Punishment

Do you have WHIPS ?

Tue Feb 19, 2019 2:39 am • 17 Replies • 17726 Views

What kind of Dom or sub are you?

Sadist more than anything else, but neither the laughing, nor the sensual type (by your definition). I get off on her willingness to be helplessly and vulnerably restrained and submit to my sadistic w ...

Tue Feb 19, 2019 2:36 am • 68 Replies • 32801 Views

Read profiles Anyone?

All I can tell ya, is that I am very disappointed with the quality of the profiles I do read. Some are just one-liners; (can't be too serious, right?). Most are not more than three lines of text. What ...

Wed Jan 16, 2019 8:12 am • 16 Replies • 5461 Views

Does Money Matter?

Well, I have always told prospective partners that I could care less if they are employed or not, nor do I care if they earn more than I do. Furthermore, I have no need of any financial assistance and ...

Wed Jan 16, 2019 7:57 am • 95 Replies • 36816 Views

why dosen't this work

Well, some folks are saying that you need to add more detail. I didn't read your profile, but I will just share this. Once upon a time long ago (on another BDSM website) I had a very long and detailed ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 8:30 am • 32 Replies • 11112 Views

Wired differently?

There is no question that we are all wired differently. At birth, God hands out a variety of character traits to each person, many differing from one person to the next. Some folks think of this as a ...

Thu Nov 01, 2018 8:13 am • 25 Replies • 10784 Views

Age In The BDSM and D/s Lifestyle

I was about 15 when I discovered that I was a deviant, but I suppressed it. Not because of any thoughts of guilt or shame (because I don't believe it is wrong nor immoral), but because at that time in ...

Wed Oct 24, 2018 6:59 am • 9 Replies • 5067 Views

Sub or Dom… when you look in the mirror ... What Do You see?

At my peak growth, I stood 5'-6" tall and never weighed more than 102# my entire life. One time when I was a kid about 12 yrs old, I went to a square-dance and this girl who went to my school latched ...

Wed Oct 10, 2018 7:33 am • 5 Replies • 4826 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

It sounds to me like what happened to "SubmissiveMe" is that she originally did not share with her partner any set desire for commitment (monogamy), but as the relationship grew, she may have begun to ...

Wed Oct 10, 2018 6:52 am • 21 Replies • 10731 Views

How to manage BDSM when online?

Can't help ya there. I don't get it. I am not a virtual man, I am living breathing human flesh. Whenever I see an ad posted by someone who wants "online" domination, I don't read any further. I don't ...

Tue Sep 18, 2018 10:02 am • 8 Replies • 5850 Views