safety of subs and Doms.

Also, I went to learn how to kickbox, box and do self defence (all in one class) This isn't something that I necessarily recommend but it is something that has help to reassure me psychologically.

Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:57 pm • 9 Replies • 3702 Views

safety of subs and Doms.

Thank you for your input, and your right, make sure you feel safe and meet in public until then, good idea about the house thing. Some of the images with rope are really misinformed as they are hig ...

Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:53 pm • 9 Replies • 3702 Views

Punishment Ideas

Agree with aria. Its not worth the harm in my opinion, mentally physically and potentially to the relationship dynamic (I don't know you well enough, but rather on the side of caution)

Tue Jul 31, 2018 3:22 pm • 24 Replies • 25998 Views

safety of subs and Doms.

I have just realised I have centred this around only subs and Doms, I apologise, I can see elements applying to other groups too, my apologise. x

Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:58 pm • 9 Replies • 3702 Views

Punishment Ideas

its physically damaging, there is a difference between pain and this... :/

Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:49 pm • 24 Replies • 25998 Views

safety of subs and Doms.

I have been wanting to write about this topic for a while, being in a hidden online community can be difficult. Finding ways to ensure you are safe is important for both sub and Dom, the amount of peo ...

Tue Jul 31, 2018 2:44 pm • 9 Replies • 3702 Views

Punishment Ideas

Hope its going well remote controlled vibe on a night out to the theatre so you literally cant make a sound. Weighted plug but in the pussy while being spanked, you will tighten around it but never ...

Tue Jul 31, 2018 12:50 am • 24 Replies • 25998 Views

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cattle market seems to be an adequate way of wording it

Thu Jul 26, 2018 9:25 pm • 8 Replies • 3662 Views

Why it so hard to find a true Dominant?

Dom and sub style relationships are also in many ways just like a vanillas, you need to take the time to get to know each other, understand and respect boundaries and after time it is still possible t ...

Wed Jul 18, 2018 8:58 pm • 149 Replies • 90260 Views

healthy dominance vs. Selfishness

Your needs are very important and need to be acknowledged, for your sake but also for the relationship, if your thinking about long term stability.
Personally I would write a letter to get it all ou ...

Sun Jul 01, 2018 2:36 pm • 4 Replies • 3542 Views