outside the confides of your home. If your interested feel free to reply. Married single, poly doesn't matter. But Female only

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70 y/o      Worcester, Massachusetts

im looking for sub in mass or new england. must be willing to get punished hard. nipple and anal play. i am in worcester mass area

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  San Diego, California

My end goal here is to find someone to come stay with me in San Diego and try a master-slave style relationship. We can of course get to know each other online first.

Check my profile for more information and/or send me a message if you're into it.

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60 y/o      Covington, Kentucky

I am searching for a submissive female that is interested in growing and learning about a submissive/slave lifestyle. Novices that are learning about themselves are welcome. I am not looking for a fast hookup, so those that are searching for that, I am not the one for you.

I want to learn as much as possible about you, just as I want you to learn as much as possible about me. Only then can a mutually responsible decision be made as to whether or not further involvement can move forward. I have my principles and I have my plans, the person I want by my side must buy into the total package, doing otherwise will not provide a healthy relationship for either party.

My drive is teaching my submissive in giving proper service, proper obedience, giving her life direction and supplying a sound structure for her and the relationship to be successful.

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56 y/o      Boca Raton, Florida

I would cherish your gift of submission . My Dom. Style
Is an iron fist in a velvet glove.
Hold my hand for a glorious
Journey

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  Bahrain

I like to be simple, handcuffs , spanking ect.. and training you to be a good sex pet .
and if you obey , you'll get a good vagina massage ; )

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  Asheville, North Carolina

Looking for a sub. Someone to be used. Looking in the western North Carolina and upstate South Carolina area 5’11 220 tattooed guy can send pics via snap or kik

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  Pewsey, England

Following the mutual dissolution of a 15 year D/s relationship, I am looking for a new submissive. I am not looking for pain sluts or ones that feel the need to rebel to get attention, you will get enough of that as I do not use and abuse. My style is mental over physical, you will become an addict for the pleasure I will create. I see BDSM as a way of enhancing the sexual experience rather than a way of asserting authority.
I am looking for a fit submissive, no experience necessary and I am willing to provide trial periods for those unsure this is right for them. You will be below 50 unless you can show me you are supple as there will be lots of bondage and very high heels.
I have a lovely house in the countryside with room for "Dungeon" and a submissive can expect to spend many an hour in there.
If you wish to become a permanent fixture in my life then you will need to be able to hold an intelligent conversation, be literate (- and by that the minimum is to understand the difference between Your and You're or There and Their) as you will be accompanying me on nights out and to be presentable in company since you may be meeting friends who are not aware of my lifestyle.
For this I offer the chance to experience feelings you have only dreamed of, commitment to your pleasure as well as mine and a lifetime of being cared for.

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  Bartow, Florida

The title pretty much says it all.

I am a hypnotist with lots of experience.

If you are in Florida that would be ideal, but to get into hypnosis you only need to be able to hear my voice. Skype, phone, or any other voice app you may prefer will work just fine.

I am not in any rush to find someone to hypnotize. I have had many subjects over the years. I seek someone that I can get to know, and establish a personal connection with, and that I can share the pleasures of hypnosis with over time.

The possibilities are only limited by your imagination and mine.

Drop me a note and let me know if you are interested in finding out more about hypnosis. We can go from there.

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  North Carolina

Looking for sub/slave or ddlg for ltr.

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37 y/o      California

I'm a 31 year old, dominant and sadistic male. I'm in search of a female who thrives off of the idea of being owned and having her body used for sexual pleasure. She should enjoy being bound and having her holes, crevices and mounds toyed with. The goal for the relationship should be to build up to a 24/7 Total Power Exchange and Consentual Non-consent scenario in which she accepts her place as a tool for pleasure. I'm not disregarding any people inexperienced or unsure. I have experience with training people. If you have any questions on specifics, feel free to ask.

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  Ireland

Irish. Sing. Dance love music. Work with stone. Has stone cottage. With waterfall close With old standing stones. ?✨?✨?☘

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  California

Hello,
I'm looking for a daughter who wants a long term monagamus relationship.I was a Daddy for almost 3 years.Although I care for her she sleeps around and that is a total turn off to me.Im kind loving love to snuggle but I'm also enforce the rules.Send me a message if interested.

