I am looking for friends leading to more .I been in the life 20+ years I been Dommie I been sub I know the Gorean ways. Never stop learning I always learn something new every day I am open minded you be too so even if we end up being just friends thats great too let's talk
Hello. I've been on this site less than a year so relatively new. I'm interested in learning different aspects of this lifestyle and meeting many people. I'm not at a place in my life where I could meet in person but looking to connect with someone online. I love conversations so if you have any questions ask away.
Thumper is looking for a playmate. Someone to watch cartoons, color, and play with stuffies. Only ladies respond. If you are part of a DD/lg dynamic, we can get our Daddys together to set up our play dates. Hope to hear from someone soon. I hate playing alone.
Hey all you beautiful people! I'm pretty new to this lifestyle, concept, whatever people are calling it these days ?. Really just looking for new friends, people I can talk to about... this. I want to be able to be myself and discuss my kinks and fetishes with other like-minded people in a safe place, with no judgement. I also would love to discuss with more experienced people as well, just because I want to be safe about this and want to learn safe practices. I need an outlet. Does anyone feel the same way ?? Can anyone relate? Really hoping to find someone here.
I’m fairly new to the bdsm life and I’ve done some research, I’d like to have others to talk to so I may learn a bit more and continue to gain experience or pass off some knowledge to another. I’m always down to talk and meet new friends
Hello there, I am a Dom. My wife and myself are new to the lifestyle amd starting to explore ourselves, limits and the community we are now a part of. I am looking to meet an talk to like minded people like us, discuss ideas, questions, and learn how to better myself as her Dom. Looking for someone willing to take the time to train me or both of us at the same time. Feel free to send a message
I am the caregiver and companion for my seriously ill wife. I have to stay close to home. I have lots of time on my hands and a lot on my mind, sexual and otherwise,
I want to share. We could exchange emails and get to know and enjoy each other.
Hi I'm currently seeking someone to talk to about a couple fetishes (tickling/feet worship) to learn more about. I want to expand my knowledge and just be the best sub I can be. So if you like talk about and share experience/advice message me and let's have a conversation.
I am seeking other female submissives, Dominants, switches, etc. to communicate with and possibly meet up locally.
Tell me your experiences and I will tell you mine. Let me be your safe call and you can possibly be mine. :)
Hi, I'm Kimmy. I'm from Northern NJ. I will be traveling to Texas in November to free my mind and reflect on life. Maybe I can meet a friend in Dallas ?... It would be nice to have a friendly relationship with a female in this community. I don't have many girlfriends. I'm in Kik groups but they seem to shy away from me because i tend to get a lot of attention from the men.... I'm just very friendly, outgoing and not shy at all. I am an open book and I speak my mind. I am a true switch but lean more towards submissive. So if ya wanna make a new friend or have any questions, please feel free to DM me or like my profile and if I see the majority of likes from females then maybe I will become a premiere member ?
Hey y’all I’m Peter. I’m looking for an actual connection that can evolve from there. I have some experience and am always looking for more.
About me, I’m 22, 6’5, and am energetic and enjoy life. I love to read, study, and explore. I love sailing, scuba diving, and anything water. I am studying to work in healthcare and enjoy high stress situations that allow me to gain experience and grow.
I’m not really setting expectations for this so message me and let’s get to know eachother!
Hey! I'm 20 and kinda new to this stuff. I currently have a Domme who asked me to use this site to make new friends. Sooo, I'd love to chat more with anyone out there who has similar interests or just chat about our experiences <3
Helloo, I’d like to be called Cece on here for privacy reasons since I’m kinda shy and awkward. I’m 21 years old and I’m just looking for friends I can talk about kink stuff with without being judged for it. Aside from that, I am an artist who draws digital illustrations and I enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and VRChat. If anyone is interested in hanging out, feel free to message me! I will do my best to reply though I have a hard time with conversations sometimes so please be nice <3
I'm looking for platonic friends. I'm not seeking sex or playmates. I'm just looking for friends. I just moved here. My partners are in another state. I only have one friend who lives in this state but he's starting to date and that usually results in my placement on the back burner of his attention. I'm cool with just texting but not looking for sexting. I am in a committed relationship. I'm just seeking friends.
55 [M4F] S.F., CA: Seeking an erotic friend and confidant.
Have you found that sex with someone, or acting out dark erotica with someone is not always as good as dark, hot and steamy fantasies?
And do you sometimes feel alone in the world because of your dark desires and fantasies?
Consider my proposal, one that will allow us to enjoy a hot and erotic friendship that is completely safe and, actually, completely free of moral complications.
Expressing our joys of masturbation can prove to be both racy and fun, and yet still be a class act. And our naughty-lite secret life can flourish, without damage to any existing relationships. Contact sex these days is often fraught with risk, and can have a devastating effect on an existing relationship.
We'll occasionally keep in touch, meeting for coffee, to rekindle, to fill an occasional void. When two become intimate, over time their relationship develops and cultivates unique and exciting customs and habits. And more so with an erotic friend and confidant, where the level of intimacy is elevated.
