Friend is encountering a LOT of "Fake" Doms, "Bulls", etc... I need to hear from

You act like Fet is something new and different. Let's be a tad real here: Fet, while going down hill, is where most people have gotten their first online experience for the last 20 years or so. ...

Sat Jun 10, 2023 11:35 pm • 14 Replies • 4915 Views

Different types of poly dynamics

There is no "normal" poly relationship. Each given relationship is defined by EVERYONE involved within that particular relationship. Now the Dom/me has the decision to lay out the guidelines, but ...

Fri Jun 09, 2023 3:07 pm • 21 Replies • 5838 Views

Musing turned Inquiry: Demanding Relocation

Mostly, the Dom/me making the s type move to them is a control issue. I moved my former slave from AZ out here back in the late 90s. Though it was on my dime.

I also know a couple of Doms ...

Thu Jun 08, 2023 2:40 am • 20 Replies • 5617 Views

50 SHADES OF GREY, WHATS YOUR OPINION?

A big pile of crap.

Really, a Twilight fanfic that got worked over.

I can shit a better book.

Wed Jun 07, 2023 1:03 am • 24 Replies • 5605 Views

What do you know now...

That it was mandatory to wear a black biker's vest, being a Dom and all.

Mon Jun 05, 2023 7:06 pm • 7 Replies • 1907 Views

Relationship and Separate D/s dynamic

What people don't want to hear, and it is really essential, is to go talk to the non D/s dynamic parter. There are guidelines that have to be set up, rules that EVERYONE has to follow. Without this ...

Tue May 30, 2023 11:54 pm • 10 Replies • 2893 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

And when they hit their limit? What happened then? Were you happy and content to stay in within that ballfield?
Or was it move on to the next ?

When they hit their safe word, that's it. That ...

Tue May 30, 2023 11:09 pm • 37 Replies • 17770 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

... Well, hmm... I tend to think that if you're in Topeka, everything is a snooze-fest.

Never been to Kansas at all but it's on my bucket list to set foot there then get out so I can truly say ...

Tue May 30, 2023 7:11 pm • 37 Replies • 17770 Views

Song for a Dominant

It tis
It tis a glorious thing

To be A Dominant King

Tue May 30, 2023 5:08 pm • 5 Replies • 1106 Views

For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

Hmm... You were the type back in the day whose raging hardon got a nice (but not too harsh) rake job on the way out. Always fun to keep Mr. Woody on the sidelines a little while.



And this ...

Tue May 30, 2023 1:29 pm • 37 Replies • 17770 Views