How to get over a bdsm breakup ?

Hello Lovely!

Firstly I want to say that dealing with any break up is an emotionally vulnerable thing. I wish you healing and peace during this time frame.

As for my advice on how to essentially ...

Sat Aug 06, 2022 7:22 pm • 20 Replies • 3558 Views

The most important facts before first meeting and negotiations !

Hello!
It’s wonderful to meet you! Welcome to this place I like to call Kinkdom! ❤️ After reading your questions I figured I’d respond to them based off of a submissive’s perspective intertwined wit ...

Mon Jul 04, 2022 9:35 pm • 9 Replies • 1619 Views

Searching with nerves

Help gorgeous and welcome to the cage!

I always tell my fellow submissive people. That setting the tone in any relationship is important. If your uncomfortable with something, or if you feel like ...

Mon Jul 04, 2022 7:12 pm • 22 Replies • 4689 Views

Old vs new guard

Hello lovely!

I too have ran into a handful of Dominants who claimed to be apart of the Old Guard. To be honest whenever I asked what that meant, none of them would produce an answer that satisfied ...

Fri Jun 24, 2022 11:54 pm • 82 Replies • 13923 Views

Contraception

Hello Gorgeous!

Personally I am forgetful. Taking pills on a regular basis for me is awful. Because I forget. I tried the IUD when I was young, and it fell out literally a week after they put it in ...

Sat Jun 18, 2022 1:30 am • 26 Replies • 4227 Views

Rant

If I may interject…

I am a submissive woman.
I have single and unowned on my profile.
Yes, I do have perspective dominants that I am currently Vetting, and who are Vetting me.
However I thriv ...

Fri Jun 17, 2022 5:12 am • 34 Replies • 5779 Views

What makes you passionate?

What am I passionate about?
Hmm..
That’s a good question actually, but I’m not sure I can pin point just one.
Passion can be such an inconsistent thing. But it always comes right back around, a fu ...

Mon May 09, 2022 10:20 am • 21 Replies • 3713 Views

Narcissistic Dominants

Hopefully this doesn’t sound weird.. But I just want to hug you!!! The nurturer in me is going bonkers lmfao.

Ive been in two long term relationships in my life. The first was five years.. Of deal ...

Wed May 04, 2022 7:55 pm • 8 Replies • 1499 Views

Re: A Question for Submissives

Hey everyone 👋
I've been thinking and I'd love to know what are your reasons for becoming submissive? What's your origin story? And what kind of submissive did you become as a result? What are thing ...

Mon Apr 25, 2022 3:04 am • 8 Replies • 2018 Views

Re: Lessons learned…

We often read posts of what is believed to be important for the other to bring to us personally, to ensure the success of our relationships (needs and wants).

What do you believe is an important r ...

Mon Apr 18, 2022 10:00 am • 13 Replies • 2167 Views