Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

29 y/o      United States

I'm actively looking for a submissive female for a D/s relationship. I'm very tied up in terms of schedule and would prefer an online relationship. However, if you're worth it, I wouldn't hesitate coming for you, where ever you are.

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63 y/o      Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

New to all this. I am learning as I go. I seem to be drawn into this. I need help as I get into this.

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35 y/o      India

An online Dom looking for submissive females. See my profile for more information.
Looking for kinky minded wanting sub...

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32 y/o      Illinois

Looking for a sub woman too help fulfill both our desires! I am fairly new to this but have had no complaints. If interested hmu would prefer the Illinois area but am willing to do a bit of online fun too!

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29 y/o      Fort Worth, Texas

I am new to the lifestyle. Everytime I try and get into it, I meet a snowflake. Not their fault, but I'm just into naughtier, dirtier things. If you are in the Texas area, feel free to PM me. If y'all have any pointers for beginners please don't hesitate to point me in the right direction.

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  Reading, England

Hello there submissive and slaves. I am Andrew, a master living in Reading. I seek my slave or slaves, sub or subs to be taught how to serve.
I am happy to take in any submissive, looking to learn, you may have done this before but every master is different just as every submissive is different.
If I message you all I expect is a response, I do not own you till you are ready to be owned.
Slaves are especially welcome as they can serve as an assistant or just be there for their masters needs.
I offer a home, a firm hand, and many other more fun things as we proceed. I dont pretend to be all knowing, I know some, but am always up to experiment.

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33 y/o      Boston, Massachusetts

Looking for a submissive woman. Someone who is willing to listen to every order given. Someone who wants someone to protect them, but in return is willing to give herself to their Dom. Looking in the Massachusetts areas.

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  New Zealand

I am a 43yo Dom with online experience looking for a female submissive for online fun tailored to suit

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51 y/o      Stockholm, Stockholm County

I am looking for a special and unique woman. Who truly desires to give in to her inner feelings of submission, longing to find her true existence, purpose, pleasure and fulfillment in life. To explore her true, inner and submissive needs.
Maybe you feel hollow or incomplete. You secretly desire to find a loving and firm Master, to help you explore your secret, inner role of ..submission.
A sweet woman who craves love, attention "and longs to be released into her inner roles of her being “naturally submissive”.
To provide you with the discipline, training and sexual passion in your growth while showing you value, respect and the true worth. For the beautiful woman you are-both outside and inner self inside.

I expect a slave, submissive or pet woman. I like to dominate, humiliate, bondage, tie, collar, spank. Woman who truly and willingly wants to be my submissive, slave, or pet.
*-come to my world-*

We create a contract of willingness to be agreed on. So we can continue in the Process of appropriate training.
I am a very DEMANDING Master. Who at the same time are very Honest, Loving, Affectionate, Understanding, Protective and Passionate.

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46 y/o      Everett, Washington

I'm in a ltr with a very bratty lil one. Her bratty antics have been few and far between lately so to reward her good behavior I told hey she can find a playmate. We enjoy kink rigging, and playing music together. We are looking for a bff but casual won't hurt our Feelings.

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  Colorado Springs, Colorado

My profile is exactly who I am. I am looking for a female online sub/slave to show her the "ropes" (pun?). You must be 85-99% submissive.
You must be seriously interested in a long term relationship. I consider myself very intelligent, athletic, humorous, considerate and caring. Open to any females (age, weight, religion etc not a show stopper).

If you are in Colorado area, would love to meet you in person.

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  Florida

Stacey, if you see this ad please contact me. I lost your number. Let’s try again!

Bruce aka Daddy

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34 y/o      Arkansas

Looking for a submissive girl in the Conway/little rock arewho knows this is what she wants. Tho area I'm open on.

I'm preferably looking for a girl who wants to submit fully to a Dom and does or does not need training.

I am a sadist by nature but over the years I've learned how to channel that and overall I enjoy most kinks.

