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A question of philosophy - submissive's journey

So after reading a particular profile, I spend a good deal of the evening pondering a rather new idea:

What if we are doing this wrong. What if instead of doing long term relationships, we shoul ...

Tue Feb 04, 2025 5:27 am • 5 Replies • 1675 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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A question of philosophy - submissive's journey

172

How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

Really, this should all come out during negotiations, or what I always call "The Dance". To really bring it home, you probably should put it down on paper and have each side sign it. While this i ...

Mon Feb 03, 2025 3:45 pm • 6 Replies • 1675 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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How does a dom want boundaries/limits presented

173

Is fear a kink?

I've always found the use of fear as a control measure rather idiotic.

I can much more from an s type by trust and proper communication so I can do horrible things to them. Wanting to give ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 10:17 pm • 25 Replies • 11118 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Is fear a kink?

174

Stupid Questions For Men

I have an impression that men would rather talk on the phone or in the chat with a potential match rather than type messages. Is this true? If so why?

Oh hell. I love typing for months, as long a ...

Sun Feb 02, 2025 5:11 am • 69 Replies • 16175 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Stupid Questions For Men

175

Is fear a kink?

The question is whether it is a kink or is it an addiction.

That is why we have so many modern horror movies, people are addicted to the adrenaline rush.

Fear is also a control tool. Pretty ...

Sat Feb 01, 2025 4:40 pm • 25 Replies • 11118 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Is fear a kink?

176

Getting kinky

Oh!

And Branding

Being intendance of a branding ceremony once, many years ago, and remembering what the smell was like.

So no.

Fri Jan 31, 2025 3:12 pm • 11 Replies • 2573 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Getting kinky

177

Getting kinky

Micro Managing!

Gawd that is boring! The two times I worked with s types who were into it, I found (much later) out both were just lazy. They didn't want to have to make choices and put it of ...

Fri Jan 31, 2025 12:18 am • 11 Replies • 2573 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Getting kinky

178

age gaps

I mean I don't know what I would do with a 24 year old, at my age

It makes me think about Captain America's line about wanting someone with matching life experience when talking with Black Widow.
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Wed Jan 29, 2025 3:38 pm • 25 Replies • 12329 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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age gaps

179

Why do some seek a bottom to top

Opportunism via dick brain.

I resemble that remark

Tue Jan 28, 2025 11:28 pm • 9 Replies • 2085 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Why do some seek a bottom to top

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age gaps

More than likely no one really care about Bill. Everyone know she is doing it for the money and as long as they are honest with each other, more power to them.

What I think is great is older ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 10:59 pm • 25 Replies • 12329 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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age gaps