Fear of being outed and its impact on a community

That is a very good topic and a concern that most people have especially now with the weirdness that is going on in politics, well at least in the US. So many people going after the LGBTQ+ community ...

Mon Dec 12, 2022 6:25 pm • 24 Replies • 4204 Views

Degrade_n_objectify

lol With the necroposting, I swear this site does function like that from time to time though.

What are you going on about?
;; nothing? Just saying that old threads get revived A LOT so they do en ...

Sat Dec 10, 2022 8:56 pm • 8 Replies • 3020 Views

Degrade_n_objectify

lol With the necroposting, I swear this site does function like that from time to time though.

What are you going on about?

Sat Dec 10, 2022 7:02 pm • 8 Replies • 3020 Views

Degrade_n_objectify

Sub forum? I don't believe that is how things work on this site. The Cage is not set up like Fetlife where you can arbitrarily create a discussion group. The forums are for posing questions: asking ...

Sat Dec 10, 2022 6:52 pm • 8 Replies • 3020 Views

Sub drop for recovering addict

I can't explain the biological mechanics, but reaching subspace is a biological reaction in the brain similar to the reaction to taking drugs. So going with the premise that subspace can be a heal ...

Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:46 am • 17 Replies • 2893 Views

Sub drop for recovering addict

Thank you for all your replies. I realised a few more details may help. I would be in a full time relationship with the sub so I’d be able to support him through sub drop. He has done a lot of work ...

Wed Dec 07, 2022 11:15 pm • 17 Replies • 2893 Views

Sub drop for recovering addict

KateyLatex,

I applaud that you are taking the time to gather information about whether it is a good idea or not to take a recovering addict into sub space or not. That is very commendable because ...

Wed Dec 07, 2022 9:18 pm • 17 Replies • 2893 Views

Tips for going to first BDSM party

Honestly, not a good idea to go to a party as your first experience in any BDSM community. Your first venture into any BDSM community should be a munch. Especially because you don't know anyone that ...

Sun Dec 04, 2022 11:23 pm • 7 Replies • 1684 Views

Is there such a thing as punishments for Dominants?

In my opinion this is the matter of separating sexual punishment with normal relationship disagreement.

If a party does something that jeopardize the relationship regardless of their role, they ne ...

Sat Dec 03, 2022 12:32 am • 26 Replies • 5766 Views

Is there such a thing as punishments for Dominants?

Depends on the power level of a given dynamic, but while I believe dominants should hold themselves accoutable if the screw up, for a submissive to "punish" a dominant.. shutting them out, witholding ...

Thu Dec 01, 2022 10:44 pm • 26 Replies • 5766 Views