Tell me about your self and your limits and kinks as well as what your looking for in the first message dear

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29 y/o      North Dakota

I am seeking a submissive girl to be mine I'll tie you up and eat your pussy for hours at a time and make you orgasm twenty times in a row. You'll have to blow me some but basically every single boner I plan to bury inside you gently I'll thrust slowly fucking you I'll cum quick but I will have a second load before I'm soft. Plus I will have you sucking on my dick when it dies of exhaustion lol and I'll fuck you again and again every boner I get I'm going to be in you. I may be young but I can get hard I'd bet we'll over ten times a day..... Beyond those three things I will command we get kinky I'll command you to dominate me for this long each day. I'll expect you peg my ass make me worship your feet spit and piss on me while I'm under your controll for a few hours a day maybe some other stuff I hope someone submissive or that's switch enjoys this and messages me

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  Connecticut

I am looking for a younger kitten/sub to take this fun journey together. Looking to have a fun experience that hopefully becomes longterm if we click. I have always had a dominate side and just now free to explore it.

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52 y/o      Oaks, Pennsylvania

This is not just about me, it is about you as well. While a slave is about obedience, there are there fair share of subs out there are well that do see this form of perversion. But I only want a live in female. My detailed profile will lay it out for you.

First I need a female under 33 that DOES NOT HAVE the mindset of "they are disposable", usable, pleasurable, affection, compassion, YES, but not "disposable."
Thinking yourself as "disposable" is a horrible way to be a good sub. To think yourself disposable implies you have no value as a sub or a slave. That, in turn, is an insult to your Master whom you may claim to worship. Do you think your Master would waste their time with a disposable bag of skin and bone, no. But not only that, it is an insult to yourself. You are sacrificing your time to please this person. You are sacrificing your control, free-will, and frankly, your emotional safety to this person. I know there are hundreds of porn videos, articles, and parties that give you the impression that there are hundreds of slaves and masters out there to choose from.
But the truth is, it's not that simple. They're still people. If you want to please this future Master, tell yourself that you are valuable and special. Be honoured. Realise that if I choosing you to be my sub or slave,I'm recognising you as special and perceive as the ideal person to fulfill my needs.
It's easier to push yourself for the sake of gratitude, than it is to adopt the ridiculous mindset that you're somehow "disposable." This mindset can damage you psychologically in the long run.

Of course, we’d like someone whose company we enjoy, and who enjoys ours, but at the end of the day, this is all about on a combination of objectification and sexual service the opportunity. Now she can indulge herself by bathing, grooming and dressing her beforehand (to my specification). If you find something like this even slightly appealing, I would love to talk to you about what would really work for you and me.

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25 y/o      Port Angeles, Washington

Hi, I'm Merlin, I'm 20, and I am looking for a sub. Preferably under 30 and local but not picky. I do work so I might not see the the response right away. This a 'are we home/somewhere safe, then it can be playtime, are we in public, then at best you get a remote vibrate in you.

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63 y/o      Texas

Looking for LTR sub pain sluts especially welcomed women only

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53 y/o      Newbury, England

Hi
i am a friendly, trustworthy Dom guy who is looking to connect with just one local submissive girl who is looking for training.
mutual respect of our roles is very important.
i prefer new submissive girls, as its easier to shape and train, and share ideas.
i have experience in training mature girls; 35 - 45; who want to experience further submissive training, and shared sex play.
knowing what it feels like to be owned and protected by Master.

please contact me so we can discuss the process

Thank you.

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63 y/o      Franklin Square, New York

I live in western long island seeking female submissive/slave- experienced or trainee welcome. im experienced , surrender your desires to me

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  Baton Rouge, Louisiana

I am totally new to this site, but I have been in this lifestyle for more than 5 years now. Well, the post is self-explanatory I guess. I would like to take control of a woman. I like all kinds of BDSM and kinky stuff, so much into water sports and EA. Connect with me to know more!

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  United Kingdom

Again, no brats - all else can apply

With regard

Deviant Posh fella

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24 y/o      Maryland

Looking for either an online slave, little, or masochistic with the possibility of IRL.

