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Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

You're

Tue Jun 13, 2023 12:56 am • 37 Replies • 9028 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

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Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

I will say this, Dude: Whining about getting turned down by a lady is not a real good look on a Dom. Being the old ass fart I am and doing the online game for about 30 years now, I have been turne ...

Mon Jun 12, 2023 1:43 pm • 37 Replies • 9028 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

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Friend is encountering a LOT of "Fake" Doms, "Bulls", etc... I need to hear from

You act like Fet is something new and different. Let's be a tad real here: Fet, while going down hill, is where most people have gotten their first online experience for the last 20 years or so. ...

Sat Jun 10, 2023 11:35 pm • 14 Replies • 5221 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Friend is encountering a LOT of "Fake" Doms, "Bulls", etc... I need to hear from

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Different types of poly dynamics

There is no "normal" poly relationship. Each given relationship is defined by EVERYONE involved within that particular relationship. Now the Dom/me has the decision to lay out the guidelines, but ...

Fri Jun 09, 2023 3:07 pm • 21 Replies • 6331 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Different types of poly dynamics

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Musing turned Inquiry: Demanding Relocation

Mostly, the Dom/me making the s type move to them is a control issue. I moved my former slave from AZ out here back in the late 90s. Though it was on my dime.

I also know a couple of Doms ...

Thu Jun 08, 2023 2:40 am • 20 Replies • 5995 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Musing turned Inquiry: Demanding Relocation

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50 SHADES OF GREY, WHATS YOUR OPINION?

A big pile of crap.

Really, a Twilight fanfic that got worked over.

I can shit a better book.

Wed Jun 07, 2023 1:03 am • 24 Replies • 5945 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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50 SHADES OF GREY, WHATS YOUR OPINION?

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What do you know now...

That it was mandatory to wear a black biker's vest, being a Dom and all.

Mon Jun 05, 2023 7:06 pm • 7 Replies • 2021 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What do you know now...

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Relationship and Separate D/s dynamic

What people don't want to hear, and it is really essential, is to go talk to the non D/s dynamic parter. There are guidelines that have to be set up, rules that EVERYONE has to follow. Without this ...

Tue May 30, 2023 11:54 pm • 10 Replies • 3068 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Relationship and Separate D/s dynamic

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For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

And when they hit their limit? What happened then? Were you happy and content to stay in within that ballfield?
Or was it move on to the next ?

When they hit their safe word, that's it. That ...

Tue May 30, 2023 11:09 pm • 37 Replies • 18268 Views

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TopekaDom

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Maledom

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For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

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For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

... Well, hmm... I tend to think that if you're in Topeka, everything is a snooze-fest.

Never been to Kansas at all but it's on my bucket list to set foot there then get out so I can truly say ...

Tue May 30, 2023 7:11 pm • 37 Replies • 18268 Views

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TopekaDom

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Maledom

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For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why