I think the best way to get to know someone it's without the pressure of making a romantic connection. We live in a fast world, we are always in a hurry. Sometimes we forget there's joy in getting to know someone slowly. Also, I feel we judge more the people we see as potential partners. We even set impossible parameters, sometimes. Aaand, I suck at dating. Guys coming at me makes me feel self-conscious and I more likely than not end up screwing the conversation by being too honest? Dry? Sarcastic? A combination of the three?. Hahahaha
Anyway, I love having interesting and stimulating conversations, so a friend ad is perfect to get to know people from any sort of preference. I've made some good pen pal buddies the last couple months. Although, I'm not sure if anyone reads this section... If you do, let's thrive to discuss lively, the more controversial, the better. :D
Good looking, married man, 38, looking for female friends
I’m 38, in a pretty unfulfilling marriage. Like a lot of people, I need something, someone to lighten things up a bit. Happy to chat online, pics, vids, video calls. Even potentially meeting up with the right person.
Hello! 20 y/o black queer submissive looking for a platonic kink mentor! Ages 20-45, preferably also black and queer, with experience. Or, some advice or things you wish you knew when first entering the kink scene! Feel free to message me :)
Hello, my name is Andreas, but my nickname is Dressing!
I'm seeking gamers from this site! I'd really like a BDSM friend (or more) who is also into gaming. So if anyone is interested you can catch me in the chat rooms. I usually hang out there at random hours. There we can chat about what sort of games we play, and if we'd be compatible gaming buddies!
Hello, I'm a Dom looking for submissive friends. Mainly because I don't get along with other Doms. My two subs feel more comfortable with other subs. I'd prefer to talk online and eventually see where things go.
Hai there! I’m Blue and I’m just looking for some friends to talk too and have someone that is into the same things I am! I’m very shy at first but once I get comfortable I do break out of my shell quite a bit. Just be really awesome to meet new people and go outside of my comfort zone!
I recently stepped away from my first d/s dynamic due to differences in communication styles. I feel that I would benefit from an experienced submissive or switch individual to help guide me through my previous experience and give me advice on what to do/look for moving forward. Online only.
Any sexual orientation/ gender identification is welcome? (I identify as bisexual myself)
but I am not looking for a Dom mentor at this time so please be respectful of that choice. Thank you.
Hello there I'm looking some kinky/sex positive female friends around my age and preferably my state but that's not too much a deal breaker.
I'm a lover but not much of a fighter, 420 friendly, I love phycology, anime, video games, and crochet. I'm mostly a homebody due to social anxiety so it will take time for me to come outta my shell so time and patience is needed.
Hi! I recently moved to Seattle and don’t know anyone nearby. Looking for some friends whether our kinks mesh or not is ok. Kinda lonely by myself and would love to talk or meet up with others:) I’m not new to kink life but I have no experience. (Kinda like window shopping) I’m a submissive and a little. Any little friends would always be welcome!! My interests are reading, anime, eating desserts, shopping, binge watching tv, anything with nature, pretty artsy and love music. I would really love having friends in the new city. I’m not looking for a relationship but if we work then I’m not opposed:)
Seeking a mentor (Dom Male) and like-minded friends
My names B and I'm just starting to get into this kind of stuff and was looking for like-minded friends and a mentor (Dom Male) to help me learn more about how things work and understand more about this lifestyle.
hi! i’m a 20 y/o guy, in more of an open dom/sub relationship. i’m a submissive and a little. i struggle with mental health issues and such, which is why i’m mostly just looking for friends.
um interests! i’m very into music, my favorite band is ninja sex party. obsessed with dan avidan. i’m also really into like ‘emo’ bands? like my chemical romance and panic at the disco and such. love video games, pokémon, animals, stuffed animals, coloring, drawing, writing, true crime, um all that stuff! i’m probably forgetting stuff.
i’m not the best at talking, but i’m hoping to click with at least someone and become good friends! message me if you wanna talk! thank you for reading!
Hi nice to meet you anyway... So i want to understand the submissive/slave mind, what i meant to say is why would any one would like to be a slave and let the other take advantage of him/her.
It is clear to me that we all would like to be master and to be served as i can not understand what is the joy and happiness a slave would find in serving a master and accepting wherever bullshit they throw at them, me as myself would love to have alot of slave man i would treat them so well and make sure they are in a great shape, and they would be very valuable to me but only valuable as tools to be honnest as i supposed to use them, shouldn't i !!?.
but if i can not see the joy in serving or becoming a slave to anyone, how come the others find joy and self confident haha in becoming a slave/tool for someone else i just can not understand the motivation behind the desire to be a slave or submissiveness. Ok, m i wait and see what is gonna happen. Hope you fulfill your desires whatever they are.
New to the Community & Looking for Friends or More
Hi! Call me Ghost, I just turned 18 not too long ago and I've finally kinda gathered the courage to reach out to the community
I'm still trying to figure myself out but I am a switch, but I prefer being submissive more than dominant, but it switches just like my Bipolar (I do actually have bipolar ?)
