Update from previous post (red flags or just not cut out for

Hi,
I just thought I'd give an update from my previous post as I got so many kind and helpful replies.

I ended the relationship with the man in question. After finally sort of accepting that it wa ...

Fri Oct 28, 2022 4:50 pm • 9 Replies • 1724 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

I just wanted to do a general reply for everyone who's responded to this post and thank you for your kindness, advice and support. It's been very helpful and allowed me to see things a bit more clearl ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 2:34 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

@Diaaa,

Oh my goodness. I'm sorry that you experienced this and from what I am reading between the lines, probably a lot more that you are not sayinf from past relationships.

I'm very much with ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 2:29 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Even from a Dominant's point of view, this was a sea of red flags, so many it's hard to even begin.

ANYBODY that says he doesn't need to communicate in advance should be avoided like the plague. I ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 2:09 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

I’m so sorry this happened to you Diaaa. It’s a lot to process, and I’m glad you’re getting help with that and learning to set healthy boundaries.
Everyone has said almost everything that occurred t ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 1:54 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

Leave this relationship now.

You are too quick to take responsibility for his actions. From what you wrote there is nothing about what happened that is in any way your fault or responsibility, or c ...

Wed Oct 26, 2022 1:49 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

“ I didn’t want to make him uncomfortable if he wasn’t okay talking about it over message so I left it.”
I believe that’s where it began.
You are okay about him not talking to you.!?!

I also didn ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 6:30 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

From what you have written, to me this relationship goes beyond 'red flag' into abuse. I.e., he abused you. i believe "abuse" can be intentional or unintentional, the latter usually because of ignor ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 6:27 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

So many red flags that I don’t know where to start. There should have been communication before any of this happened. Limits should have been discussed and agreed to. It sounds like he just did whatev ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 6:15 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views

Red flags or just not cut out for it?

I’m new to the scene and wanted some advice about my current relationship. My friend thinks there are red flags but I wasn’t sure if it was because she wasn’t used to that level of kink and I’m just n ...

Tue Oct 25, 2022 3:42 pm • 34 Replies • 4892 Views