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Forum Fightclub

Does the whole "lazy" thing count?

Fri Apr 18, 2025 11:02 pm • 163 Replies • 48427 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Forum Fightclub

122

Four Words

Conscience
Responsibility
(And)
Other
Crimes

(I think I owe Steelover another word)

Fri Apr 18, 2025 10:20 pm • 27 Replies • 6029 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Four Words

123

Four Words

Oooh fun!

Ok, first one that comes to mind:

Consensually Negotiated Power-Exchange Relationship/Dynamic/Lifestyle

I’m sure there’ll be others that come to mind…

That's 7

I said 4 ...

Fri Apr 18, 2025 1:32 pm • 27 Replies • 6029 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Four Words

124

Four Words

If you only had four words to describe D/s to other people, what would those four words be?

(Let's not include the BDSM ones. We need to be original here)

I'll post my four after we have a few ...

Fri Apr 18, 2025 3:25 am • 27 Replies • 6029 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Four Words

125

Cheating kink

Really the question becomes how do you define "cuckhold". Do you have to be present during her fornication with others, or does your knowing she is out there banging others without you around fall ...

Thu Apr 10, 2025 8:38 pm • 5 Replies • 3988 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Cheating kink

126

What does slavery mean?

A Master(Mistress)/slave relationship is very Old School type of BDSM. Back in my day, it was top echelon of relationships. The slave was property to the M type and each side fully understood wha ...

Thu Apr 10, 2025 8:30 pm • 13 Replies • 7199 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

What does slavery mean?

127

Is fear a kink?

Now I will say that I have had s types read my profile, look at my pics and tell me I am scary.

Which I think it pretty cool, but not in the idea of inducing fear during a scene.

Mainly I thi ...

Sun Apr 06, 2025 3:29 am • 25 Replies • 11114 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

Topic

Is fear a kink?

128

question about negotiating a scene

The question, to me, is the timing.

Before hand, during the "negotiations" (I hate that word in conjunction with the lifestyle, but have yet to come up with something different) is perfectly f ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 4:11 pm • 7 Replies • 4201 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

question about negotiating a scene

129

Ghosting / disappearing

Maybe we can set up a metric of those that disappear the most

Call it

"The Ghostest with the Mostest"

Thu Apr 03, 2025 10:22 pm • 7 Replies • 1927 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Ghosting / disappearing

130

What's worst?

Reading bad grammar is what is the worst.

Thu Mar 27, 2025 11:47 pm • 21 Replies • 5341 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What's worst?