What came first? The relationship or the BDSM?

i have been so confused, and was in a place of such disappointment....i had thinking on this same question. my only MASTER did not explain anything about the lifestyle and i was not allowed to look an ...

Sat Jan 06, 2024 7:41 pm • 10 Replies • 1876 Views

Re: To CLARIFY

This may qualify....? As it has been my only date for some... heh hemm time.
I had massive jaw surgery last Feb. and my care taker was my one of my besties a Male (extremely vanilla).
He was watch ...

Wed Jan 03, 2024 1:43 am • 50 Replies • 6580 Views

To CLARIFY

This may qualify....? As it has been my only date for some... heh hemm time.
I had massive jaw surgery last Feb. and my care taker was my one of my besties a Male (extremely vanilla).
He was watch ...

Wed Jan 03, 2024 1:34 am • 50 Replies • 6580 Views

First Date Horror Stories

This may qualify....? As it has been my only date for some... heh hemm time.
I had massive jaw surgery last Feb. and my care taker was my one of my besties a Male (extremely vanilla).
He was watch ...

Sat Dec 30, 2023 6:09 pm • 50 Replies • 6580 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

Eh. What constitutes copy paste? A word for word generic prompt ctrl+C/ctrl+V to every person? Some sites do offer features like that such as mass email 'icebreakers' to promote your profile. What abo ...

Tue Dec 26, 2023 8:13 am • 63 Replies • 6615 Views

Disconnected 'profiles'

Awesome to read from you TallandSlender and connect again finally! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! xo

So, i thin what i consider a "disconnected profile" to me is someone who is falsely/dishone ...

Tue Dec 26, 2023 7:22 am • 20 Replies • 2713 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

I have had a bunch of guys copy pasting the same shitty message to send me and, honestly... try a bit harder...
I would rather 1 line that says something about me than 4 paragraphs about how I'm supp ...

Mon Dec 25, 2023 2:21 am • 63 Replies • 6615 Views

Do You Copy & Paste?

That's a hard NO for me, writing emails or responding.
i am almost never going to be the one who sends an email to a Dom first. i think i have twice? Questions, and a compliment/respect.
i was rais ...

Sun Dec 24, 2023 2:52 pm • 63 Replies • 6615 Views

Should I stop and leave the community?

It is Your decision and NO one else's. You owe nobody here anything, and you are good enough the way you are. You have s much right to be here as anyone else and move at exactly your pace to enjoy the ...

Tue Dec 12, 2023 7:22 am • 12 Replies • 1849 Views

Dom's treatment of Dommes here

I would tend to lean on the side of there are less Doms in the world than Dommes.
These are the kind in the subject that grace our inboxes with generous sexual offers, and tell us our needs- but what ...

Tue Dec 12, 2023 7:02 am • 20 Replies • 2471 Views