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54 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

Single white male, seeking female for BDSM possibly more. I have limited experience with this, but I have enough to know that I want more. I have played with women in the past who were more experienced than myself and knew what they wanted. I like when she knows what she wants. I generally take very good care of my property, but I am ok with degrading and humiliating her, if she is Into that. I love to learn as well as teach. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.

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26 y/o      Wyoming

I’m looking for a cute sub that will please me, and let me care for them. I would like to start out online and have some fun, maybe if things get serious we can work something else out.
I’m a dom at heart but also a switch, I love kinks in general and am open to many things. I am 100 percent straight as well. As shallow as it makes me feel to say this I have to be physically attracted to you as well, apologies in advance. Message me if you want to know more?

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  Nashville, Tennessee

Are you ready to obey your master and become my submissive little girl? I need a woman that wants to be dominated and obeys master. I love to role-play and tease a woman until she cannot take any more. If you want to be used like the little slut that you are then reach out to me. Let’s have fun and explore each other’s bodies and see where things go.

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  United States

Are you seeking a caring, paternal presence in your life? Do you ever need to share thoughts and feelings--or vent--with someone who listens attentively, has life-experience, whom you trust? A 60s professional gentleman (with a much younger appearance) who no longer needs to work full-time is waiting to hear from you.

This Daddy is gentle, calm, thoughtful, and open-minded--spiritual, but not judgmental. I enjoy reading, select sports, movies, spirituality, travel (hopefully again soon), outdoor activities. My health is excellent, and I'm physically active.

I'm open to developing a close, intimate, long term Daddy-daughter relationship with an emotionally mature daughter having complementary needs. I will embrace a woman of any race/ethnicity, age, marital/family status, and physical appearance. Ability to share feelings openly and honestly is essential.

I'm a husband and father of grown children IRL, and this will not change. I'm full of love, and have more of it to share. I look forward to finding you.

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25 y/o      Sterling Heights, Michigan

I am a master/dom looking for a slave/sub for giving online tasks and training. I really only want this to be online by giving daily tasks and training to help improve the submissive. Please message me so we can first get to know each other and I can understand you better

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23 y/o      Germany

I will do only a online relationship but I will send Nudes or do video calls. I‘m very inexperienced thats why i‘m searching a female who goes easy on me and maybe is inexperienced as well. But honestly i don‘t care about ur experience. I can be very lovely if u want to or dominate u completely. I give u rules that you have to follow otherwise you get punished. U will have free days. If you have questions just hit me up.

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  Hawaii

I seek the unexplored submissive. The one who understand that its the journey we seek and not the destination, for it is only on this journey that a path for life can be found. I'm an excellent guide

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  Råde, Viken

I am a master who makes all the calls. You will be mine and mine alone. Give me a msg if your that girl

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  West Islip, New York

I’m looking for a sub who knows what she wants. Plus she is in it for the long term. I want a relationship with full attention, love, support, caring, passionate, trust, loyalty, respect, fun, dinner dates out, being best friends and exploring our Dom/sub sexuality too

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  Birmingham, England

im young but keen to experiment i have some experience with brats and baby girls but limited and want to see how things go

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  Denmark

I am looking for a connection, I don't like to rush things, I would rather get to know you, so the first couple of times we chat no kink stuff will happen. I want to know your likes/dislikes limits, and if you have some bad experiences I would very much appreciate to know those as well.

Kink related I like to be in control, some pain, I do enjoy bondage, but with the virus and stuff this will happen online exclusively, so any bondage stuff you will have to do yourself. I am not much into degradation, but I am capable.

Ideally you do not mind pictures/video/video calls.

Your experience level is not so important, if you are new I will go easy on you, if you do not know your limits we can 'discover' them together, but very slowly so we do not cross any limits by accident.

Age is also not all that important to me, just be 18+ I guess any upper limit is rather arbitrary I will take that on a case by case basis.

