Happiness in a relationship

Growth means working toward some goal. This works best when it's chosen by the individual in question -- pushing oneself to be better physically, intellectually, professionally -- whatever they think ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 11:30 pm • 29 Replies • 3205 Views

Happiness in a relationship

Blondie, if you can, please break down what growing looks like to you, in your partner. Because we all have our own ideas of growth.

I'm a simple man. A submissive woman taking care of me like onl ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 11:07 pm • 29 Replies • 3205 Views

Happiness in a relationship

Reaching your goals doesn't mean you stop growing as a person. From my experience, the most top-notch people have even bigger goals than when they started. There's nothing more boring and depressing t ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 10:50 pm • 29 Replies • 3205 Views

Happiness in a relationship

The unhappy times are where I grow respect and love for my partner the most. I just want someone who can sit down and have a calm conversation without being defensive. I am emotional, definitely, but ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 10:45 pm • 29 Replies • 3205 Views

Happiness in a relationship

10) Completely abandons the role they took to begin the dynamic. Stops being either Dominant or submissive and becomes totally vanilla instead.

11) One person stops growing as a person. No longer c ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 10:41 pm • 29 Replies • 3205 Views

Happiness in a relationship

Who the hell told you that you're going to be happy in a relationship...all the damn time?

It puzzles me how modern relationships/marriages are crumbling like the top of a coffee cake. Even in the ...

Sat Oct 29, 2022 7:01 pm • 29 Replies • 3205 Views

Replaced?

You said she wants to watch you bang other women. But has she explicitly said she wants to bang other guys? It could be she's just into watching you or it's a setup to get her little kitty destroyed b ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 10:07 pm • 5 Replies • 951 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

A lot of great things I've read from everybody. It's hard not to fantasize. But I'd say everyone seems based in reality for the most part.

I often fantasize about her with red fingernails and toen ...

Fri Oct 21, 2022 4:47 am • 14 Replies • 2510 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

Bunnie, oh Bunnie...I really like what you said. Very insightful. I threw in certain features but you grabbed it...and took it where it needed to go.

A fantasy based on the dynamic!!! I didn't wan ...

Thu Oct 20, 2022 1:33 am • 14 Replies • 2510 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

This being a kink site, there is also a large FANTASY aspect to the way people think here. I've read so much that makes me wonder if folks are allowing fantastical thoughts to keep them from actually ...

Wed Oct 19, 2022 7:05 pm • 14 Replies • 2510 Views