Anyone have ideas?

Get a good quality shock collar! You can either buy one online of upgrade one from your local pet shop to a locking leather one! Used them many times on unruly or reluctant slaves! These things work ...

Tue Oct 16, 2018 6:17 pm • 14 Replies • 11920 Views

How to explain myself to a Vanilla

Vanilla - a flavor often misunderstood, or misrepresented! When it comes to a D/s relationship and in order for it to succeed, it must be fully understood by BOTH parties! One cannot hold a relatio ...

Thu Sep 20, 2018 7:10 pm • 16 Replies • 6205 Views

slave vs submissive...

I wish to refer everyone back to my post in which I mentioned that anyone who abuses their slave will be slaveless!

I have seen many marriages and relationships fail - mainly due to miscommunicati ...

Wed Sep 19, 2018 7:15 pm • 14 Replies • 6396 Views

Perspective

I am happy to attest that I have been in the D/s community for over 4 decades now! Through the passing of time, I have seen the word "submissive" redefined although once there was no such definition ...

Tue Sep 18, 2018 6:59 pm • 14 Replies • 6396 Views

Northern Illinois (and surrounding areas) Cage Munch

We/I would be interested in a meet and greet! I myself have been in the D/s community for decades, have met some wonderful people, and enjoy their different views an lifestyles! Been "open" since m ...

Fri Apr 06, 2018 5:51 pm • 39 Replies • 21505 Views

Northern Illinois (and surrounding areas) Cage Munch

I would be interested in attending as well. Our schedule often precludes me/us from attending of these, especially during the summer months. We are in the Joliet area and are mobile.

Mon Apr 02, 2018 6:58 pm • 39 Replies • 21505 Views

When The Submissive Does The Leaving: Handling Loss For The Dominant

As I approach the Fall of my years, I can reflect upon this subject matter. I have trained and collared several lovely ladies over the years, including a wife or two. I have had the pleasure of exp ...

Tue Mar 27, 2018 5:24 pm • 19 Replies • 26767 Views

pictures

I own and run a business building dungeons and dungeon equipment for discerning clients. I insist that all provide a Prove-Up photo of themselves before we actually discuss a meeting or builds for th ...

Fri Mar 09, 2018 6:08 pm • 18 Replies • 9872 Views