Hey! I'm 20 and kinda new to this stuff. I currently have a Domme who asked me to use this site to make new friends. Sooo, I'd love to chat more with anyone out there who has similar interests or just chat about our experiences <3
Helloo, I’d like to be called Cece on here for privacy reasons since I’m kinda shy and awkward. I’m 21 years old and I’m just looking for friends I can talk about kink stuff with without being judged for it. Aside from that, I am an artist who draws digital illustrations and I enjoy playing video games like Minecraft and VRChat. If anyone is interested in hanging out, feel free to message me! I will do my best to reply though I have a hard time with conversations sometimes so please be nice <3
I'm looking for platonic friends. I'm not seeking sex or playmates. I'm just looking for friends. I just moved here. My partners are in another state. I only have one friend who lives in this state but he's starting to date and that usually results in my placement on the back burner of his attention. I'm cool with just texting but not looking for sexting. I am in a committed relationship. I'm just seeking friends.
55 [M4F] S.F., CA: Seeking an erotic friend and confidant.
Have you found that sex with someone, or acting out dark erotica with someone is not always as good as dark, hot and steamy fantasies?
And do you sometimes feel alone in the world because of your dark desires and fantasies?
Consider my proposal, one that will allow us to enjoy a hot and erotic friendship that is completely safe and, actually, completely free of moral complications.
Expressing our joys of masturbation can prove to be both racy and fun, and yet still be a class act. And our naughty-lite secret life can flourish, without damage to any existing relationships. Contact sex these days is often fraught with risk, and can have a devastating effect on an existing relationship.
We'll occasionally keep in touch, meeting for coffee, to rekindle, to fill an occasional void. When two become intimate, over time their relationship develops and cultivates unique and exciting customs and habits. And more so with an erotic friend and confidant, where the level of intimacy is elevated.
I think the best way to get to know someone it's without the pressure of making a romantic connection. We live in a fast world, we are always in a hurry. Sometimes we forget there's joy in getting to know someone slowly. Also, I feel we judge more the people we see as potential partners. We even set impossible parameters, sometimes. Aaand, I suck at dating. Guys coming at me makes me feel self-conscious and I more likely than not end up screwing the conversation by being too honest? Dry? Sarcastic? A combination of the three?. Hahahaha
Anyway, I love having interesting and stimulating conversations, so a friend ad is perfect to get to know people from any sort of preference. I've made some good pen pal buddies the last couple months. Although, I'm not sure if anyone reads this section... If you do, let's thrive to discuss lively, the more controversial, the better. :D
Good looking, married man, 38, looking for female friends
I’m 38, in a pretty unfulfilling marriage. Like a lot of people, I need something, someone to lighten things up a bit. Happy to chat online, pics, vids, video calls. Even potentially meeting up with the right person.
Hey I’m Tsi , I am a 21 year old brat sub . I’m looking to make more submissive friends .
I'm fairly new to the BDSM community and want to establish a larger group of friends to chat with and learn more.
Hello! 20 y/o black queer submissive looking for a platonic kink mentor! Ages 20-45, preferably also black and queer, with experience. Or, some advice or things you wish you knew when first entering the kink scene! Feel free to message me :)
Hello, my name is Andreas, but my nickname is Dressing!
I'm seeking gamers from this site! I'd really like a BDSM friend (or more) who is also into gaming. So if anyone is interested you can catch me in the chat rooms. I usually hang out there at random hours. There we can chat about what sort of games we play, and if we'd be compatible gaming buddies!
Hello, I'm a Dom looking for submissive friends. Mainly because I don't get along with other Doms. My two subs feel more comfortable with other subs. I'd prefer to talk online and eventually see where things go.
Hai there! I’m Blue and I’m just looking for some friends to talk too and have someone that is into the same things I am! I’m very shy at first but once I get comfortable I do break out of my shell quite a bit. Just be really awesome to meet new people and go outside of my comfort zone!
I recently stepped away from my first d/s dynamic due to differences in communication styles. I feel that I would benefit from an experienced submissive or switch individual to help guide me through my previous experience and give me advice on what to do/look for moving forward. Online only.
Any sexual orientation/ gender identification is welcome? (I identify as bisexual myself)
but I am not looking for a Dom mentor at this time so please be respectful of that choice. Thank you.
Hello there I'm looking some kinky/sex positive female friends around my age and preferably my state but that's not too much a deal breaker.
I'm a lover but not much of a fighter, 420 friendly, I love phycology, anime, video games, and crochet. I'm mostly a homebody due to social anxiety so it will take time for me to come outta my shell so time and patience is needed.
Thumper is looking for a playmate. Someone to watch cartoons, color, and play with stuffies. Only ladies respond. If you are part of a DD/lg dynamic, we can get our Daddys together to set up our play dates. Hope to hear from someone soon. I hate playing alone.