I have a lot of interests and things I'd like to talk to others about and learn more!!
I will say my emotions never stay the same, I am diagnosed with Bipolar and Borderline Personality Disorder, i do have other diagnosis so just ask anytime
Im Ftm- Nonbinary Masculine, very rarely ill feel and dress femme, i use He/They
If i had to describe myself with a few (alot of) words itd be : Grunge whore, Medically obsessed, Dominant outside the bedroom type guy?? ,trash can critter , artist, dumb but smart too, I like gross stuff a lot,, I love cats, I'm very dyslexic, I'm a medical geek and can be very sadistic sometimes,,, I daydream a lot and like being taken care of
I collect items from the OTHER WORLD KINGDOM (OWK) - everything from magazines, newsletters, flags, artwork, slave contracts, original DVDs (czech), and their banknotes! The (curiously titled) 'kingDOM' is now largely a space for group parties and filming - there are some plans to try and recapture what once was, but it's up in the air as to whether this will come to be. More information is available at www.owk.cz
BTW, did you know the OWK had its own micro-national anthem? ? I only discovered this myself last month when a lovely lady from Germany gifted me this cassette tape. https://ibb.co/xDYWQRt
So if you happen to have any OWK items collecting dust that you might consider selling then I'd love to hear from you :)
I'm zephyr, 22 years old, from Germany and pretty new to all of this.
And that's why I'm looking for other subs to talk to about bdsm and other topics aswell - the best thing would of course be to actually be able to make some new friends. I'm very into gaming and nerd-stuff, so it would be nice if we would share some of the same interests.
I also would be interested in being mentored by an experienced sub (in this case preferably female) through the bdsm-world.
If anyone is interested I would be very happy to receive a message from you c:
(and sorry for my rusty english - it's not my mother tongue and therefore I often mix up the grammar or do other mistakes.)
Newbie looking to speak to other subs (Doms need not apply!)
I am very new to the BDSM world following the end of very vanilla, long term relationship which sadly ended as I couldn't fit myself into the box that my ex wanted me to be in any more. Now that I am single, I want to explore the sub-side which I have spent the last decade or so trying to pretend I don't have.
I'd really like to chat to other subs, both new and experienced, who are happy to share a little of their experiences (I promise I won't be like 20 Questions!), and also to simply to make some new friends.
I am an openminded Dom. Seeking a live in poly for openminded people. Hopefully to make extended family and hucows . IR WELCOME . Looks are not important only a like minded attitude is. Want to know more, please ask.
Hello! I am Rose and I am speaking a Dom/Domme to chat with! My Daddy lives in CA at the moment and wants me to chat with other doms/dommes while he is away. He is very much into Hotwife and wants me to keep exploring that! I am not permitted to meet in person but I am encouraged to play online. So! Feel free to reach out
I’m a sub women looking for friends in the community. I’ve had one bdsm relationship that got me into this lifestyle and ever since then I’ve been wanting to learn more. I can be bratty at time but really still learning the ropes. Reach out if you would like to talk ?
39 Y/O submissive looking for other submissives to connect with. My DOM and I both have really high profile careers, (hard limit to discuss), so we are very very private. So munches and events are out for the next year or so.
I often feel like I am only talk to him. He’s great, amazing, patient, answers every question, let’s me chat about whatever, etc. But I would like to make sub kink friends too!
I am in a 24/7 dynamic and really would like that to be respected, I am NOT here for a hookup or to join another couple. Thanks!
See I can make a long long ad. But I would rather keep it short because I'm currently lazy as hell. You can check my profile for age and country and my history in bdsm and limits. For the rest however you need to mail me. Let's get to know each other more and be friends. ???
I'm 100% new to this, and tbh I'm not completely sure it's what I want. Would love to chat to genuine people to get a better feel for this. Anyone who's happy to answer interminable questions to help me explore further, please get in touch
Submissive female. Been addicted to bdsm for about 10 years. Looking for friends to discuss all parts of life, but who also understand my lifestyle and its challenges. Currently not getting my bdsm needs met, so I might lightly complain about that. :P
I'm looking to meet new people and possibly make some friends, I am open to talk to anyone even though I am very shy I will try my best to make conversations and not be boring to anyone. I would like to meet people who are also Littles as well as middles and talk about anything like favorite stuffies, colors, entertainments and anything else.
So if you don't mind talking with me please send me a message ??
Hey there, this is CF. i've been in the BDSM community for 3 years now and very much still looking forward to meeting new souls. If you speak Chinese, kind and respectful then would love to hear from you! this is CF from Leyuan BDSM 简称乐园
Baaasicly what the title says. I'm new to this world. Im a 35 y/o gay sub male. Looking to chat and learn. feel free to msg and chat, love meeting new people and talking. Fuck i would talk to my reflection if it wasnt such a cunt.
As I'm fairly new to the bdsm lifestyle I don't have a lot of experience regarding things to watch out for and situations to avoid while looking for a dynamic. It seems like the more research I do the more questions I have. Thanks for reading this, hope to chat soon!