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Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

You may be a sub and you may be a little, but you are still an adult with a responsibility to yourself and your partner to protect yourself and established boundaries. You shouldn't be doing any kind ...

Wed Aug 05, 2026 10:16 am • 12 Replies • 1341 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Why subs with trauma feel scared trusting

The site thinks I’m a child

The site thinks all of us are children since we apparently can't handle explicit images.

Fri Jul 24, 2026 10:30 pm • 12 Replies • 592 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Technical Support

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The site thinks I’m a child

Relactation

I've also heard of people using suggestion to make it happen. My grandmother never breastfed any of her children, but she started lactating spontaneously when my cousin was born. His crying induced it ...

Thu Jul 23, 2026 7:52 pm • 8 Replies • 982 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Fetish

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Relactation

Anyone else feel like Dom/Sub/Switch labels just don't quite fit?

You could just use the term "kinky". That covers just about everything and it's way shorter and more concise than some of the previous suggestions.

Sun Jul 19, 2026 9:33 pm • 15 Replies • 1515 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Absolute Beginners

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Anyone else feel like Dom/Sub/Switch labels just don't quite fit?

What is a Sub Top like?

My understanding is that the sub does the topping as an act of service to the person being topped--presumably their dominant, for example. I suppose a scenario could also exist where the sub's dominan ...

Sun Jul 19, 2026 2:21 am • 6 Replies • 506 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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What is a Sub Top like?

What do you.....?

I am unable to see past one line here. It misses the largest responsibility of being a Dom. Control doesn’t have any value just because someone obeys. A sub is putting an immense amount of trust and ...

Tue Jul 14, 2026 5:58 am • 28 Replies • 2301 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What do you.....?

Mon Jul 13, 2026 4:26 pm • 28 Replies • 2301 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What do you.....?

Advice on asking my partner to dom me

You could start by bringing up a general discussion about BDSM in wider popular culture and asking what he thinks about it. Sound him out about what he thinks of the different roles and if any of them ...

Fri Jul 10, 2026 10:24 pm • 3 Replies • 475 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Gay BDSM

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Advice on asking my partner to dom me

Exhibitionism

There are people on here and on a certain other well-known kink site who post explicit pictures of themselves to satisfy this kink. On here, they do it on their blogs. This other site that I'm sure yo ...

Wed Jul 01, 2026 10:41 pm • 10 Replies • 1693 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Fetish

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Exhibitionism

After some advice

Thank you. It's very hard for me to be open to people because I find trust very difficult. My guard is always up; but in order to meet up, I did have to lower it. I just hate having my time wasted. I ...

Sun Jun 21, 2026 4:07 am • 7 Replies • 549 Views

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B L O N D I E

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Generally Speaking

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After some advice