Hi, slut

@Hawkeye
"Shouldn't" /= "Doesn't"

That's the last I'm going to argue with you breh.

Tue Oct 02, 2018 9:11 pm • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

@ChillVibes

Your grandstanding and fooling no one.

I'm invested in the topic.
Most male dominants will not be a target of this behavior. That's a good thing for you. But for those who've had th ...

Mon Oct 01, 2018 2:10 am • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

@Bunnie

I don't want my comments to be misconstrued in any way, so I'm going to hopefully try and hyper-clarify here.

No one HAS to do anything, this is an argument of linguistic semantics and r ...

Mon Oct 01, 2018 2:06 am • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

@FabSerevus

Unfortunately I have to disagree with such a nihilistic world view. I personally have learned so much since I've joined this site, educated myself with literature around the lifestyle a ...

Mon Oct 01, 2018 12:51 am • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

“but seriously, we should beyond having to lecture people about racial sensitivity, sexual sensitivity, misogyny etc. “

I agree. So stop doing it.

I'm not here to start fights with people who th ...

Sun Sep 30, 2018 10:43 am • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

Just realized I was blocked by a certain dominant male after I turned down his advances and told him to stop calling me "boy".
I'm sure he wasn't thinking about this so I will spell this out for anyo ...

Fri Sep 28, 2018 4:45 am • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

I don't think this is really a "both sides" sorta issue. While I'm not going to shame anyone for enjoying name calling or being called names, that kind of fishing strategy, if that truly is the goal, ...

Tue Sep 25, 2018 6:37 pm • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Hi, slut

I've had incredibly toxic encounters, especially just starting out, where I was often berated or accused of being some sort of bad submissive because I respectfully pushed back at people introducing t ...

Mon Sep 24, 2018 6:20 pm • 70 Replies • 31252 Views

Post-Kink Shame: What to do about it?

As I'm getting more and more involved in kinky play, I've noticed that one particular roadblock stands out to me more than others: Post-Kink Shame.
I'm not talking about regretting a truly unpleasant ...

Mon Sep 24, 2018 8:09 am • 4 Replies • 2873 Views

Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

First off, thank you all for the input and support!

I don't think a lack of decency is anything specific to the lifestyle, by any means. I think one thing that makes it all the more tricky to navig ...

Tue Jan 23, 2018 2:48 am • 21 Replies • 14110 Views