I am not a great fan of chat or messages on reddit, I prefer discord, but I am not refusing to use reddit just prefer to move to another platform fairly quickly.

On reddit I do prefer chat over messages.

In the case that you found this even a little interesting send me a chat and include at least the word 'crab' and something about yourself, such as your first name, nearest major city, your age, and some short description of yourself.

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  Pennsylvania

looking for something online to start...

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  Charlotte, North Carolina

Greetings,

A very good morning/afternoon/evening/night. My name is Gamerdom or GD. For those interested, I'll be leaving any information regarding me, what I'm looking for, what you can expect. Here goes nothing!

About me:
As far as my real name goes, that's not important right now. I will tell you my first name once we get to that level of trust. I'm thirty years old, stand at a height of six feet. I have short blonde hair, greenish blue eyes. I have about ten years of online dom experience. As far as my vanilla and every day life goes, I work at a local sub shop currently but have a degree in Computer Information Systems. With that said, I have transitioned to working mornings, so I am looking for subs and/or slaves that are available in the afternoon/evening EST.

I am the quintessential geek. I play video games EVERYDAY without fail, new comic book day is Wednesday just so everyone knows, and yes I am a Jedi.

I find everything interesting, and I always analyze things from an objective view. You can bring up a topic from no where and I probably have some kind of knowledge about it. From Star Trek to animal care, I find it fun to know a little about everything.

My sexual likes:
Likes: humilation/degrading, moderate and hidden public, clothes fetish/wardrobe control, orgasm denial/chastity

What I'm looking for/expect from you:
I'm looking for a loyal FEMALE submissive who's willing to push her limits for me. A couple of things that I expect from my submissive is to be active. I know you don't have all the time in the world to invest into me, but I atleast expect to hear from you on a daily basis. An hour conversation is enough for this, really. What I also expect is for my submissive is to be honest with me. A long-term relationship like this is built out of trust, so lying to me will not make me want to keep you around. I'm searching for those who are willing to do daily tasks and one on one guided sessions, varying from edges, to semi/hidden public to other forms of masturbation (or not).

Another thing I expect from my submissive is that she's willing to either share pics (face doesn't have to be included, but bonus points if you do), videos or even just audio. I've seen too many boys making fake profiles on here stating that they are 'girls' only to be revealed when they don't want to send pictures for proof and I'm loath that. I know that this will take time, so don't worry about that. I allow my submissives to basically pace out what they're comfortable with. Examples of this include sending pictures of your clothing folded on the floor of the bathroom stall I just instructed you strip in. So, if you're uncomfortable with sending pictures, maybe think twice before sending me a PM.

What can you expect from me?:
You can expect my trust, my kindness and my friendship/love once a proper relationship is made between us. Once you start showing disobedience that's when I change into a more strict dominant in order to make you listen. I don't mind someone being bratty occasionally out of playfulness, but if it happens too often, or you do it just to simply spite me, then I'm sorry; I'm probably not meant to be your dominant.

How to contact me:
If you're interested, please send me a PM on here. Including a bit about yourself, particularly your kinks and limits, so I know if we'll be a match or not, would be prudent as well.

This was everything that I've really needed to tell you. If there are any questions left unanswered, don't hesitate to shoot me a PM. I'm a friendly guy, just looking for both love and lust at the same time. I don't bite, unless you kinkily ask me. For now, this is goodbye.

Yours truly,

GD

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41 y/o      Canada

Hello,

Read my profile and if you have questions or would like to have some stimulating conversation, message me.

Regards,

LordWes

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  Ripley, Mississippi

Memphis area TOP that has been around the life for 35 years now...looking for rope bunnies and the like....experience not necessary..DO NOT ask me for any money....if you have to travel to me it will be on your dime

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22 y/o      Pennsylvania

So I’m looking for a girl who will be loyal and never give up what we will build with each other. Enjoy our company together and do the stuff couples do. :)

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42 y/o      Tucson, Arizona

...fun times, and great stories. Daddy dom looking for a sub-leaning woman to connect with, share adventures, and maybe road trip travels. Honesty, respect, trust, safety, and GGG needed. Curious? AMA.

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