Hi! I recently moved to Seattle and don’t know anyone nearby. Looking for some friends whether our kinks mesh or not is ok. Kinda lonely by myself and would love to talk or meet up with others:) I’m not new to kink life but I have no experience. (Kinda like window shopping) I’m a submissive and a little. Any little friends would always be welcome!! My interests are reading, anime, eating desserts, shopping, binge watching tv, anything with nature, pretty artsy and love music. I would really love having friends in the new city. I’m not looking for a relationship but if we work then I’m not opposed:)
Seeking a mentor (Dom Male) and like-minded friends
My names B and I'm just starting to get into this kind of stuff and was looking for like-minded friends and a mentor (Dom Male) to help me learn more about how things work and understand more about this lifestyle.
hi! i’m a 20 y/o guy, in more of an open dom/sub relationship. i’m a submissive and a little. i struggle with mental health issues and such, which is why i’m mostly just looking for friends.
um interests! i’m very into music, my favorite band is ninja sex party. obsessed with dan avidan. i’m also really into like ‘emo’ bands? like my chemical romance and panic at the disco and such. love video games, pokémon, animals, stuffed animals, coloring, drawing, writing, true crime, um all that stuff! i’m probably forgetting stuff.
i’m not the best at talking, but i’m hoping to click with at least someone and become good friends! message me if you wanna talk! thank you for reading!
Hi nice to meet you anyway... So i want to understand the submissive/slave mind, what i meant to say is why would any one would like to be a slave and let the other take advantage of him/her.
It is clear to me that we all would like to be master and to be served as i can not understand what is the joy and happiness a slave would find in serving a master and accepting wherever bullshit they throw at them, me as myself would love to have alot of slave man i would treat them so well and make sure they are in a great shape, and they would be very valuable to me but only valuable as tools to be honnest as i supposed to use them, shouldn't i !!?.
but if i can not see the joy in serving or becoming a slave to anyone, how come the others find joy and self confident haha in becoming a slave/tool for someone else i just can not understand the motivation behind the desire to be a slave or submissiveness. Ok, m i wait and see what is gonna happen. Hope you fulfill your desires whatever they are.
New to the Community & Looking for Friends or More
Hi! Call me Ghost, I just turned 18 not too long ago and I've finally kinda gathered the courage to reach out to the community
I'm still trying to figure myself out but I am a switch, but I prefer being submissive more than dominant, but it switches just like my Bipolar (I do actually have bipolar ?)
I have a lot of interests and things I'd like to talk to others about and learn more!!
I will say my emotions never stay the same, I am diagnosed with Bipolar and Borderline Personality Disorder, i do have other diagnosis so just ask anytime
Im Ftm- Nonbinary Masculine, very rarely ill feel and dress femme, i use He/They
If i had to describe myself with a few (alot of) words itd be : Grunge whore, Medically obsessed, Dominant outside the bedroom type guy?? ,trash can critter , artist, dumb but smart too, I like gross stuff a lot,, I love cats, I'm very dyslexic, I'm a medical geek and can be very sadistic sometimes,,, I daydream a lot and like being taken care of
I collect items from the OTHER WORLD KINGDOM (OWK) - everything from magazines, newsletters, flags, artwork, slave contracts, original DVDs (czech), and their banknotes! The (curiously titled) 'kingDOM' is now largely a space for group parties and filming - there are some plans to try and recapture what once was, but it's up in the air as to whether this will come to be. More information is available at www.owk.cz
BTW, did you know the OWK had its own micro-national anthem? ? I only discovered this myself last month when a lovely lady from Germany gifted me this cassette tape. https://ibb.co/xDYWQRt
So if you happen to have any OWK items collecting dust that you might consider selling then I'd love to hear from you :)
I'm zephyr, 22 years old, from Germany and pretty new to all of this.
And that's why I'm looking for other subs to talk to about bdsm and other topics aswell - the best thing would of course be to actually be able to make some new friends. I'm very into gaming and nerd-stuff, so it would be nice if we would share some of the same interests.
I also would be interested in being mentored by an experienced sub (in this case preferably female) through the bdsm-world.
If anyone is interested I would be very happy to receive a message from you c:
(and sorry for my rusty english - it's not my mother tongue and therefore I often mix up the grammar or do other mistakes.)
Newbie looking to speak to other subs (Doms need not apply!)
I am very new to the BDSM world following the end of very vanilla, long term relationship which sadly ended as I couldn't fit myself into the box that my ex wanted me to be in any more. Now that I am single, I want to explore the sub-side which I have spent the last decade or so trying to pretend I don't have.
I'd really like to chat to other subs, both new and experienced, who are happy to share a little of their experiences (I promise I won't be like 20 Questions!), and also to simply to make some new friends.
