Is kink still important to female dominants?

It's a thing to realize when we understand the difference between a dominant woman and a Domme. And the scenario you mentioned is something we all notice when it comes to Dommes(not all, just some of ...

Wed Sep 06, 2023 2:39 pm • 23 Replies • 3087 Views

Re: Could you give it up?

Has anyone fallen in love with someone who was not in the lifestyle and did not identify as sub or dom- did you give it up? Could you?

Or did anyone discover the lifestyle while already in a long t ...

Mon Jul 18, 2022 2:49 pm • 27 Replies • 4478 Views

Foot fetish/Shoe dangling

Both consciously and unconsciously lol
I don't notice if someone is staring or not
But if I do it unconsciously then I prefer to stop

Fri Feb 25, 2022 11:52 pm • 2 Replies • 1075 Views

Submissive male

Frankly I understand the frustration of trying to seek a male sub. I get so many messages just saying “own me” “I’m a sub” “I want to be used by you” which frustrates me to no end because I took the t ...

Thu Feb 24, 2022 11:21 am • 34 Replies • 9863 Views

Re: Submissive male

There are so many so-called submissive men who are actually kinksters. Indirectly they want to fulfill their sexual fetishes and different kinds of kinks in the name of being submissive. They're not f ...

Mon Feb 21, 2022 11:46 am • 34 Replies • 9863 Views

Submissive male

I apologize again, your domina, but I'm afraid we never see eye to eye on this matter.

To elaborate on my stance and not to criticize your own...submissive is a fluid term. Especially within the c ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 6:56 pm • 34 Replies • 9863 Views

Submissive male

Not really
It depends how much you're letting them to dominate you and your submission towards them.

May i ask for more info on that or more explaining?
i really like profile by the way < ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 6:47 pm • 34 Replies • 9863 Views

Submissive male

Does it make you submissive that you want to be have someone who is smart enough to guide you through everything not just sex, someone who is smarter and wiser than you?


Not really
It depends ho ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 6:44 pm • 34 Replies • 9863 Views

Submissive male

There's a difference between a submissive and a sex-slave. In submission sexual stuff is just a part not the full concept. That's why I said most of them are just sex slaves in the name of being so-ca ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 6:36 pm • 34 Replies • 9863 Views

Submissive male

There are so many so-called submissive men who are actually kinksters. Indirectly they want to fulfill their sexual fetishes and different kinds of kinks in the name of being submissive. They're not f ...

Sun Feb 20, 2022 6:03 pm • 34 Replies • 9863 Views