Abuse veiled as protocol

A dynamic is between the people who have consented to be in that dynamic....and that does NOT include you!

I'm getting so tired of people who take it upon themselves to tell other people what they ...

Sat Aug 27, 2022 11:28 pm • 26 Replies • 4026 Views

Abuse veiled as protocol

It's up to the person in the relationship. If they are accepting of the rules of the Dom/Master than it is not abuse. If the sub/slave feels that it's not what they agreed to, not what they want, an ...

Sat Aug 27, 2022 9:10 pm • 26 Replies • 4026 Views

Contacted By a Sub female

Call the cops and have the "Mistress" arrested for human trafficking.

Sat Aug 27, 2022 8:01 pm • 12 Replies • 2758 Views

Fire Play

Apparently I misread the OP. Oops!

Sat Aug 27, 2022 10:39 am • 10 Replies • 2332 Views

Fire Play

I just googled "fire play bdsm Florida" and got a bunch of events.

Fetlife has several groups for fire play enthusiasts and if you check local dungeons they may have classes that teach it and gene ...

Sat Aug 27, 2022 8:06 am • 10 Replies • 2332 Views

Advice

The books that were recommended to me were: "Screw the Roses, Give Me the Thorns" and anything by Jay Wiseman. There is a book called "Slave Craft" by Guy Baldwin. I never read it, but I've heard go ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 2:21 am • 28 Replies • 5254 Views

When is a Dom not allowed to discipline or correct a submissive?

Moll, that would be their problem for assuming. I never assume I know EXACTLY what someone means at all times. So I will ask for them to elaborate. You'll never get the whole story in one paragraph. B ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 1:46 am • 62 Replies • 12518 Views

Re: Starting a conversation

I’m very hesitant to reply to messages because I don’t know what I should ask at the start. Trust doesn’t come easy with me and I want to know what will be good to ask that will help me feel safe so I ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 1:32 am • 20 Replies • 4559 Views

When is a Dom not allowed to discipline or correct a submissive?

Moll, there will always be a time when someone needs further clarification or information. That's what a discussion is for. Ask and ye shall receive. But don't talk down to a person because you don't ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 1:06 am • 62 Replies • 12518 Views

When is a Dom not allowed to discipline or correct a submissive?

Moll, I appreciate and accept your apology. I won't always be detailed in something I say. So just feel free to ask me to clarify or add more context and I'd be happy to.

I'm seriously not looking ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 12:04 am • 62 Replies • 12518 Views