At which age did you realize your submission or Dominance?

I remember watching Batman on TV. I must have been about 6 years old. There was a scene where Julie Newmar as cat woman ties up batman to a table and toys with him. I thought that was amazing to be ab ...

Fri Aug 21, 2020 6:09 am • 95 Replies • 31444 Views

High Pedestal and Expectations?

What a great question! The risk of pedestals is real as is the fact that with time it can seem almost inevitable that a sub will end up not seeing you as perfect as he first did. I find it similar to ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 9:04 pm • 35 Replies • 11789 Views

Financially supporting another

I think there are two interesting considerations related to this topic, understanding this is from the perspective of a female domme.

1) Financial slavery. I know there are findommes online and I ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 8:47 pm • 39 Replies • 11378 Views

Anatomy Books for Riggers

Two resources that helped me gain experience with being a rigger were:

https://www.amazon.com/Shibari-You-Can-Use-Japanese/dp/0977872726/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&keywords=shibari+you+can+use&qid ...

Mon Aug 17, 2020 8:27 pm • 11 Replies • 9378 Views

wax preference

Any low temp candle will do. It is better to use candles that can pool the wax before you let them drip. Stay away from high temp candles like beeswax.

Tue Aug 11, 2020 7:06 am • 6 Replies • 2587 Views

Why Block conversation?

I personally find such demands to be beneath me. Do I expect total dedication and attention from my boy toy? Absolutely. But it's because he is enthralled by me and would prefer to lavish all attentio ...

Mon Aug 10, 2020 4:57 pm • 18 Replies • 6142 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

When it was running on TV, more than one person told me that I remind them of the character of Melisandre or the Red Woman in Game of Thrones. I checked it out for myself and found that I identify wi ...

Fri Aug 07, 2020 6:01 pm • 267 Replies • 110165 Views