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  Florida

Attractive, athletic, educated Daddy/Dom in Tampa. Looking for attractive sub/masochist in Florida, preferably close to Tampa. Looking to build trust and connection with you so we can push our limits. I’m patient if you are new, domineering if you are experienced and have been told that I know exactly what a sub wants (everyone is different). Not interested in online unless it has a realistic chance of meeting in person. I’m a natural D, that means I’m very strict and forceful yet rewarding and affectionate for my good girl.

I know you are out there and need a Daddy Dom to serve and please. I’m one message away and waiting for you....

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31 y/o      Karachi, Sindh

I am 27 years old young , smart guy looking for a submissive women who can rule over me. I have never experienced BDSM before but love to try this time. I am ready to relocate anywhere in the world.

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  United Kingdom

Single and looking to start again in life, this time I am seeking to do it with an open minded submissive lady, who eventually wishes to live-in and serve her Master.

I'm based in the South-East of England and London.

If this sounds engaging to you, please get in touch, I don't bite, but I do spank, choke, slap, and hair pull (amongst a lot of other things)

Chris.

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33 y/o      Washington, District of Columbia

I just joined yesterday. I'm a 28 year old Dom from Washington DC. I enjoy taking Control in bed and asserting my Dominance. I'm looking for a new sub who is a great listener and can't wait to please her Daddy Dom. I want to make you Mine. I'm into many kinks and taboo interests. Message me and find out more. Your age is not a factor but must be over 18.

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59 y/o      Oregon

55 yr old Dominant male. In a poly marriage, yes she is aware and on board with this. Searching for a sub/slave either trained in or willing to be trained in thr gorean style. Hopefully in time to become a live in arrangement.

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64 y/o      London, England

Hi, I am a firm but fair dom, I am looking for a sub female (local would be good). Happy to discuss limits and boundaries. Must be willing to go for weekends away and occasional trips to naturist spas

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39 y/o      St. Petersburg, Florida

My girlfriend and I are experienced dominants. We are extremely helpful to anyone new to the scene. We are very respectful of your needs. For anyone who is a more experienced sub, just let us know what you’re into and we can for fill your fantasy. No fire or scat. The best part about being a dominant couple is that you can choose to either be dominated by my girlfriend, by me or by both of us. Having that option makes a lot of people feel more comfortable and that’s exactly how someone should feel going into a new situation like this. I have a dedicated room with almost every tool needed. Ropes ties whips bondage equipment etc. you choose your fantasy and we will fulfill it.

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  Denmark

Idk if this is the right place, but im looking for a girl or woman who loves to be dominated by me.
Im a 22 year old guy, who likes to edge and dominates girls to the max. If i tell you to do something, you have to obey me. If not, then u will be punished. Everything we do will be doing online. Either on snapchat, kik, skype u name it. but i want photos and videos of what u do, and what i tell u to do. My world is law. We will do a lot of sessions, like anal, gagging and much more. We have to trust each other. That means, if we dont want each other to show faces, then we dont. It will take a lot of trust built between us, or maybe you are ready to jump right in. Whatever it is, hopefully we can work something out. We can talk more in private and see more specifics if we match etc. If u want someting, then u have to ask your daddy first. If i say go for it, then u have to do it, and u will be rewarded. If i say no, and u still break the rules, then u will be punished, hard! Beg for me, your little slut. I want everything to be documented. If you're interested, then send me a DM and we'll figured it out. Hope to here from u, girls. ;)

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51 y/o      Sacramento, California

You must be willing to make our relationship one of your top priorities.

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28 y/o      Mount Airy, Maryland

I’m new to the Lifestyle so I’m still learning. I’m loyal, honest, and up front about everything and I’m looking for the same from my sub. I’m looking for Real life or Long distance. I want to get to know you first before anything happens. Please message me if you want to know more

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29 y/o      England

Hello.

My name is Aiden. I'm 24 years old and live in London UK.