I am an openminded Dom. Seeking a live in poly for openminded people. Hopefully to make extended family and hucows . IR WELCOME . Looks are not important only a like minded attitude is. Want to know more, please ask.
Hello! I am Rose and I am speaking a Dom/Domme to chat with! My Daddy lives in CA at the moment and wants me to chat with other doms/dommes while he is away. He is very much into Hotwife and wants me to keep exploring that! I am not permitted to meet in person but I am encouraged to play online. So! Feel free to reach out
I’m a sub women looking for friends in the community. I’ve had one bdsm relationship that got me into this lifestyle and ever since then I’ve been wanting to learn more. I can be bratty at time but really still learning the ropes. Reach out if you would like to talk ?
39 Y/O submissive looking for other submissives to connect with. My DOM and I both have really high profile careers, (hard limit to discuss), so we are very very private. So munches and events are out for the next year or so.
I often feel like I am only talk to him. He’s great, amazing, patient, answers every question, let’s me chat about whatever, etc. But I would like to make sub kink friends too!
I am in a 24/7 dynamic and really would like that to be respected, I am NOT here for a hookup or to join another couple. Thanks!
See I can make a long long ad. But I would rather keep it short because I'm currently lazy as hell. You can check my profile for age and country and my history in bdsm and limits. For the rest however you need to mail me. Let's get to know each other more and be friends. ???
I'm 100% new to this, and tbh I'm not completely sure it's what I want. Would love to chat to genuine people to get a better feel for this. Anyone who's happy to answer interminable questions to help me explore further, please get in touch
Submissive female. Been addicted to bdsm for about 10 years. Looking for friends to discuss all parts of life, but who also understand my lifestyle and its challenges. Currently not getting my bdsm needs met, so I might lightly complain about that. :P
I'm looking to meet new people and possibly make some friends, I am open to talk to anyone even though I am very shy I will try my best to make conversations and not be boring to anyone. I would like to meet people who are also Littles as well as middles and talk about anything like favorite stuffies, colors, entertainments and anything else.
So if you don't mind talking with me please send me a message ??
Hey there, this is CF. i've been in the BDSM community for 3 years now and very much still looking forward to meeting new souls. If you speak Chinese, kind and respectful then would love to hear from you! this is CF from Leyuan BDSM 简称乐园
Baaasicly what the title says. I'm new to this world. Im a 35 y/o gay sub male. Looking to chat and learn. feel free to msg and chat, love meeting new people and talking. Fuck i would talk to my reflection if it wasnt such a cunt.
As I'm fairly new to the bdsm lifestyle I don't have a lot of experience regarding things to watch out for and situations to avoid while looking for a dynamic. It seems like the more research I do the more questions I have. Thanks for reading this, hope to chat soon!
Hey! I'm new to the scene and am looking to make friends in the community :)
I currently keep my bdsm sperate from my regular life, so it would be nice to make friends with others who know and understand the lifestyle.
Hi, I'm Anon. I'm currently living in Italy. I have always been curious about being a dominant and wanted to try it but I have no idea where and how to start. I would appreciate it if someone could enlighten me and give me advices and knowledge about these things.
I'm well travelled, lived in various countries in Africa, Asia, Oceania and Europe, now living in a fairly remote part of the UK. I've got a high powered job and work kinda crazy hours, so combining that with covid, and having moved recently my social life has been quiet. I have quite a few friends who I've known forever and meet up with as and when we're in the same country but well it would be nice to have a few friends I can talk about more with.
Happy to talk about almost anything in and out of kink with anyone and everyone. I won't ignore any messages I receive, I've always felt that's a bit rude to do personally, though this being online I will caveat my statement by saying my response might just be a sorry I think we're looking for different things and so don't want to waste anyone's time. Anyway I'm a good listener and can usually be funny and uplifting on demand if people need cheering up, so hey drop me a message and try me :)
Hey everyone, I’m SunKiss from Virginia and I am very much new to this lifestyle and want to actively be apart of it but I don’t know where to start or how to actually meet people. I kinda feel like I am a bratty kind of sub and would like to meet someone who is like me. I would really like to have a friend to help and guide me. I’m really friendly, always down for a good time, and would love to soak up any knowledge you have to offer. So if anyone is looking for a friend/newbie to take under their wing I’m open to just about anything.
I’m a layed back chill guy I love 420 and Netflix I also love music and having fun good vibes and good people and good laughs I work 3rd shift Wednesday through Saturday I’m off Sunday Monday Tuesday I can’t host but I drive or hotel room or you’re place or outdoors because the weather is beautiful I stay with good smoke and don’t mind sharing with my company and if sex does come along I definitely won’t tell you no because I love sex very much and I’m open to your kinks and likes and don’t likes let’s have fun life is to short