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Looking for a good fit.
I need a kind and nurturing Domme, someone who can love me and accept me for who I am... the happy, slightly sarcastic (maybe a little bratty), often flirty side and the dark side that wonders if I will ever be good enough, because my whole life people have shown me or told me that I wasn't and never would be. I need someone who will help me face the harder parts of life, because sometimes adulting sucks, and I just want to lay on the couch and watch YouTube videos or kill a bunch of people in a video game. Sometimes, I want cuddles and to be held and told everything will be okay, sometimes I want to be left alone completely, and sometimes, I want someone to help me flirt with that fine line between pleasure and pain that makes me feel good and lets me float away.
I am a 42 year old post op transgender woman.
I am new to this lifestyle and I am looking for a mistress that will help me increase my femininity.
She would get to be in charge of all aspects of my life.
I want a LTR.
I don’t have money and I am on the autism spectrum so i it is impossible for me to find a job.
Basically I would be a stepford style house wife.
I need training on cleaning, cooking, and dressing feminine.
I love Disney princess and their dress and would love to dress formally even while doing housework.
I love Victorian styles
I also love 1950’s styles
I do have some self esteem issues. I feel both ugly and worthless so I won’t be surprised if no mistresses respond.
I don’t mind relocating but I have to meet you in my hometown first at a place I feel safe at.
That being said I don’t have money to relocate. I would love to get out of North Carolina and see parts of the world that I have never been too.
My limits are no blood or body fluids or solids, no pain.
I am looking for a Dominant Female for a submissive. I would like to find someone who will train me and also would be okay with starting out online. I am new to serving someone but an ready and willing to learn.
My name is Sam and I'm looking for a purely online relationship with a domme. I've never been in a relationship, much less one in the lifestyle but I'm eager to learn. My shyness might be a bit of a hurdle at first so I ask for someone who's patient and willing to teach me. This relationship will be purely online and done through chat. I'm a writer at heart so it's easier for me to speak through writing than it is with my voice or on camera. Though the option for that is open depending on how close we get. I'm a loyal person, soft-spoken and gentle. I'll be a good listener and an obedient sub.
I am a submissive sane educated female who would like to meet a sane educated dominant female. We can meet for a chat and see where we go from there. I'm not amazingly interested in "playing", I'm more interested in a normal monogamous relationship but.... why not just chat and see if we click and where it goes. I'm not really into 24/7, I have a proper normal job and I am responsible for myself. I'm a gay female so please.... no couples who want a third female. I like to think I'm not up myself and I can be obedient and pleasing. I'm not a taker or someone who leans on someone else. I hope I can make you smile and laugh. Ask me if you'd like to know more
I’m not very experienced so I would like someone who can be patient and wouldn’t mind teaching me along the way.
I’m a sub who can be bratty but it depends on the dom I have or my mood. I like to try new things so I don’t have many hard limits expect for scat, urine, and needless. I have many kinks and fantasies I especially love roleplay, bondage, and degrading.
I tend to be very submissive and obedient to the point I have a hard time saying no. I will only address you as you wish out of respect. I’m currently looking for an online dom and I’m also interested in something 24/7.
Feel free to check out my profile. I don’t say anything in particular about me as a person but will tell you if you ask, I’m a very open person. I also took a bdsm test so I have my results on my profile as well. Look forward to hearing from you if you are interested!
older slave, 47 seeking sadistic Domme to use me. I have never been used by a Domme. i consider myself straight, but am excited by the humiliation aspect of it. Very into cnc and forced use
Soft Spoken Joan Holloway Looking For Her Dom Draper
About moi:
*I’m a very fun, soft spoken, eager to please, ambitious, classy dame that's always shooting “for the moon”.
* I'm a super feminine girl from the tops of my very red lips all the way down to my candy colored toes. Your very own quintessential Joan Holloway.
*I'm the deliciously scented perfume that lingers on your lapels hours after our first kiss.
*I would never be caught dead in flats or sneakers, my uniform is always a well tailored dress, my skin is always buttery soft, and hair black and waist length.
