Playing with no Committment

I know people inside as well as outside of the collar who do it rather easily. The idea is lies in the fact there are three sides to the lifestyle: Emotional, Mental, and Physical.

Playing falls i ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 1:25 pm • 34 Replies • 4800 Views

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

I'm honestly curious how punching or kicking is even executed safely from a body mechanics viewpoint. Like how does one control an impact like that to cause pain, but without damage?

The sub I knew ...

Wed Sep 27, 2023 4:45 am • 5 Replies • 755 Views

Dominant Styles

My style is something that has worked for very few, as it is the very few who understands it.

I don't hunt. I don't pursue.

Instead, I talk and educate. I draw verbal pictures how things sh ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 1:14 pm • 19 Replies • 3940 Views

When Is It Too Much? Impact Edition

If I have to use a closed fist, then, yeah no.

Yes I have known s types who love black eyes and gut punches, but I tain't doing that.

I'll bite, scratch, slap, hard pinch, tit squeeze, hair ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:47 am • 5 Replies • 755 Views

Are doms always tops??? ⬆ (and subs bottoms) ⬇

I can't believe I haven't chimed in on this one (at least up to page 5, then I quit looking)

In my day things ran:

Master/Mistress: Owner of property
Dom/me: had/could have subs
Tops: play p ...

Mon Sep 25, 2023 4:19 am • 87 Replies • 14419 Views

Older Submissives Health Issues During Play

Mainly as they have gotten old, it becomes more of service than as physical play. Although even in service, things like kneeling can be troublesome. As is all things within the lifestyle, it takes ...

Sat Sep 23, 2023 6:55 pm • 33 Replies • 3626 Views

My Way or the Highway

Mainly this question is for the Dom/mes, but anyone is free to post a reply:

Do you have items that are non negotiable when it comes to establishing a relationship with a new s type? Is everythi ...

Sat Sep 23, 2023 3:47 pm • 6 Replies • 1059 Views

Ownership

Well from an Old School view, BEING collared meant being owned. The thing was understanding, back then, what wearing a collar meant to someone.

These days it is simple an ornament. A fashion ...

Fri Sep 22, 2023 12:47 pm • 11 Replies • 2003 Views

Re: BDSM is....

Secondly, Honor
Again, not just the sub to the Dom/me but from the Dom/me to the s type. When we take someone under our wing, we owe it to them to see to their well being. Their duty to us de ...

Thu Sep 21, 2023 2:30 pm • 7 Replies • 1062 Views

Philosophical Question for the Submissives/Slaves

What's your position on this, TopekaDom? As a dom, would you rather have your sub be honest with you or would you rather they keep it to themselves so you could enjoy your scene? Let's open up the dis ...

Wed Sep 20, 2023 9:19 pm • 40 Replies • 5228 Views