First day at Cage.

Another pro tip y'all- whether you're still looking or not- bury a word or phrase toward the bottom of your profile and demand that ALL messages to you open with it. That way, if you don't see that wo ...

Wed Dec 13, 2017 3:13 pm • 16 Replies • 14880 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or misleading?

DRHierophant​, not babbling at all- thank you SO much for sharing! There's no such thing as too long of an explanation when actually hearing from you instead of us, and that was some damned fine writi ...

Wed Dec 13, 2017 2:54 pm • 24 Replies • 26449 Views

First day at Cage.

Also, the reason it's important that they're actually reading the complaints is because some faker Dom/mes will threaten to report YOU for not indulging them. Don't worry about this! If you're legit i ...

Tue Dec 12, 2017 7:07 pm • 16 Replies • 14880 Views

First day at Cage.

When I reported someone I heard promptly back from Evangeline, which was a pleasant surprise compared to my experience at FetLife lol. I was particularly encouraged because she took the time to expla ...

Tue Dec 12, 2017 5:57 pm • 16 Replies • 14880 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or misleading?

@hawkeye The initial issue was that the forum section for trans folks was labeled "Transgendered". That word used to label a human being, out of the context of a sentence, grammatically implies that t ...

Mon Dec 11, 2017 1:56 am • 24 Replies • 26449 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or misleading?

@whitesubuk: "Why not just accept and like the person for their character? for who they are as a person? as opposed for the id-entity that is assumed upon them with all the various labels."

To keep ...

Mon Dec 11, 2017 1:48 am • 24 Replies • 26449 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or misleading?

Maybe folks should just be able to type in their own thing? If there is a way to format that option so it would still appear next to your name same as if you click on an option? Now we are moving far ...

Sun Dec 10, 2017 5:38 pm • 24 Replies • 26449 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or misleading?

Thanks for making that change y'all, I had noticed it too and was fairly shocked. Ashamed I wasn't the first to post about it. Thanks, gospodin- and it IS our battle as long as we understand our place ...

Sun Dec 10, 2017 5:26 pm • 24 Replies • 26449 Views

Contact with the dom

If it does turn out he's using silent treatment as a punishment, and that is not something that came up at all in y'alls negotiations, I would caution you to consider it a red flag and think seriously ...

Fri Dec 08, 2017 12:10 am • 19 Replies • 17830 Views

When is being Dominant not a good thing?

I think the original post (SirPain kind of answered his own question by the end) and all the replies here have the right idea. Although I am a sub, not a slave or masochist, I tend to agree with Everg ...

Thu Dec 07, 2017 5:15 pm • 8 Replies • 8636 Views