Why

Ah, there are a lot of wankpuffins out there who don't see us as human beings, just vessels for their fantasies. It's super frustrating to not have anyone read your profile. I've had that problem ever ...

Sat Dec 16, 2017 1:23 am • 13 Replies • 11017 Views

Becoming a Dominant on purpose

Pro domming was one part skill, one part acting, and two parts unlicensed therapist, heh.
I tried to come to every session from a place of love. I would tell myself that everyone has something in th ...

Tue Dec 12, 2017 4:43 am • 7 Replies • 7272 Views

Becoming a Dominant on purpose

Oh man.

I am ok at domming, as I was a pro domme in a couple different Houses, but it never sits easily with me.

I had a partner who demanded, after a year and a half, that I domme him. It was i ...

Mon Dec 11, 2017 9:53 am • 7 Replies • 7272 Views

So, how's your local community?

Thank you Katie! I'm pretty curious about Washington, really, as some years in the future my Master and I may be moving up to the Bellingham area.

Sat Dec 09, 2017 6:01 am • 9 Replies • 8305 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or misleading?

The last time I used "transgendered," I was pretty swiftly corrected by a trans person. I'd say it's something to avoid.

Sat Dec 09, 2017 5:58 am • 24 Replies • 26447 Views

When is being Dominant not a good thing?

Aye, trauma is something one must learn about and be careful around. My Master has had to learn a great deal about that, as well.

And dominance can mean caretaking, kindness, nurturing, compassion. ...

Thu Dec 07, 2017 6:41 am • 8 Replies • 8636 Views

So, how's your local community?

Gonna answer my own post now!

*Do you go out into real life meatspace and interact with your local kink community?
Yep, once or twice a week, usually. Been in the community about 20 years now.
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Wed Nov 29, 2017 9:46 pm • 9 Replies • 8305 Views

So, how's your local community?

That's really great to hear! Yay! <3

Tue Nov 28, 2017 10:11 pm • 9 Replies • 8305 Views

So, how's your local community?

Do you go out into real life meatspace and interact with your local kink community?
Is there one?
What's it like?
How accepting towards kink is the area you live in?
Is your kink community health ...

Tue Nov 28, 2017 12:43 am • 9 Replies • 8305 Views

Meeting People on THE CAGE & Saying Hi!

Ah, hello!
I'm Ev, a sub living in the San Francisco Bay Area. Been in the lifestyle roughly 23 years. Have done a few stints as a pro domme. I like to write. I have opinions about things, which I ho ...

Mon Nov 27, 2017 11:32 am • 178 Replies • 139356 Views