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What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

It means they use proper sex protections?

(Hey, I thought it was funny at 5 am)

Thu Jul 20, 2023 1:42 pm • 17 Replies • 6114 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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What does 'protected' mean and does it work?

552

Punishment/ reward

But to answer the OP, rewards and punishments are control factors and all control factors are manipulative. As are all things in the universe, manipulation is neither good or bad, but how they are u ...

Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:13 am • 9 Replies • 2361 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Punishment/ reward

553

Punishment/ reward

Perhaps that is why there also known as "Funishments"

Gawd I hate that term.

Wed Jul 12, 2023 4:10 am • 9 Replies • 2361 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Punishment/ reward

554

Where to find toys?

If you are looking for leather goods, I would suggest https://www.hololeathers.com/ . All my floggers were handmade by a fellow Dom years ago and just had Holo rehandle two of them. They do very ...

Tue Jul 11, 2023 2:31 am • 16 Replies • 5194 Views

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TopekaDom

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Equipment & Toys

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Where to find toys?

555

Big penis humiliation..?

Guess the only thing I got to contribute was the time I threatened to get out my hose clamps cuz he was too big for my gates of hell

Wed Jul 05, 2023 1:50 am • 14 Replies • 7222 Views

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TopekaDom

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Femdom

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Big penis humiliation..?

556

Non sexual sadistic domination

Serving as furniture seemed to turn into punishments, did you mean funishments?

Not all human furniture is "punishment".

I find objectification can be a very interesting form of servitude. ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 11:12 pm • 8 Replies • 3180 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Non sexual sadistic domination

557

Non sexual sadistic domination

I often relate a relationship I had with an s type back in the late 90s. This was a woman who was engaged to a guy who put her on a pedestal. This woman could not do anything wrong is this guy's e ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 9:24 pm • 8 Replies • 3180 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Non sexual sadistic domination

558

Favorite protocols

Protocols can fall into any type of relationship, not just M/s ones. They are wonderful tools that allows the s type to focus on mental aspect of the lifestyle. Mostly the problem is people don' ...

Mon Jul 03, 2023 6:24 pm • 8 Replies • 3438 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Favorite protocols

559

Ask a Dom/me or s type anything

So here it is the holiday weekend and I am watching the Tremors set for like the 5th time. Being that bored, I thought I would see if this site would be up to a bit of a Q & A.

I want to se ...

Sun Jul 02, 2023 11:03 pm • 6 Replies • 1448 Views

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TopekaDom

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Just for Fun

Topic

Ask a Dom/me or s type anything

560

Tasks vs Rules

Maybe I should ask this instead:
Is it fair to say that rules are things outlined that always remain in place, day to day, unless otherwise stated: whereas tasks are things that may vary day-to-day? ...

Sun Jul 02, 2023 6:30 pm • 16 Replies • 5979 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Tasks vs Rules