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Spanking styles

I would say if I had a favorite position position it would be: Bare assed, pants down, leaning forward against the wall, ("Assume the position slave!" she barks.)
It really isn't about my "Favorite" ...

Tue Apr 22, 2025 2:45 am • 4 Replies • 3220 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Spanking styles

I have a nasty torment for my hubby

Some questions: 1) I assume your husband is turned on by it? Or at least that he is into it? Many cuck/wimp slave husbands are turned on by the voyeuristic aspect of a "Superior" male servicing thei ...

Sat Apr 19, 2025 2:53 am • 12 Replies • 6905 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

I have a nasty torment for my hubby

Four Words

Loving and Firm Control.

Fri Apr 18, 2025 4:31 am • 27 Replies • 5136 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Four Words

Local kink events and their differences to online spaces

I've tried to find in-person events in my town, but things are pretty underground here and I haven't had much luck. There was a small group that was active a while ago (pre-2020) that I reached out t ...

Sun Apr 13, 2025 10:24 pm • 8 Replies • 4217 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Local kink events and their differences to online spaces

Re: Are you submissive or are you just lazy

I see a lot of subs who's whole selling point is that they are nothing but a pile of garbage who can be used for sex and humiliation.
Wow, how enthralling.
There is nothing special, nothing of sign ...

Sun Apr 13, 2025 2:08 am • 33 Replies • 13788 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are you submissive or are you just lazy

Cheating kink

I've talked about this before on forums, blog posts, etc.

The cuckolding dynamic has it's positives. It allows the female partner to experiment, and to seek variety, and thus be less likely to be ...

Fri Apr 11, 2025 2:47 am • 5 Replies • 3704 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Cheating kink

Places to find BDSM/AltLifestyle roommates?

DEFINITELY no to craigslist- for ANYTHING- these days. Your chances of getting scammed, ripped off or fleeced far outweigh your chances of finding a legitimate deal on that site these days. And that ...

Sun Apr 06, 2025 9:58 pm • 4 Replies • 1479 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Places to find BDSM/AltLifestyle roommates?

question about negotiating a scene

That makes sense. After all, if I am being dominated during a scene, then I want to be totally surrendered to her whims; that's part of the point.

Sat Apr 05, 2025 9:47 pm • 7 Replies • 3889 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

question about negotiating a scene

I was just wondering, when negotiating a scene, when is it considered setting boundaries, or coming up with an idea for a play scene, and when is it considered "Topping from the bottom?"
It seems lik ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 8:38 am • 7 Replies • 3889 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

question about negotiating a scene

Tattoos

I like 'em but only up to a point. A few tattoos give a girl a "Bad girl" look which drives me absolutely wild. Too many though, to the point where they just cover every inch of skin, and it's kind ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 3:48 am • 30 Replies • 9778 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Tattoos