Disclosing your kinky/BDSM side to your friends & family

Hi so I've here for around 2 weeks now so still kinda new. Do many people tell their friends & family that they're a Dom(me)/sub/switch/etc? I only ask because I myself am a very private person so ...

Fri Nov 06, 2020 2:58 am • 6 Replies • 1994 Views

Meeting People in the lifestyle

Hello everybody, So I am a new guy to this lifestyle and have found this website & community extremely helpful but I've realised I need to do more than just sit behind my computer to research this ...

Sat Oct 31, 2020 1:30 am • 5 Replies • 2068 Views

Training a sub free or paid?

Thanks very much. I initially thought I would find someone quickly, I’m realising now the search is a marathon not a sprint.

Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:58 am • 18 Replies • 8412 Views

Training a sub free or paid?

She never disclosed she was a prom Domme, I however didn’t ask so I truthfully don’t know. I am aware of Findom relationships but this wasn’t stated to e one of those.

I was thinking about reporti ...

Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:51 am • 18 Replies • 8412 Views

Training a sub free or paid?

Hi all,

This is predominantly aimed at Female Dommes but please anyone with an opinion weigh in - I am genuinely curious as to your thoughts. I had a chat today with a Domme about becoming her slav ...

Fri Oct 30, 2020 3:35 am • 18 Replies • 8412 Views

Online relationships

Hello everyone,
I'm a new sub whose just entering the lifestyle. I was wondering what everyone's thoughts were on the subject of learning the BDSM lifestyle through an online relationship as opposed ...

Thu Oct 29, 2020 5:06 pm • 1 Replies • 1985 Views

Starting out as a sub

Hi there, I've recently decided to try out the BDSM lifestyle and think I'm best suited to be a sub. Any advice on how to start?

Sun Oct 25, 2020 3:58 am • 2 Replies • 2063 Views