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BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

Now while I have dealt with a great deal of bullshit, the best I can figure is a male (either side of the collar) to show up and fuck someone. I've always thought of them as sorta like the mechanic ...

Wed Feb 05, 2025 1:19 am • 16 Replies • 4748 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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BULL - Anyone Have Experience With One?

162

How long should a session last?

The problem is different s types have different levels of strength and stamina.

Depending on the type of scene and the given s type, it can last hours or minutes.

Hell, I have had ones that ...

Tue Feb 04, 2025 5:04 pm • 3 Replies • 1588 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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How long should a session last?

163

A question of philosophy - submissive's journey

So after reading a particular profile, I spend a good deal of the evening pondering a rather new idea:

What if we are doing this wrong. What if instead of doing long term relationships, we shoul ...

Tue Feb 04, 2025 5:27 am • 5 Replies • 1421 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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A question of philosophy - submissive's journey

164

How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

Really, this should all come out during negotiations, or what I always call "The Dance". To really bring it home, you probably should put it down on paper and have each side sign it. While this i ...

Mon Feb 03, 2025 3:45 pm • 6 Replies • 1361 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

165

Is fear a kink?

I've always found the use of fear as a control measure rather idiotic.

I can much more from an s type by trust and proper communication so I can do horrible things to them. Wanting to give ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 10:17 pm • 25 Replies • 10053 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Is fear a kink?

166

Stupid Questions For Men

I have an impression that men would rather talk on the phone or in the chat with a potential match rather than type messages. Is this true? If so why?

Oh hell. I love typing for months, as long a ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 5:11 am • 69 Replies • 14226 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Stupid Questions For Men

167

Is fear a kink?

The question is whether it is a kink or is it an addiction.

That is why we have so many modern horror movies, people are addicted to the adrenaline rush.

Fear is also a control tool. Pretty ...

Sat Feb 01, 2025 4:40 pm • 25 Replies • 10053 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Is fear a kink?

168

Getting kinky

Oh!

And Branding

Being intendance of a branding ceremony once, many years ago, and remembering what the smell was like.

So no.

Fri Jan 31, 2025 3:12 pm • 11 Replies • 2152 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Getting kinky

169

Getting kinky

Micro Managing!

Gawd that is boring! The two times I worked with s types who were into it, I found (much later) out both were just lazy. They didn't want to have to make choices and put it of ...

Fri Jan 31, 2025 12:18 am • 11 Replies • 2152 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Getting kinky

170

age gaps

I mean I don't know what I would do with a 24 year old, at my age

It makes me think about Captain America's line about wanting someone with matching life experience when talking with Black Widow.
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Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:38 pm • 25 Replies • 11424 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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age gaps