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Old School Non-Sexual Ds - Service, Training, Mentorship, Family
Your experience level doesn't matter, but your inner qualities as an excellent person -do-. This should feel like old-fashioned DomsubMasterpetapprentice or Ds best friends. I am one of just a few Doms w/ the BDSM ethics & integrity deliver on the "Here for way more depth than just sex" dynamic.
A bonding / caring connection, we can allow it to be fun & sensual (dress up, rope etc) - yet always safe and distinctly non-flirty. What you, the submissive, would receive in return for your gift of service - could include:
- Receiving rope & impact to your heart's content
- Somone who cares about & mentors you in life
- Kitten / Doll play, being dressed up, collar and leash, cuffs
- Being trained in a traditional, high protocol manner w/ ritual-like habits
- Having a Master Craftsman create bdsm leatherwear & cosplay elements for you - to wear and model
- Travel to see each other, being taken to & shown off at events
- Knowing you are benefitting community w/ a family-like focus
Hi there!! I'm 24 and I live in the UK.
I'm only looking for friends and nothing more. Whether it's swapping stories and learning more about bdsm, or just chatting in general.
Some ice breakers you can use: I have a hearing impairment, I like crafts, reading and I love my job. I don't want to go into too much detail but here you go!
If you managed to get through all this, hope to hear from you soon.
Only women please. My love won't feel comfortable with men messaging.
Hello! I'm 26 and I'm looking for friends in the kink community. I can speak English and Spanish. However,I'm still learning advanced English. I would like to find people who I can connect with and have a real friendship. People who are open to talk about their real-life experiences with their partners since I'm a newbie and I want to learn everything related to the BDSM lifestyle.
I play online games on Playstation 5. I play Rust (try to anyway) Conan Exiles mainly. Looking for others that play online games and chat about obscure subjects, BDSM and so forth. If you have a favorite game I'll be willing to try it
Hello! I’m an artist looking for a few new models, in all states of dress and any poses. I’m hoping for a variety of ages, body types, ethnicities, and sexes. Yes I am talking about trans, gender-fluid, non-binary, the lot! I want everyone! I love finding the beauty in every body and drawing what I see. I’d love to talk to anyone with questions and I’m happy to get to know you before starting the drawing. So if you want to tick “model for an artist” off the bucket list? Send me a message or say hello in chat!
I am NOT posting for romance.
Why? Because I will find that eventually. But what I am looking for is a BDSM safety partner in the Dallas TX area.
I’m a new member of the BDSM community who has been doing self-bondage for years, but has reached a point were it is hard to balance safety, security, and pleasure together. So I realized it’s time for me to branch out and meet some fellow BDSM enthusiasts.
I am a 21 year old heterosexual male who is 6 ft, 135 lbs and fit.
I love people, experimenting with BDSM positions/scenarios/and bonds, and I also love reading, playing video games with friends, and exercising. (Was a runner, have now started lifting)
My profile should have all of my tastes, but I am extremely interested in Latex, Mummification, Petplay, Crossdressing, and suspension bondage.
I am looking for any gender as a safety partner, and fetishes do not matter. I would help you with your scenes, for your help with mine. Feel free to message me with questions if interested!
Looking for a Submissive Female Writing (RP) Partner.
I'm going to make this simple and to the point: I am a long-time writer that enjoys a bit of back and forth writing or roleplaying with partners of a like mind. I tend toward 300-500 word posts and can go upwards of thousands of words and expect something similar from my partner. Open to all sorts of things from a modern/real style story to something fantastical or sci-fi related. Smut heavy, BDSM theming a must. I have a website with some of my older, more fantastical setting ideas here: https://brokenin.webs.com/
That being said, I am using this more as a vent for my Dominant side as I don't have the opportunity to engage that as much IRL due to my schedule. If you're interested, just reach out through a private message and we can figure out if we 'click' as a writing couple as well as discuss the more important parts of things (limits, likes, settings, plots, etc.) as I prefer to do actual planning with the person I choose to write with.
Agender AMAB seeking online friends from all over the world
Hello hope yall doing fantastic. I am 23 from North Africa Morocco and I was wondering if we can get to know each other and maybe be friends. I love watching movies and TV shows so I might be the friend who gives you recommendations. I love all genre of music and I am funny to an extent hahaha.
Fem Led couple seeking local couples into BDSM lifestyle
I'm the sub half posting on the behalf of my shy Domme who really needs to meet some like minded Dommes and couples that we can be comfortable with revealing our true selves. She loves art and animals, I enjoy all things techy and mechanical. We drink socially, do not smoke, not into 420 but can get along with those that do.
Feel free to drop me a message, we're also on Fet, but don't do much on there.
Hello,
I'm looking to meet new people and possibly make some friends, I am open to talk to anyone even though I am very shy I will try my best to make conversations and not be boring to anyone. I would like to meet people who are also Littles as well as middles and talk about anything like favorite stuffies, colors, entertainments and anything else.
So if you don't mind talking with me please send me a message ??
Hi.
I'm new to the site and I'd like to find some people I can talk to that know about this lifestyle - I don't really care about gender, Dom, Sub, or Switch... Just to get to know someone else I can talk to :)
Hello there, I am a Dom. My wife and myself are new to the lifestyle amd starting to explore ourselves, limits and the community we are now a part of. I am looking to meet an talk to like minded people like us, discuss ideas, questions, and learn how to better myself as her Dom. Looking for someone willing to take the time to train me or both of us at the same time. Feel free to send a message
Hey y’all I’m Peter. I’m looking for an actual connection that can evolve from there. I have some experience and am always looking for more.
About me, I’m 22, 6’5, and am energetic and enjoy life. I love to read, study, and explore. I love sailing, scuba diving, and anything water. I am studying to work in healthcare and enjoy high stress situations that allow me to gain experience and grow.
I’m not really setting expectations for this so message me and let’s get to know eachother!
Helloo, I’d like to be called Cece on here for privacy reasons since I’m kinda shy and awkward. I’m 21 years old and I’m just looking for friends I can talk about kink stuff with without being judged for it. Aside from that, I am an artist who draws digital illustrations and I enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and VRChat. If anyone is interested in hanging out, feel free to message me! I will do my best to reply though I have a hard time with conversations sometimes so please be nice <3
I think the best way to get to know someone it's without the pressure of making a romantic connection. We live in a fast world, we are always in a hurry. Sometimes we forget there's joy in getting to know someone slowly. Also, I feel we judge more the people we see as potential partners. We even set impossible parameters, sometimes. Aaand, I suck at dating. Guys coming at me makes me feel self-conscious and I more likely than not end up screwing the conversation by being too honest? Dry? Sarcastic? A combination of the three?. Hahahaha
Anyway, I love having interesting and stimulating conversations, so a friend ad is perfect to get to know people from any sort of preference. I've made some good pen pal buddies the last couple months. Although, I'm not sure if anyone reads this section... If you do, let's thrive to discuss lively, the more controversial, the better. :D