Now that the personals are gone, I’m curious how people are actually meeting their Dominants (or submissives) on here. Do most of you connect through group discussions, by commenting on posts, or by messaging directly?

Hi everyone, I’m trying to better understand subspace and how it affects different people. Personally, I’ve noticed that I often feel sad or anxious when I’m in subspace, especially after punishments. Is this a normal reaction?

Recently I’ve been talking to a super bratty sub, I’ve tried some punishments but nothing seems to work. Since I am not in person I can’t enforce any of them….
Any tips or tricks or ideas?

Thanks ...

This question is mostly for subs but doms feel free to answer as well I’m currently going through a hard breakup . This is my first bdsm breakup . It is so different from a vanilla breakup and I am completely lost . How do you go back to making decisions on your own ?