I'm looking for a submissive to let me take control of. Ideally looking for someone younger, but can speak to anyone older if I think we gel.

I'd like to start online and then eventually move into real life if we live close enough or have the ability to.

My Kinks include Roleplaying and clothes control as a basic start, but in person I like choking, biting, spanking, whipping, giving punishments and rewards, Bondage and subservience.

Respect is massively important to me. Respecting Boundaries, emotions, privacy, and consent.

Drop me a message if you like what you see and we can take it from there.

Thanks,

Aiden

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  United States

Looking for a down to earth submissive female who is looking to serve her man in every way possible.

I am a happily separated white professional. I am naturally dominant and typically in an authoritative, rather than authoritarian, way. I am kind and supportive of those I choose to have in my life, however intimate relationships just don't work out well with anyone who identifies as anything other that submissive. I am not afraid of not having fun, or being fulfilled, sexually and all that, yet I am looking for so much more than sex. This type of relationship requires a lot of trust on both sides, and sex is just one part of that.

I get along with most personality types, other than bitchy—you all know who you are—and I like to enjoy the warmth and closeness that a solid relationship provides.

I am not afraid to put my money where my mouth is, so to speak, and so I will be supporting you financially in this equation. You will live with me in my house, and take care of all of my, and our, domestic needs. I am not flashy, but I do like my females to look good. You should be able to be presentable in public; I prefer to pass as vanilla out in the world so you should be able to as well. I am fine with some piercings and tattoos. Please ask if you have any questions regarding this.

I prefer educated people, but that is not a hard limit. I like to live a healthy natural lifestyle free of crappy food and chemicals, so you should too or you should have the desire to want to.

I typically fall into the role of mentor, or boss. Well I am a boss, and so sometimes I forget that I am just conditioned to be in charge, so it's normal for me. I am strong, yet my nature is to be gentle unless provoked. I am kind of a flirt in person, just a habit, but I am not down for casual sex.

I like to have fun, and I am looking for a female that knows how to care for a man, and can help be the impetus to get out and do fun activities as I can get bogged down at work, and end up working too much. I definitely need that feminine energy to balance me out! I do like to travel, but who knows when that will be a possibility again! Well, it will be a possibility at some point, so if you do not currently have a passport you would need to get one.

Contact me, and let me know about yourself and what you are ideally looking for.

I don't do social media much, so please do not expect an immediate response. Obviously, we would have to follow safe protocols to eventually meet up. If we wanted to make it happen, I am fine with paying for you to relocate to where I am.

Look forward to hearing from you soon!

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  Denver, Colorado

I am seeking an aggressive oral submissive that knows how to listen and loves to instructed and praised for being Daddies little girl looking for all the Tittie butter she can get from her big sweet treat that keeps her nipples rock hard, edge playing all day as you keep Daddies nuts from drawing up, and back off, pulling your nuts down nice and slow, getting your creamy ooze of pre-cum, pulling it out of your hot hungry sucker, that loves being watch, feeding Daddies titties all night

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  Houston, Texas

I am a Master, not a Dom. I am not into S&M as I prefer service and obedience oriented women. I will use a whip or paddle for PUNISHMENT of transgressions or disobedience. Part of the lifestyle includes collars, bracelets, restraints, ropes, chains and high protocols. I am searching for an intelligent, submissive (obviously), sexy, sensual, affectionate and, above all, loyal and committed woman to share my life in the Houston area.

If you wish to know more then contact me.

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  Australia

I am pretty new to this, little shy but i really enjoy being a dom, i am hoping this ad will help me to make friends and maybe even lead to owning a submissive, i am a very caring person and enjoy taking care of others and making them happy

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55 y/o      Ohio

Yes, I decided to redo my ad. I am looking for a woman who will wear only silk and/or satin garments, except at certain times like say swimming. I also want her to take care of all my needs. If we work well together, I could be interested in doing a LTR with you. You see my test results, and I am willing to deal with most items. If you wish to send photos, do it. I however don't want nude pictures. You say to your self, what is this guy crazy?? The answer is no. I like the whole package, I love unwrapping my presents. So, show me pictures of you in a teddy, camisole set and even bra and panties. If you don't have silk or satin, don't stress out. That problem can be fixed.

