Struggling

As someone that got interested in this just shy of 40 years ago, it obviously took me awhile to grasp what Domination and submission truly is. I 100% agree with Master Richard J's entire post. If your ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 11:40 pm • 24 Replies • 4597 Views

Struggling

>>>> HAVING A MENTAL HEALTH ILLNESS DOES NOT MAKE A PERSON ANY LESS OF A DOMINANT, NOR SUB/SLAVE, IT JUST MAKES IT MORE OF A CHALLENGE FOR EVERYONE IN THE DYNAMIC. <<<


Wh ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 11:09 pm • 24 Replies • 4597 Views

Struggling

CurvyEnglishRose,

First, I am sorry to read you are struggling.

You state that he has "psychopathic" tendencies, but that's not actually a real medical diagnosis; has he been diagnosed with An ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 9:13 pm • 24 Replies • 4597 Views

Struggling

CurvyEnglishRose,

I am not sure what exactly you mean by "psychopathic tendencies" but as a psychiatric nurse practitioner, I can tell you you that you are in a codependent relationship which is un ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 8:31 pm • 24 Replies • 4597 Views

Support

You can't go to munches and events because of finances being effected by the divorce, but you want information on munches and events in your area. Please elaborate.

Precovid I heard of events lik ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 4:59 am • 12 Replies • 1921 Views

Support

Sorry you are going through all that.

But, I'm confused. You can't go to munches and events because of finances being effected by the divorce, but you want information on munches and events in y ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 12:54 am • 12 Replies • 1921 Views

Need advice anyone?

I noticed that the OP is about 6 months old. I hope that you and your sub have worked out the issue.

The OP has taken down his profile and will likely not be reading this resurrected thread.
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Tue Aug 30, 2022 12:40 pm • 13 Replies • 5346 Views

Need advice anyone?

Based on the little information that you wrote, it sounds to me that your sub is disobeying on purpose, but I could be wrong since I have no idea what the infractions actually are vs. your rules and I ...

Mon Aug 29, 2022 8:14 pm • 13 Replies • 5346 Views

Abuse veiled as protocol

My two cents on this is there is no right or wrong way to have a BDSM dynamic. It is what BOTH people agree to. . It is their right to decide on what they want and need in a dynamic and need ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 5:55 am • 26 Replies • 4025 Views

Dom's wanting submission and trust without earning it

They should need you in public place not their house they should respect your boundaries. Energy is earned not given has to be exchanged and shown not just given. Dom needs to sway you with love show ...

Sun Aug 28, 2022 12:08 am • 49 Replies • 16232 Views