i am moving soon and have had no luck finding a bdsm group, or a lesbian dom, or female dom who is out there and would be willing to help me into this world safely, my last attempt was terrifying and unsafe, with no friendly or actually experienced people who were around or

I recently was invovled with a Domme who was great, but after I asked her for a few minuets to calm down she blocked me and hasn't responded to any of my texts. She told me that she was my safe place and that i could trust her to always be there.