Things to think about
1. If you work, that is okay by me. I don't want financial control over, unless this is a true TPE.
2. I will not interfere with your kids if you have any, unless otherwise agreed upon.
3. I currently do not have any, but I want a to have a little girl down the road, unless you let me adopt yours.
4. I enjoy sci-fi, computers and great TV shows. I am also into Opera, plays, ballets and very dusty, moldy, ancient music. Properly known as classical. Don't worry if your not into those.
5. I would suggest we talk to each, before we meet.
6. I would like to make this as a weekend, if we get through Friday dinner. The weekend I can explore your body, and yes you will explore every bit of mine.


That is all I can say for now.

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25 y/o      Baltimore, Maryland

Im a 6'0 250 husky build 21 year old Dom. Im young but experienced. Looking for my partner and submissive. I love to spoil and play with my toy but I have a devious side. Come...... Be my Little sub

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47 y/o      Fort Myers, Florida

I am a Master Pleasure Dominat in fort Myers, I'm seeking a goodgirl Submissive/slave/ pet/babygirl to indulge in some erotic activities that will have you squirting hard, dripping wet, body shaking and quivering as I leave you in a puddle of pleasure...

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44 y/o      Greece

The very fact that I live on an island places some constraints on what I can look for and meet, but as long as I don't have a partner I am fully open to accommodating for free in a guesthouse I have heterosexual, bisexual and pansexual female submissives, slaves, masochists, rope bottoms and switches willing to try their submissive side and looking to travel to Greece at any time during the year. There are hardly people to meet in Greece so I am primarily looking for people from abroad. If something long-term can evolve out of this the better.

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49 y/o      Merced, California

Tired of fakes. Prefer an experienced, full-time slave. I am open to training but prefer a slave with some experience. This is a real ad. Please contact me if interested. I am open to relocating a slave to my residence.

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  Antigua and Barbuda

I'm 30, fairly experienced in monogamous D/s. Looking for a genuine connection with someone that can develop into an irl relationship. Relocation possible if compatible enough.

I love smart, confident women that desire to be dominated both mentally and physically. I enjoy pushing the limits of both pleasure and pain. Bdsm is much more than kink, and requires love, trust and communication. I will not instantly treat you like a sub, and I want to get to know you before we begin any sort of dynamic.

I'm 6'5, 230 lbs with a fairly athletic build. No six pack, but I work out and enjoy outdoor activities. I go to the beach every weekend and read every day. I'm a lucid dreamer, and I enjoy spiritual discussions as much as scientific ones.

I don't care about ethnicity, but you must be at least fairly active and in decent shape. I love nerdy girls, and I find accomplishments sexy as fuck. Soft spot for petite (under 5'5) girls, though just about everyone is short to me.

If we connect and form a relationship, it will be exactly that, kink as well as connection. I can be a strict Dom yet a loving and supportive partner.

If you want someone to encourage and motivate you by day, but help you explore your darkest desires by night, read my profile and send me a message :)

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49 y/o      United Kingdom

I am a heterosexual man in his 40s. I love to dominate psychologically but above all physically. I love performing barefoot trampling as a form of corporal punishment. My feet are clean and cared. I am available both for single sessions and as an actor in themed videos.
The slave must be thin, at least 22 years old and be very masochistic.
More information in private

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48 y/o      Ocala, Florida

I am a very loving caring Daddy Dom who also embraces his sadist side looking for any female sub that can fill both sides of whom I am someone who will embrace my loving nurturing side but also craves my sadistic side

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  Portugal

To help (re)build my place, Dragao Verde, and develop it as my haven for congenial well-mannered kinky folk. Very interested in any kind of woman, cis- or trans-. I'm not gay or bi, I find, , so I'm not seeking sexual service from men presenting as male. See profile.