*I'm a lover of intelligent conversation from everything pop culture to the works of Salman Rushdie. From live concerts to an opera at the Met. Or a quiet evening over drinks in front of a roaring fire.
*I love glamour and dressing impeccably well. All day, every day. I even dress to go to bed. Sleeping beauty, indeed.
*I still love fairy tales. Delicate princesses in beautiful gowns being woo’d by the ultimate masculine archetype. What’s not to swoon over?
* Very selective.
*Very private.
About You:
Highly Intelligent
I’m drawn to a D/s relationship for the intense mental exchange and connection it provides. The brain is truly the biggest sex organ of all. Stimulate and master my mind FIRST and my body will blindly, mindlessly follow.
Strong but Quiet Confidence
There’s a difference between bravado and confidence. Real Doms know who they are and exude a strength and confidence without being cocky or braggarts. If you feel the need to tell me how confident you are, I WILL raise a doubtful brow.
Excellent Self-control
If I’m going to surrender and entrust my body, mind and soul to you; I need to know you have excellent self-control. I’ll be vulnerable to you in every way so the physical vulnerability (and risk) is obvious, but so is my heart. I am sharing my deepest thoughts and desires and allowing you to explore and expand my limits. You MUST be able to control yourself.
Value Beauty
I happily drown in my femininity and practice glamour every minute of every day. It makes me so very happy and gives me peace. You must be ok with a girl who loves her makeup and to take her time looking beautiful for you and fussing over her hair and stockings. Vain? Perhaps. But it’s worth the wait.
Highly Creative
It’s one of the greatest pleasures for me when I never really knows what to expect – in the bedroom or out – which leaves me feeling on the alert and full anticipation for what may/may not happen. Yum.
Fit in Body, too
I believe a real Dom will take care of their bodies and are in good shape. Our time together may take more than mental and emotional endurance to move through it, it demands a strong body. I’m in the gym 6 days a week - it’s only fair.
Maturity
Self explanatory. I shouldn’t have to teach you how to be a man.
Bonus points - if you have that deep, sexy baritone *swoon*
i'm a male/female post-op eunuch searching for someone to serve! i have a vagina, but no vaginal canal. so i'm in permanate chasity! so i really don't know were i fit in the bd/sm spectrum! i'm a masochist so looking for a sadistic dominate Mistress!
Submissive Woman needing a Dominate to give control
Hello .. My Name is Smurfette, I am a 25 year old submissive/little from Canada. I have both a submissive and little side so I would love to meet someone that is comfortable with both. I Am into all sorts of things when in my submissive headspace. I like it rough but enjoyable. When I’m in little space I love the sweet side of things.
I am not really good at talking on these ads so I guess this might be for nothing. Anyways
I'm 18 years old athletic, petite build. I'm goofy, loving, and caring. Looking for a long term dominant partner who I can give control to. Ages between 25-50, a fit person who takes care of their body because I’ll do the same. I’m currently studying, very intelligent and a hard worker. I’m naturally a submissive person. I enjoy giving up control so that I can live stress-free and I need to be with a dominant I can trust. I live in NewYork
Hello I'm a timid shy female sub seeking a firm but sensual domme to help me work on overcoming some things in life. I have a fear of men but need to get used to them
I've been curious about the lifestyle for quite some time but never quite took the leap to actually seek out a domme or something of that sort. I know a bit about the lifestyle as well as what I want and crave. I'm open to a lot of different things but above all I'd like to form a connection! Feel free to message me!
I've been doing this thing for I dunno how long but I haven't had not one bit of luck. I'm in search of my dom, female dom to be exact. My profile pretty much says all that there is to know but I am always willing to dish out a bit more about myself. Just, for the longest, I've been craving the feel and control of another woman. Men, being who and how they are most of the time just because I'm new, have not had any positive affect on me besides good friends. I hope that I can patiently speak to someone, hopefully of the same gender, that would be willing to give "this" a shot.
I’m new to the sub world, but I’m looking for a mommy/dominant to train me. I’m willing to be the most willing slave. I want to be controlled and told what to do at all times. I want to please you. Tell me what you want from me and it will be yours.