Love or Hate - 50 Shades

Its easy to hate something that portrays a lifestyle in a 2hour movie. As long as the lifestyle I live is pure I do not need to associate myself with the basic tv movie type trash. Look at the Story o ...

Tue Jan 18, 2022 4:09 pm • 23 Replies • 4580 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Mine was a mixture of being a Webmaster(built adult websites) and my colour. It was a Domme I was doing the website for that got me into BDSM and thought of the name.

Tue Aug 10, 2021 10:21 am • 267 Replies • 105704 Views

Re: Dom's wanting submission and trust without earning it

Could not have put it better. It's no different from dating in a Vanilla relationship...in fact its is totally different. BDSM relation has more complex layers as you said safety trust it has to be ea ...

Sun Aug 01, 2021 11:20 am • 49 Replies • 16216 Views

Checklists / Play Sessions and Relationships

Agreement with TaskMasterNZ​(dom male)

A checklist for me should be reviewed every 3 months as it also can show progress hence develop confindece the Sub will know she is progressing and knows they ...

Wed Jul 28, 2021 11:58 pm • 6 Replies • 2241 Views

Checklists / Play Sessions and Relationships

Just thought I would put this out there for comments.

How many of you use checklists to assess the needs of a Sub. I find this an essential tool so I get to know the starting point of where a Sub i ...

Wed Jul 28, 2021 10:04 pm • 6 Replies • 2241 Views