Breakup Rules?

Friendship is definitely possible .
For me personally I take some time off from them completely, once I’ve healed and emotionally/ romantically de attached from them I can then be friends

Wed Sep 24, 2025 7:15 pm • 12 Replies • 4158 Views

Finding Connections Without Personals

Now that the personals are gone, I’m curious how people are actually meeting their Dominants (or submissives) on here. Do most of you connect through group discussions, by commenting on posts, or by m ...

Wed Sep 24, 2025 7:09 pm • 5 Replies • 1888 Views

What is Subspace, and Is It Normal to Feel Sad or Anxious in It?

Your feelings are normal. Impact play of any kind is a high. What goes up must come down. The more you receive the higher you go. If it’s everyday then you’ll go even higher. Though ⚠️ about doing it ...

Mon Dec 23, 2024 6:39 pm • 9 Replies • 1648 Views

What is Subspace, and Is It Normal to Feel Sad or Anxious in It?

While in it, I would say, in general no, you should not be feeling sad. Afterwards yes, that is possible fallout from being high, in a transcendent state of being that play can take you. This is calle ...

Sat Dec 14, 2024 2:27 am • 9 Replies • 1648 Views

What is Subspace, and Is It Normal to Feel Sad or Anxious in

Hi everyone,

I’m trying to better understand subspace and how it affects different people. Personally, I’ve noticed that I often feel sad or anxious when I’m in subspace, especially after punishmen ...

Fri Dec 13, 2024 2:20 pm • 9 Replies • 1648 Views

Re: Long distance punishment ideas

Recently I’ve been talking to a super bratty sub, I’ve tried some punishments but nothing seems to work. Since I am not in person I can’t enforce any of them….
Any tips or tricks or ideas?

Thanks ...

Sun Dec 18, 2022 7:48 pm • 18 Replies • 23332 Views

How to get over a bdsm breakup ?

Thank you so much for all the advices . It makes my heart warm

Thu Aug 11, 2022 12:55 am • 20 Replies • 6658 Views

How to get over a bdsm breakup ?

Is it a hard break-up (emotionally difficult) or a BAD break-up (negative words and actions done)?

If it's a hard break-up, why does he need to be devalued? You loved him. You chose to love him an ...

Tue Aug 02, 2022 11:32 pm • 20 Replies • 6658 Views

How to get over a bdsm breakup ?

One of the first steps is something called removal. Remove reminders of him from your life, and replace those things with something new that is all about you. An example could be that you had a shade ...

Tue Aug 02, 2022 8:25 pm • 20 Replies • 6658 Views

How to get over a bdsm breakup ?

This question is mostly for subs but doms feel free to answer as well

I’m currently going through a hard breakup . This is my first bdsm breakup . It is so different from a vanilla breakup and I ...

Tue Aug 02, 2022 8:00 pm • 20 Replies • 6658 Views