Indicating 'online' in the Bond list of messaging contacts

I'd like to suggest that management consider adding a little highlight indicator to BOND, similar to the 'online' indicator on the messages list.

Currently, if using Bond, there is no way to ...

Fri Jun 01, 2018 12:56 am • 4 Replies • 4105 Views

Never Experienced With Toys

No one has yet mentioned a good REAL LEATHER suede Flogger --under 24 inches overall if it will be self-employed.. and if you think stronger sensations are needed, heavier leather and a longer han ...

Sat May 19, 2018 4:53 pm • 5 Replies • 4849 Views

Need a little help.

Along the same lines, ice play is often enjoyable.....BUT holding a cube directly on a nipple (or the tip of a cock for the count of (say)30-45 seconds is a whole different kind of ice, and will be ...

Thu May 17, 2018 10:12 pm • 4 Replies • 4196 Views

Whatever the sub Detests.....

Since lots of kinds impact play is liked by submissives, just laying it on thicker is not generally an appropriate punishment..

So we often want to keep notes on what our subs really don't like, ...

Thu May 17, 2018 9:26 pm • 4 Replies • 4196 Views

Good Supportive Advice Here So Far

I agree with all the posters that your virginity should be no barrier to enjoying nearly all aspect of your submissiveness.

Of course, before restraints of any kind are used on you, it will be impe ...

Fri Apr 27, 2018 5:58 pm • 14 Replies • 13520 Views

Whoops, Pardon my misspelling your name LiZa....

My bad...

Thu Apr 26, 2018 2:58 am • 8 Replies • 5327 Views

Follow your gut instinct, not your pleasure center...

I'm in basic agreement with Lisa. Your counselor/therapist should get to weigh in on this. My guess is that as you respond to your therapy, and feel better about yourself, the continuing of hars ...

Thu Apr 26, 2018 2:57 am • 8 Replies • 5327 Views

An Alternate Possibility?

Hi Kitty,
Most fascinating post, and great background for your question.

The whole idea of being a switch is a little hard for a Dom-only guy, but I can sympathize a lot with you bein ...

Mon Apr 23, 2018 7:33 pm • 5 Replies • 4554 Views

That is a Rule?

It is always worth a smile to see how many different ways there are to approach getting into a kinky life.. Now the Doctor was raised that mentors were not allowed to have sex with their mentees, w ...

Mon Apr 16, 2018 3:58 pm • 7 Replies • 5360 Views

It is just Simple Play ? Begging to differ.

I've had several online only subbies--some well over a year or more. In my experience, online relationships regularly do involve real emotions, real attachments , real arousal and powerful connect ...

Mon Apr 16, 2018 4:36 am • 19 Replies • 19402 Views