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Why do some seek a bottom to top

Opportunism via dick brain.

I resemble that remark

Tue Jan 28, 2025 11:28 pm • 9 Replies • 1703 Views

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TopekaDom

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Why do some seek a bottom to top

172

age gaps

More than likely no one really care about Bill. Everyone know she is doing it for the money and as long as they are honest with each other, more power to them.

What I think is great is older ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 10:59 pm • 25 Replies • 11425 Views

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age gaps

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Now this may seem like a straw man argument, but it really isn't. It is a question of morality and where one stands within the lifestyle.

You may want to answer or not. I'm not really looki ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 5:01 am • 14 Replies • 2918 Views

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

174

Insight

You’re right that subdrop can be physical, and for some people, orange juice and a blanket might be the magic fix. Lucky them. But not everyone is that simple, and suggesting that looking beyond “basi ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 8:43 pm • 15 Replies • 3012 Views

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Insight

Orange juice and a blanket doesn’t always cut it, and it feels dismissive of those that have a harder time with drop. I have been stuck in drop for days, doing all the self care things, Daddy doing al ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 8:19 pm • 15 Replies • 3012 Views

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Insight

Best prescription I have for subdrop is a glass of OJ and a warm blanket for a bit.

As to slipping into it: It is like a big O, anything can set it off.

So congrats and glad you had such ...

Sun Jan 26, 2025 4:19 pm • 15 Replies • 3012 Views

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177

From Submissive to Switch?

I wish you great luck with it. Not all relationships can survive when one person evolves from one role to another.

My wife went from sub to switch to Domme. I told her she needed to get h ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 2:33 pm • 6 Replies • 1612 Views

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From Submissive to Switch?

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

Mostly I think it is deceit. Those "Doms" who contact you seeking submission to you are just looking to get their rocks off. They have no real interest in being submissive, but think you are a kink ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 2:05 am • 18 Replies • 5582 Views

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

179

Let’s talk Roleplay

Like most ppl here, role-playing is all talk.

You are always such the cherry fellow! ??

Tue Jan 14, 2025 10:22 pm • 12 Replies • 2363 Views

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TopekaDom

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Let’s talk Roleplay

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Let’s talk Roleplay

Costuming helps a great deal with role play, real time. It will give both sides of the collar a focus to get into the roles.

Tue Jan 14, 2025 8:27 pm • 12 Replies • 2363 Views

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Let’s talk Roleplay