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52 y/o      Snellville, Georgia

Looking for a sub to train and make my own. Must be available during day hours for Daddy's training (I work overnight). Must be obedient, disciplined, respectful and loyal.
Be prepared to open up about all your problems and insecurities because I am not into causing additional mental and physical issues that will haunt you for the ready of your life. Be willing to work through past issues to establish our new dynamic of growth, trust and love.
My ultimate goal is to have a family circle consisting of about 4 to 6 people that can rely on each other and trust each other as we navigate these waters called life.

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  United States

I am a huge female worshiper

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32 y/o      Texas

I’m searching for a Sub, height weight and age is of no importance. What is important however, is your need and desire to please me, your fire and passion to glimpse satisfaction across my face due to your efforts. I want to start by messaging and cam to begin with to see if your are the proper fit for my desires. And to ensure that I am the proper Dom for you. My pleasure comes first and foremost but rest assured one of my many desires is to see your face and body tremble in euphoria, to see your very soul explode from pleasure. You must be able to Follow my direction to the T and trust that my goal is to undoubtedly see that you have orgasms the likes of which you have never experienced.

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  North Carolina

Seeking only white female submissive
Must be elegant classy. No heavy please
Full time relationship and contract a must
Must be able to wear furs and high heels collar and anal play

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  Hopewell, Virginia

Submissive lady training as my sex slave some bdsm ..kinky..and lots love .Will take care of you ..and please you and you may earn the right to wear my coller and be my precious one..

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48 y/o      San Diego, California

Hi, my name is Brandon and my girlfriend and I are looking for a sub to join us. We are clean and drug free. We are looking to explore her bi side. If interested, just message. Thank you

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51 y/o      London, England

I am an experienced, skilled educated and genuine Dominant male, seeking a submissive woman for D/s.

I am white, 5’10, have short brown hair, brown eyes, very clean and healthy, and of an average to big build.

Skilled in guiding both experienced and new submissive woman, I am looking for the right person for who I will provide the most positive intense experiences possible. What those experiences are will depend on who you are, but I will be able to take you to places you will not have been before.

Perhaps you have deep desires, the need to submit, to be dominated by a strong and skilled dominant. Maybe you have been thinking of this for a long time, but are also scared at the thought of it. Take the first step, and I will guide and lead you – but you must be willing to follow.

If this sounds desirable to you please contact me. Please give a considered reply with a little about yourself, and why you were drawn to my advert.

Ideally the person will live in the South East, and or London, but for the right person I am willing to consider people living further afield.

I will not respond to any communication unless initially you write ‘Genuine’ at the start of your email – please also no one line responses.

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31 y/o      Dallas, Texas

My faith is important to me and I want it to be important to my wife as well. I am waiting for marriage to have sex, and I know there aren't many others on here in the same boat, but I've met a few so I know you exist. I figured it was easier to find a Christian here than a kinky submissive in the Christian community. I have a lot of information in my profile, please check it out.

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53 y/o      Sweden

Looking for a submissive woman to explore the dirty corners of the mind with.
We will set the limits together and then let our minds run free.

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49 y/o      United States

I'm a 44 year old married Dom. I'm looking for a younger, 25 to 35, submissive woman for a purely online Ds relationship. Happy to answer all inquiries.

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  Knoxville, Tennessee

Where's the females at that love pain and pleasure?. Love to be used like a whore ? Want tag teamed? Gangbanged? I can train u and make u mine. Show u the ropes of the BDSM lifestyle. Also no strings sexual fun

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40 y/o      United Kingdom

35 year old Dom. Have been a Dom for 17 years. Looking for a submissive female. No need for her to be experienced as I love to teach. A good connection is key. I’m open to online.

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57 y/o      Connecticut

I'm looking for a new sub she should be new to the lifestyle but willing to commit completely I will train her and move her along at a steady and loving rate I understand that the commitment is large but you wouldn't be here if you didn't understand it too

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