First Date Horror Stories

There are some strange dudes out there, but Snowminx/s Aura Scooby Doo wunder powers guy sounds like someone with mental illness. Nice guy, harmless, maybe not creepy, but clearly, just not all "there ...

Thu Nov 09, 2023 4:35 am • 50 Replies • 6211 Views

How do you feel?

I've never given a thought to whether someone is wearing a collar in a profile pic or not. So no, I guess it wouldn't bother me either way.

Wed Nov 08, 2023 3:52 am • 16 Replies • 1798 Views

What is it that you (subs) desire?

To feel safe & wanted & used & loved. I don’t think I need to describe these. Pretty self explanatory.
I can second that, though I suppose from a male's perspective, I put more emphasis ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 3:49 am • 40 Replies • 8675 Views

First Date Horror Stories

I was gonna say "You go first," but if not, well, I had a couple bad first dates, but the one I'll share: I'd answered her personal ad, and she sounded like she might be interesting, fun, and cool. ...

Tue Nov 07, 2023 7:29 am • 50 Replies • 6211 Views

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

People often mistake my kindness and tolerance for weakness.
It may seem to others that I don’t have boundaries, because perhaps they’re not as obvious as many people’s, however, I do have them, and ...

Sun Nov 05, 2023 10:06 pm • 35 Replies • 3910 Views

Balance

For me, there would have to be some balance between work, hobbies, social life, and worshipping my dominant (in ways both kinky and non.)

There would have to be boundaries set, communication in pla ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 7:10 am • 5 Replies • 855 Views

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

Online feels too impersonal to me. I would have a hard time connecting with someone without face to face interaction, especially if that person were to order me into a "Compromised position" so to sp ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 6:29 am • 13 Replies • 2057 Views

"Why are Dommes so Rude?!"

Speaking partly from experience here: A lot of new submissives, particularly men, may suddenly be overcome with newly-discovered thrills of submitting, or wanting to submit. But they know nothing ab ...

Thu Nov 02, 2023 3:06 am • 22 Replies • 2575 Views

Instant Ick ! What's is Yours ?

^The thing is, there have been a TON of women in the work place over the years, who I wanted to approach on a "more than superficial," level but was afraid to- for the exact reasons you describe above ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 7:11 am • 60 Replies • 7065 Views

Being sexually open

Eh....BDSM is kinda like electrical engineering. You can't run home and tell your relatives that you just ran 1200 amps from a major substation to a new offsite switchgear. You know they aint gonna un ...

Wed Nov 01, 2023 4:08 am • 20 Replies • 2244 Views